Is this okay? Himmanshoo's language with Amruta - Page 2

@Unnati and @The-Trendsetter.

@ Trendsetter, I respect your views.

In annoyance and anger there are lines. If Himmanshoo was joking it would not be a big deal. But he has called her stupid and now idiot. He said it out of frustration.

People have different standards of what they accept. Your standards can be different. However many people have lines.

Just because a couple is cute and on TV does not mean that everything is accepted.

@ Vedika, I appreciate you responding.

Do you see the logical fallacy that as long as people are okay with what happens in a marriage it is not anyone's business?

Do you see that a lot of things can then happen and that society should look the other way?

Amruta said that she tolerates the way Himmanshoo talks to her and has adjusted.

I think there should be higher standards in a relationship. But I respect your views

@ Unnati,

Amruta has said that she does not like it but tolerates it. I like Himmanshoo for a long time but his short tempered name-calling very disagreeable. No other spouse or girlfriend is spoken to like that in anger at least in front of the camera.

Yes it is true that it is their choice to have this relationship. However it is being held up as a "great love"

You may be fine one day when in annoyance or anger your spouse calls you stupid in front of millions of people. That is fine.

However is is not a standard that women should aspire to. Being spoken to in a respectful manner is a fundamental right that many people demand.

Again in your personal standard you may be fine with a certain behavior, but it does not make it right.

They are aware that they are on national tv; Himmanshoo called her stupid before and Amruta was upset. Yet there is no filtering on his part of humiliating her.

@ Trendsetter, Amruta does have a problem with it as she got angry and has talked about the way he talks in anger as something he should apologize for

Do you think that because they are friends like Tom and Jerry all behavior is okay? Think about having some personal borders and standards. Being best friends means that you respect your friend. Amruta obviously does not like Himmanshoo's words in anger. She has stated this. He called her in anger stupid and an idiot. Actually it is not okay.

Yes she can sacrifice and say she puts up with it. But women should aspire for more. In fact people should. Why on national TV does he talk to her in such a way. She told the camera she does not like him in anger saying bad things to her.

It is fine. This jodi is cute. But people should be treated better

Originally posted by: Julie0001

@ Trendsetter, I respect your views.

In annoyance and anger there are lines. If Himmanshoo was joking it would not be a big deal. But he has called her stupid and now idiot. He said it out of frustration.

People have different standards of what they accept. Your standards can be different. However many people have lines.

Just because a couple is cute and on TV does not mean that everything is accepted.

@ Trendsetter

Peace, you have your views. I respect that.

Himmanshoo should not talk to her like that. And yes her calling him idiot back is not good either. It is disrespectful. I would not be fine with my sister's husband talking to her like that even in anger.

Just in real life aspire for more than what is shown on soaps and TV.

It is fine that you adore this couple, have your favorite shows you use as a reference to standards in a relationship.

Just in real life have a fairy tale of your own that goes beyond what you see on TV. Have standards for your spouse and yourself that are higher then these people. Demand a little more in life than the relationships that you see on TV. Himmanshoo and Amruta should not be your bar. Go beyond that.

Take care and I wish you the best.

Originally posted by: Julie0001

Its your choice and we respect it but dear one person's opinion cant define whats right and whats wrong! If Amruta doesn't have any problem with Himmanshoo for calling her idiot or stupid then who are we to comment on it! Not just for Himruta but for all the celebrity couples, we get too involved that we forget that they are humans too. They have some weak points. Its easy to sit here and pass judgements.

As for husband and wife relations, the relation u will have with your partner is entirely different from the relation which Himruta share! They are more of friends! And I have seen friends cum couples who fight like tom & Jerry everyday but that doesnt mean they don't love each other (Have you seen Yeh hai mohobattien? Raman and Ishita (lead jodi) often call each other idiot pagal and dont leave an option to insult each other but they also love each so much that they think about the other's happiness always )! The fact is they have known each other for 11 years and they are best of friends before being husband wife!

@ Trendsetter, Amruta does have a problem with it as she got angry and has talked about the way he talks in anger as something he should apologize for

Originally posted by: Julie0001

@ Trendsetter

Peace, you have your views. I respect that.

Just in real life aspire for more than what is shown on soaps and TV.

It is fine that you adore this couple, have your favorite shows you use as a reference to standards in a relationship.

Just in real life have a fairy tale of your own that goes beyond what you see on TV. Have standards for your spouse and yourself that are higher then these people. Demand a little more in life than the relationships that you see on TV. Himmanshoo and Amruta should not be your bar. Go beyond that.

Himmanshoo should not talk to her like that. And yes her calling him idiot back is not good either. It is disrespectful. I would not be fine with my sister's husband talking to her like that even in anger.



Take care and I wish you the best.

@Trendsetter, it is obvious that you are very young. You seem like a very sweet person. Aspire for more than what you are being shown on TV.

I like Himmanshoo for many years. It does not mean that I have to like all aspects of him. That is the difference between blind fandom and liking a celebrity.

You seem to think that "True Love" is accepting all behavior. That is not true at all. I am sorry you feel that as it can lead to people becoming a doormat

I think he should be more respectful towards her both in public and private with his use of language.