Nupur ... I've always wanted to ask you ..........
As Indian living abroad ............. how does it feel ?
I mean ........ Do you feel at home / accepted / at ease ???
Or do you always have this 'nostalgia' thing at the back of your mind ..... of returning to your homeland ............
I'm assuming you went abroad after you got married ..... or did you migrate much earlier ?
And how much of the ABCD (American Born Confused Desi) factor is true ???
You know why I'm curious ?????
Actually a couple of weeks back ....... in a relative's wedding ..... I was introduced to an NRI guy ........ though everything was innocent on the surface ........ It was actually a boy-meet-girl thingy .......
The person who introduced us ......another common relative ....... was literally grinning ear ot ear ............ It was so damn embarassing 😡.......
I think the guy was here on a short holiday and had to meet up with as many girls as possible ...... to make a choice you know ....
As guys go ..... he wasn't too bad ..... mild mannered and polite ..... after the usual small talk .... out of the blue he asked me if I'd like to settle abroad .......... I was caught unawares .... but blurted out "NO".... it was kinda reflex action ..........
Now comes the funny part ........... the guy visibly relaxed 😆 .......... I could almost see him .... mentally crossing my name off his list ..... he must have been under tremendous pressure to make a quick decision ..... and my "NO" must have helped him make up his mind .......... 😆
After that we talked quite a while ..... but it was all so normal and relaxed ..... having mutually decided to throw in the towel ..... opting out of the match-making ring ......
And the best part ..... the match-maker kept looking daggers at me for the rest of the day ............ 😆
Later I was talking to my Mom .... I not too sure why I was so emphatic in refusing to settle abroad ....... When my bro came to know of this .... he was livid ..... He scolded my Mom for agreeing to these stupid schemes ........ Poor Mom ..... not her fault really .......... But then ..... we cant reason with my bro when he gets into that avtaar ......😆
So I just wanted to talk about this to someone who might have gone thru this .......... 😆
I hope I'm not making you feel like an Agony Aunt .......... 😳