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Posted: 17 years ago
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Dewy,
You have a right and clear thought. Dont apologise for it. We are here as friends to hear, discuss and forget. Please don't fret about it. 🤗
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: skeptical

There were a few dialogues which give solace in the sense that she doesn't want to hurt the others in the family. I distinctly remember two.

My hindi mayb a bit rusted but the message is loud and clear.
1. Woh mere buzurg hain. Unka pasand napasand sar ankhon par
2. Gehu ke saath kabhi kabhi gud ko bhi pisna padta hain.
She doesn't want to involve or hurt the family. But she knews they are going to be affected. She will try and cushion the blow as much as she can for them.

Ya, thats the solace here.. she is not intentionally out to hurt them.. I just hope that she is not pushed so much so that she has to.
Why is ur Hindi rusty Skep?? And its 'ghun' ..its the little bugs which are there in the wheat..
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: morningdew

Ya, thats the solace here.. she is not intentionally out to hurt them.. I just hope that she is not pushed so much so that she has to.
Why is ur Hindi rusty Skep?? And its 'ghun' ..its the little bugs which are there in the wheat..

Thats what I meant that my hindi is rusty. I knew the idiomatic form., but cudn't tell ghun from gud. I understood the overall meaning alright.😳
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: morningdew

JO, what bigger damage cud she do to the psyche than blackmailing Raj into marrying her, without his family's permission? Knowing that , that particular day was a landmark day for his family.. she completely ruined their reputation, and made them laughing stock.
Agreed, it was all to hurt Raj, but his family suffered greatly in the process, nahi?
After the marriage, she hasnt done anything disrespectful, agreed, but she will continue to harass Raj using his family as bait.

Ena I guess tomorrow we will see that... when Raj's family will b totally embarassed seeing their D-I-L in jail😲...Kranti wanted to embarass his own family and by participating in this Andolan she will achieve her goal..
I agree why the family had to pay the price of your childrens misdeeds😡🤢...
Now in the End Raj will transform for sure and he too will join Kranti in her KK mission😳 but in all this the real sufferers will b Raj and Kranti's family
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06

Ena I guess tomorrow we will see that... when Raj's family will b totally embarassed seeing their D-I-L in jail😲...Kranti wanted to embarass his own family and by participating in this Andolan she will achieve her goal..
I agree why the family had to pay the price of your childrens misdeeds😡🤢...
Now in the End Raj will transform for sure and he too will join Kranti in her KK mission😳 but in all this the real sufferers will b Raj and Kranti's family

Yup, thats true.. but then, family always has to pay for the children;s deeds.. good or bad..wish kids wud realise that.. and wash their dirty linen in the privacy of their own rooms.. 😡
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Posted: 17 years ago
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MD u r right !!...that there wud b no difference if kranti does what Raj did.. ...Raj has done it practically in case of kranti's family and Tauji...
but Kranti hasn't done anything if u see.....she is just using his family as an excuse........so raj could understand what she has gone through (which i don't think he would any soon)... if u see she didn't take BBR help to hurt him or his family......I think she doesn't want to hurt him either...it is just a way to make him pay the price for what he did....or make him realise how it feels when your family is being dragged in some situation for personal enemity............it is just an avenge....but I'm sure it is not going to be there forever.....as she joins KK again.....she would be busy kicking angrez out....instead of making him suffers........she is just trying to trim his unseen wings....which caused her so much pain!!...........and I'm sure she would go to fulfill her duty for her country....if she goes out and join in Satnaam's group....she wouldn't go intentionally to insult Raj's family....she just had no idea that 'laati charge' would happen and she would end up in jail.....
...they had to get hurt somewhat whether in the party or someother place.....this much was required to make them understand the pain anyone's family (kranti's family) had gone through.....I just hope ..none's family faces side-effect of their realtion-ship.....
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Dew, thatz a very valid point u made. but let me tell u something....to take revenge on someone the best way is to hurt his near and dear ones. that way the person will get badly hurt.
it is true in all cases. even during wartimes many civilians get bombed down. these situations r unavoidable although i dont support it.
this is a bitter truth that we hv to accept grudgingly or not.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I agree with An here ................a chain reaction has started ...........
Kranti wants Raj to suffer for his misdeeds .......... and she will do anything to that end ...............
But she does have regards for his family ............. much more than he had for hers .............
Raj looked down upon Mamiji & Lovely (quite rightly so )
Thot Nirmal inconsequential ..........
Kranti got under his skin ..... but he never hated her ........
Used Mamaji to get at Tauji ( who according to him was a terrorist)
He never saw the fall out of this ........... Kranti sold off to the Buddha ............ In fact, I dont think Raj ever realised what his manipulations could do to Kranti ............
He set out to do something and everything went awry / badly wrong .......... causing Kranti untold misery in the process .........
Similarly Kranti sets out to take revenge on Raj ...........
And his family gets hurt in the process...............
Though, here she is aware they are hurting hence the "gehu-gun" dialog ............
I agree with Dew ........... families pay for theirchildren's misdeeds .........And not many children realise that ..........
Like Aditi says ......... you hurt a person most when you hurt his family ........... And that is the worst way to take revenge on someone ......
And Raj never thot of that.............Hope Kranti realises that soon enuf .........
And as Dew said lets hope "dirty linen gets washed in private" .................
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dawn Idol

I agree with An here ................a chain reaction has started ...........

Kranti wants Raj to suffer for his misdeeds .......... and she will do anything to that end ...............
But she does have regards for his family ............. much more than he had for hers .............
Raj looked down upon Mamiji & Lovely (quite rightly so )
Thot Nirmal inconsequential ..........
Kranti got under his skin ..... but he never hated her ........
Used Mamaji to get at Tauji ( who according to him was a terrorist)
He never saw the fall out of this ........... Kranti sold off to the Buddha ............ In fact, I dont think Raj ever realised what his manipulations could do to Kranti ............
He set out to do something and everything went awry / badly wrong .......... causing Kranti untold misery in the process .........
Similarly Kranti sets out to take revenge on Raj ...........
And his family gets hurt in the process...............
Though, here she is aware they are hurting hence the "gehu-gun" dialog ............
I agree with Dew ........... families pay for theirchildren's misdeeds .........And not many children realise that ..........
Like Aditi says ......... you hurt a person most when you hurt his family ........... And that is the worst way to take revenge on someone ......
And Raj never thot of that.............Hope Kranti realises that soon enuf .........
And as Dew said lets hope "dirty linen gets washed in private" .................

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: aditi123_78

Dew, thatz a very valid point u made. but let me tell u something....to take revenge on someone the best way is to hurt his near and dear ones. that way the person will get badly hurt.

it is true in all cases. even during wartimes many civilians get bombed down. these situations r unavoidable although i dont support it.
this is a bitter truth that we hv to accept grudgingly or not.

Thats true Aditi but still I feel Kranti should not hv used his family to take revenge on Raj...I mean Kranti always was portrayed as a very Ideolistic girl and she never even tried to hurt even that Buddha's family after so much torture..so this time too Kranti could hv embarassed Raj in front of everyone by putting him permanently in jail for that Buddha's death or something else😉..why to involve the innocent parents here😭...
Like Dawn beautifully said hope Kranti soon see the other side of the coin too and also hopefully Nirmal's wishes will b coming true soon😉😛

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