Neel Oberoi : Every Rose Has It's Thorns - Page 3

Originally posted by: aarthi.ramani

@bold anu

Neil does have his flaws but are masked by his professionalism and straight forwardness.. each step he takes is, on surface simple and plain while if go deep in questioning lies the true meaning of each word and action. now take the example of when sajan talk after sam is stoped by the gurads.. when gunji took sam apart to speak he should have left but he did not instead he stood there to know what they were speaking..

his each and every line he speaks to gunjan as u said is controlled as if trying to brainwash her...and yes this outdoor shoot does have lot of motive ...

Originally posted by: aahana86

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Shruti all i can say atm is if SaYank arent perfect no guy can Be !!! 🤣 🤣

ok sorry just had 2 add this 1 more point his immaturity is also reflected in the fact that mr. neel thinks just cause of a fight and some tension samrat and gunjan who to him seem so diff from each other are hence not perfect for each other - well mr neel; as a director of romantic movies u shd certainly know this for a FACT every couple fights - some more then others - and some less - BUT THE POINT IS ALL COUPLES FIGHT AT SOMETIME - this doesnt make anyone less perfect for the other cause if that were the case we'd still be living by the rule of the stone age - with no commitment or an institution such as marriage - in this world of civilization 😉😛

and @ twinnie Gina - yup gal we all SamHitians are up against Mr. oberoi - call our Sammy a dhakkan or anything - but if he cant be termed perfect - no guy can be - as all of his chashmishes - say we dont bash others - but u arent allowed to bash our Jaan either 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: ayesha_80

Hey Aahana 🤗

Really nice topic sweetheart (as usual). I'm more of a silent reader and admirer of ur topic these days, coz u say everything so beautifully, that i don't know wat to add in them.

In this post, i'm writing, coz I see Neil from a different angle (which i know most of u will not agree wid). First of all, i'll completely agree wid u all, that like everyone, Neil also IS NOT perfect, and he can't be so too. So, it is very unfair on him, if we say that Neil is a perfect man.

Some of my friends here think that I'm being harsh on Neil. But believe me, despite trying numerous times to change my pov, i end up with having the same.

I agree wid u all that he's a nice, decent and mature guy and is a thourough professional. I also understand that he has lost the ONLY love of his life, and that too forever. Gunjan was his inspiration, his reasone for existence, the love of his life. He always dreamt of living his entire lifetime with her, but things took a complete U-turn for him and all his dreams shattered when he came to know of the reality.

Having said this, i believe that watever Neil said to Sam in last night's epi, was something that raised my suspicion for him. The ONLY thought that kept on, and still is, haunting my mind is, that WHY did he tell Sam about his feelings. Neil knows that Sam and Gunjan LOVE each other. He knows, and he has seen that SG can't stay away from each other even for a second. Then why did he open his heart, and told his feelings to Sam? Sam isn't his friend, his confidant. He is the boy who loves Gunjan madly and he's the boy who Gunjan loves madly. Even for a second Neil didn't realize that wat consequences this might have on Sam-Gunjan's relationship, esp. when he claims the latter to be the only friend and love of his life? Is he in a way (indirectly) telling Sam to get out of his way?? Wasn't this a bit immature behavior on his part??

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Exactly ayesha thats what i meant...doesnt neil realize how will gunjan feel???? he himself has lost love...has bore the pain of losing love...does he want even gunjan to lose it??? does he want even gunjan to go thru the same pain????cant he be happy that atleast gunjan has the love of her life with her????

Another thing, what right does Neil have to advice Sam that he needs to grow up?? Sam has his own life and he is free to live it the way he wants to. Neil telling him, that u're immature and impulsive, didn't go for me. If he's immature, so what??? Questioning Sam means that Neil is doubting Gunjan's choice and her sensibility. He knows that Gunjan is a sensible girl and that she will never fall for anything wrong. So, how can he even think that Gunjan made a mistake by selecting Sam? And how much does he know Sam, about SaJan's relationship?

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OMG ayesha u r speaking my mind and heart out...exactly he earlier also insulted gunjan's sensibility by saying that sam isnt perfect for her...what does he mean...gunjan cant decide that who can be a gud life partner for her??????why does he think that he knows gunjan the most...and only he can know n understand her like that???he still isnt able to beleive that someone can love gunjan except him...he thru his ways conveys that he regards gunjan as a girl whom ppl can hardly love truely...and ppl r comparing him with our sammy????😲

Sorry Aahana, this post of mine seems to be more of a questionnaire, but i tell u i'm damn confused abt these things since yesterday (especially). I'm saying all this, not bcoz i have anything against Neil. These r the things that have confused me and i'm unable to find answers to these, so, i thought of sharing them wid u all. Mayb, ican get an answer from u guys.

I'm sorry if i've offended anyone. its purely my pov. And i'm expecting a lot of bashing after this post.

Lastly, and very importantly, plzz don't feel that i am against this track. I'm NOT AT ALL against it. Infact, its such a beautiful and touching track and wid every passing epi, i fall more n more in love wid it. It is one of the most strongest tracks of MJHT and has soo much depth in it. The way CVs r handling it is truly commendable. And the main credit goes to MoNaya for such splendid performances

Once again, a lovely post Aahana. U rock sweetheart!!!.

Love,

Ayesha

Originally posted by: aahana86

Navz 🤗 🤗 🤗 OMG u r back sweety missed ya 🤗🤗

wow where have u been was pleasantly surprised by ur post hon

i agree sweety this is a SaJan track no 2 ways abt it - but then do we ever get one w/o haddis 😆

i agree with u abt the fact that in morena he was the male version of Gunjan - a geek as well - like she was termed by ppl

but then hon surely i cant see Gunjan as -ve but who is 2 say neel is +ve . i mean we all are innocent , naive as kids , but in the process of growing up we do change dont we ?

i mean look at gunji herself .. from the girl with a stage fright she's now an actress !! not only that she has now shed her inhibitions about PDA too rem she was so shy when sam & she met , she would even be aghast at him holding her hand, next rem the scene after they come back from morena - she asks Sam not to say the words BF & GF loudly or their balcony scene .. and now just a few days back she hugged Sam in the canteen .. time makes ppl change navz

so who is to say he is still the male version of that gunjan who has so evolved herself ...

i agree with ur last line ; he'd be helping Gunjan achiever her dream, which is not this movie, but a life with Sam.

but it wont be in the way u put it hon as if that were the case - as u say him being as kind as gunjan was - then there would be no spice in this track right 😉 sheena was after all -ve too , so may be he wont be all out -ve but he can be grey right ?

next also if he is all that good why cant he tell sam where are they shooting ?
love makes us desperate Navz.. desperate enough to do anything .. so really this is also a part bothering me .. perhaps u are right and i am wrong , perhaps both of us are only thing i am certain of is so far we have seen only a part of neel oberoi only the future episodes can unravel to us what a mystery he is 😉