sometimes life has it's ups and downs laid across us in a truly haphazard manner , we dont know what hit us and before we know it we land with a thud by a blow made on us
Last night after Neel' open confession of his love for Gunjan now things are out there in the open, at least for Samrat, from the looks of it in the precap Samrat has not acted aggressively even after hearing from this guy that he has always loved Gunjan, who is now his girl
OK i see perhaps this as an very impulsive act made on neel' part where he spilled it and probably hence dont blame him too for it, i truly had felt sorry for him when he had said in that scene - Isse toh yeh accha hota ke tum mujhe Nahi milti Gunjan - a broken heart always gains sympathy no matter whose it is - not that i'd want thing mended for him - i cant see a bone of contention between SaJan - no matter what - as i ardently love this couple truly, madly and deeply
but the question posed by him last night where Samrat' maturity is raised as the question here ; has also made me question a few things about neel
no man is perfect - not as a human being at least - thou so far - we have seen things about neel which come across as neel' positive aspects - a success in his field, an achiever at a young age, a no nonsense guy from the looks of it - everything so far has made him look perfect - something even which GunUr discuss about him in a scene saying - the girl to have him will be truly lucky - as they compare him to SaYank
but truly is that the case ? they say every rose has it's thorns and yes so does every man has his imperfections.
Samrat isn't perfect Mayank isn't perfect ... nor can be neel .. he too is just another regular man - only thing is his flaws havent came across yet - perhaps soon they'll [ but i do hope he isnt shown as a Kekta Kapoorish Villian type of guy to highlight this part - please , dont torture us with that crap ]
i hope they highlight something anything that makes him seem real to the girls as well making him step down from the pedestal as well , cause truly there isnt a black or white in this world - it's all Grey
perhaps that grey can be highlighted in his personality via his perhaps over confidence or under confidence - Neel has loved Gunjan since his childhood in Morena days, but never could he muster probably enough courage to tell her that
next he moved out and ahead in his life , transforming from morena' neeleshwar to Mumbai' neel oberoi
last night he says to Samrat - had he not been around - he'd have went down on his knees to confess his love to gunjan.. ok
my question is why now ? what makes Neel say that to Samrat ?
Samrat wasnt even around Gunjan when as childhood friends in morena he fell for Gunjan .. he could have told her then , but he didnt - the lesson perhaps learned from this is Time & Tide wait for no man.. they certainly didnt for him - as Gunjan moved on ahead in life - of course never knowing of his one sided love for her and discovering her soul mate and the love of her life in Samrat
then isnt somehow even neel at a fault here - for being perhaps too late to confess - or thinking that he can walk in to Gunjan' life as & when he wants ?
cause on the day he learns of samrat gunjan he says i finally found you after moving around so much, but never in all these years did the thought cross my mind - that someone else could be between us
somehow doesnt that appear as some sort of over confidence - he had on his part - or may be him being too idealistic or too much of an optimistic - a quality which perhaps makes him flawed - as its said - anything in excess is bad - as he perhaps believed him being someone , something would all be what Gunjan would want & need for them to have a relationship
i mean what exactly was it that made him think and kept thinking Gunjan will be waiting for him with open arms just so that he can walk right into them even after all these years - did he perhaps think she is good enough for anyone to fall in love with her - but only he is the guy most appropriate in the aspect of appreciating her for just that - that perhaps no one else apart from him would love her ?
questions are being raised today in some counts about Samrat' maturity - but can anyone classify the term where and in which category does this term fit ?
if understanding is an issue - there' no question about it Samrat understands Gunjan better then she herself - as it was him who made her trust herself to go ahead and do this movie
if trust is a question - I doubt Sam' mind would even have that thought
and if perhaps a job - a steady source of income is the issue - then isnt Samrat still in college for that ? i mean Mayank' financial crunch has made him do his part time job as well - hadn't that been there perhaps even he would not have taken it up and focused solely on his academics instead right ? and that is not an issue for Sam there now is it ? he has enough courtesy his dad' fortune to know he can go through college without doing any of that
but no where does it imply Samrat wont do anything after that ? sooner or later - as he passes out - I am sure even he is aware of that - that there is work to be done to survive in a real world - so may be living in the moment as he is always he just wants to enjoy that - these days of his uninhibited freedom as he knows they wont live that long - is anything wrong in that ?
being able to live in the moment/ the present - not that thinking about the future is not on his mind - but should the future be so important that for it the present should be ignored ??
i dont wish neel to become a larger then life sort of character - yup so far acting wise Amit is doing a decent job at that - not overacting or hamming anything like that - i wish to see him - neel become a real character as far as possible - for cv's to show us that - like SaYank exactly he too is flawed - pick anything as his faulting - insecurity, male ego,anger ,anything like that to bring him back to reality
i wish the cv's show us exactly that - in what by far is perhaps the best cameo ever in MJHT - being done wonderfully by Amit - so kudos to him for that and yes story-wise the best track in MJHT in a very long time - after the Morena track to be precise - where a bite of reality is what's being served to us - that nothing is perfect in an imperfect world - none of us is - that at the end of the day every rose has it's thorns