is it for real.... - Page 3

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Its funny..I thot western /US/Canadians were shallow

I visited India last year

OMG..talk about shallow!

I was drowing in shallowness of indian pple there..geez

All mama boys wanted slim pretty girls...then 3 years later they are divorced..well mamas boys..u deserve it!!

OMG yea i know what i mean. i went to pakistan and oh. my. freaking. god. guys are so effing shallow. they want the tallest, goriest girl as their some kind of a achievement. i mean like they say oh my edumacation is this and that so i deserve somenoe like that. helllo?! what pricks.

I understand what u tring say & i agree with u

well... i dont agree wit u at all.. i mean if a person can only fall for a gurl who is slim then i dont think that guy is genuine.. one shud nvr luv someone for the way he or she looks, if they are then for sure their love for each other will fall apart at one point of time as everyone tends to change the way they look after the marriage takes place. for sure gurl's structure will change once she gets pregnant!! just of curiousity would then that guy leave her coz she has put on weight? well yes one mite do so if they married only for the looks.. so u knw

but i think shiv's love is true coz he luved mahi the way she is, he loved her because of her inner beauty rather than for something physical(not that mahi is not pretty, she is very pretty inside as well as outside)..n i think this show is conveying that message only that people shouldnt go for looks whereas, in luv there is more than that rather than just looks.

take example of ishaan who is successful in every way and is damn hot but wat abt his character?? what about how he ditched mahi?? looks are not everything in my opinion..

and for mahi i think she is not realizing wat love is for sure, she is thinking infatuation is true love, whereas she is completely wrong..

but yes guys like shiv are not really xsistent evry guy wants a gf who is sexy,hot and has a flaunting figure of size zero :)).. but as i said that is just temporary!!

but i wont rule out either there are guys who are like shiv as well but proll'y arnd 5%,,,

Originally posted by: adi rox

I diasgree with you a 100%.. its a proven fact of human psychology and behaviour that after the age of 25 the human mind tends to be more attracted to a person who suits your lifestyle and behaviour. When we are teens we get attracted to the physical appearance.. regardless of whether the person is a good on or bad.. its just that we are infatuated with how good the person looks. But after 22-24, with our matured minds, we tend to associate our life with people we can find have long relationships with. Ofcourse outer image plays a role.. but not a huge one anymore.. it solely depends upon how you feel when you are with a certain person.

People all over the world marry people who aren't in the best shape of their life.. even if they themselves are gorgeous..

But that dosen't come in the way cuz one.. the person is very humble.. and so is shiv.. they don't believe they are hot property and aren't that shallow to base their decisions on outer appearances. Two.. somewhere they know that the other person is the better being in general..

It's all about the personality in the end.. plus, just because a guy's wife gains weight dosen't mean that he will kick her to the curb right.. it's that connection after all humans are after..

i agree the whole purpose of the show is to break from the cliche
i feel that many are looking at this and the characters from a literal point of view instead of the message behind it all.
Physical attributes how important it may be doesn't constitute a relationship. A true bonding goes beyond everything and seeps deep into our hearts.😊