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Posted: 12 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: pippa

Nice post.

I'm like this😲 at some of the replies in this post. Are they for real? Either they are totally delusional young women or male chauvinists!

The blame lies fairly, squarely and completely at the CVS door...I include the PH and the channel for this offense. They are not taking a clear stand, acting like a weather vane. Sometimes the ball is in RK's court, sometimes in Madhu's. This dilly-dallying is very irresponsible on their part specially when they know the show is being watched by all age groups.



@Bold: Some of the replies did leave me like that as well. I do not know if they are female or male chauvinist but yes they do come up with every reason to prove themselves right which indeed is correct but I do not accept the opinions.

Regarding PH and Channel what can I say, I m an online viewer so do not have much knowledge, But just wanted to ask do they do Disclaimer on age in the begining of the show?

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Posted: 12 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: KittuPratzz

🤣🤣 tu ne yeh kya kiya?? ABUSE word ko naya meanings dhoond raho ho kaa?? 🤣 I know Kittu, Kya karein hum Nadan hai 🤣🤣


tujhe pata hai...yaha ABUSE matlab Praise🤣 No re I thought it was Dark Love😆

Gal seriously u need a NEW modified dictionary 😡😆 learn fast...slow learner!!! I am eventually getting there 😉

Abuse...hmm so here again , we are giving char certificates to Psycho...oops..Split personality (courtesy :Rk himself admitted split personality in a segment) I never knew it, Thanks for the Info😊

Emotional abuse..physical abuse...so far emotional abuse was achieved.
so coming to physical abuse...well..forcing her to come with him..doesnt come under this category?? handcuffing her ?? well dont we say ourselves if this happens somewer?? Reel and real are diff...but that doesnt mean MEANINGS also differ!!! Its Dark Love and we are too naive too feel it Kittu😆

Cutting hsi palm or watevr...in which category will this come under?? Mental Torture. am i ryt?? No Its again Love, He did it to prove that he loves her even at the cost of cutting his palm

why are everyone are hell bend on saying he had a bad childhood. oh really?? seeing ur father suicide meant torment..then i dont PITY Mr. Superstar. he has his mom too...but he WAS betrayed in his own illusion. dips scar..well..it was his CHOICE to love her. so he has bound to it. Yess tormented childhood😉, If every child who has a bad experience in the past would turn out to be like that then I'd be scared to live in this world. But since he's Superstar we need to worship the ground he walks in. Also he had his mom which he himself choosed to ignore, His BIWI love which he insulted and humiliated. I m sorry but when this man had chances to grab hold of hid present and future, His EGO wouldn't let him so I would never pity him in the name of tormented childhood.
okay fine ..he had BAD childhood.

is it soo bad than Sultan?? wen he was 8 he witnessed his mom dying...murdered to be specific. then this incident shud also effect sultan effectively ryt?? he neither had anyone to share. he was brought up by him alone. in fact Sultan was FORCED to be in this field... Kittu 😡😆 He is a Gangster re so how can he be nice, and he also thinks about other Biwi re so he is not nice too😲

so in that case who is having bad childhood ...and whom shud we actually sympathize?? but alas...sultan dont need anyone's sympathy. neither he blames anyone for his STATE. Agree

he doesnt act like a KID and break furniture around and break bottles.

so i see here...Madhu shud be thank ful that he didnt R*** her?? wowww...

hahaha I was astounded by people's crassness!!! 👏👏 OMG I can't say how much shocked I was to read it, Like really😲😲.I just do not want to comment it any further.

what he spoke at altar is pure DISGUSTING!!! he spoke "used" kind of dialogues..made fun of her feelings ...i dont understand...wen a wife comes near her husband..she becomes despo..?? is it?? future mein if a gal goes near her husband..she becomes characterless? ? 😕 What can I say, I m confused myself😕

wen radha ji was entered into the show..that time RK was abt to HIT madhu with a bottle. now wat?? he didnt do..but he was ABOUT to..he TRIED!!!! now dont come with such silly thing that madhu instigated... Ohh No even he did all this he respects her and treats her equally😲

wen u r saying he knows his limits..then wat happened that time?? his patience tail lene gayi??? Patience😲 What is it Kittu🤢

so finally ppl shud feel happy that RK didnt do anything physically?Discussion Forum? do ppl have any sense?? more than physical..its words which hurt..and those will create a SCAR which will never fade!!!

"One thing you can't hide - is when you're crippled inside." This is what I've been trying to say but (lips sealed)

if still ppl are hell bent to glorify his acts naming them as Junoon and so cald Love!!!

then its simple..they want to see only wat they wish to see!!! If tomorrow RK physically tortures her..then also it will be named as Insecurity,possessiveness...obsessviness...bla bla!!! watever you say it is love and if not love it is dark love and that's how RK is and we support him.
sorry for long rant simmy!!! 😃 Thats ok, I enjoyed the rant actually😊



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Posted: 12 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: faria86

nice post & agree with u


I am glad that you agree😃. Thanks for reading and commenting
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Posted: 12 years ago
#44
Any way you look at it R.K. is an abuser on every level.

It is indeed sad to see so many people making excuses for R.K and his behaviour.
It makes me wonder why people need to glorify this kind of behaviour and why it is entertainment to see one person denigrating another in the guise of "Love".


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Posted: 12 years ago
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hahah you knw i love to crib 😉😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Simmy nice post...I hope young girls out here learn what abuse actually is...:)

For their won good and for good of society
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ Jugili and @Leverne: Thanks for agreeing and taking time to read and comment😊
Whatever it is At the end of the day people will see and do what they feel is right

Simmy
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Posted: 12 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: DushtDanaf.

okay, i'll keep this short and simple: what RK did when he left Madhubala at the alter, that was abuse; what he's doing now isn't emotional, verbal, psychological, sexual, discriminatory or any other form of abuse. the most exigent difference being that this time she's the one who has all the power in the relationship. if she so chooses she can completely destroy this man with a few choice words, whereas anything that RK's done so far has bounced right off her. he's clearly the one suffering in the relationship.



RK has been mentally and physically abusing Madhu for the longest while then only difference is that it has gotten worst. RK has also been verbally abusive with Madhu. HE has not respect for Madhu, he has not love for Madhu.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: Payaal



RK has been mentally and physically abusing Madhu for the longest while then only difference is that it has gotten worst. RK has also been verbally abusive with Madhu. HE has not respect for Madhu, he has not love for Madhu.

do you even watch the show? i mean have you even seen it from day 1 or are you a new fan? i get how you could say he's abusive, but how do you go about convincing yourself that he doesn't love her.. that is about as far as you can get from the truth. 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Abuse can be of any form. It can be physical,mental,gender based,social status based,race,caste,creed,skin color..any thing that can make a man discriminate another and therefore torture him/her.
But,I will keep it to physical and mental. What we have seen so far,it is a mixture of both. I find the way RK pushes,drags and restrains Madhu from moving out is physical abuse. Physical abuse is not limited to beating alone,though we often mistake it for that.
While physical abuse can be shown to some one else.mental aby=use cannt be shown abnd therefore difficult to establish. But,mental abuse is more painful than physical one because you cary the scar for life long. Some members have said RK behaves like this because of the wrongs he was made to suffer in childhood.
But,if you have suffered,then it should make you more sympathetic towards people and you should take extra care that you do not use/abuse them as you know how painful that can be. If you truly love some one,then you would not hurt that person for any thing under the sun.
So I can safely say,RK does not really love Madhubala. Not in the true sense of the term. He just wants to possess her by hook or by crook. She has taken his fancy and therefore must be in his possession. Just like a demanding child,who wants a particular toy.Whatever may be the means.

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