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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ok guys we are the most stupid bunch who thinks RK is abusing Madhu. I think We are from different planet, don't know rules of this world.

Madhu should be thankful to RK that he could have raped her if he wanted to😲👏 Madhu should go back to RK because she LOVEs him and in real life people live with their abuser because of Love. ...GREAT

RKs actions are justified because of his past but its Sultan's fault that he became a gangster. Sultan's past was full of joy and happiness. He should not get any credit for his values and principles regardless of growing up between criminals. What RK is doing to Madhu is out of love. if Sultan teaching his kid to live without fear so that he can live if something happens to Sultan, he is crazy and psycho... height of hypocrisy
Edited by MonyP - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: MonyP

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Ok guys we are the most stupid bunch who thinks RK is abusing Madhu. I think We are from different planet, don't know rules of this world.

Madhu should be thankful to RK that he could have raped her if he wanted to😲👏 Madhu should go back to RK because she LOVEs him and in real life people live with their abuser because of Love. ...GREAT

RKs actions are justified because of his past but its Sultan's fault that he became a gangster. Sultan's past was full of joy and happiness. He should not get anycreditfor his values andprinciples regardless of growing up between criminals.



Yeah well madhu was practically seducing RK
If RK was an abuser then wouldn't he be suduced and give in ?
I never said it is sultans fault he became a gangster
But RK didn't kill people , endanger his family members' lives
In real world , women do go back to abusers because of love .. You can go look at statistics
They hope that the man will be reformed
No you are not from another planet but you are only seeing this from Madhu's viewpoint and not RK's
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: MonyP

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Ok guys we are the most stupid bunch who thinks RK is abusing Madhu. I think We are from different planet, don't know rules of this world.

Madhu should be thankful to RK that he could have raped her if he wanted to😲👏 Madhu should go back to RK because she LOVEs him and in real life people live with their abuser because of Love. ...GREAT

RKs actions are justified because of his past but its Sultan's fault that he became a gangster. Sultan's past was full of joy and happiness. He should not get anycreditfor his values andprinciples regardless of growing up between criminals.



Madhu herself admitted she loves RK , today , and what is bigger than love ?
And RK wanted a second chance
Why shouldn't he get one?
Even god forgives you when you are genuinely sorry , then what is madhu ?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird



Madhu herself admitted she loves RK , today , and what is bigger than love ?
And RK wanted a second chance
Why shouldn't he get one?
Even god forgives you when you are genuinely sorry , then what is madhu ?


@Bold- answer is in your question dear.



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Posted: 12 years ago
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I do agree with you , but there is no use to ask here in this forums, here ppl are not ready to accept anything against RK they are not at all thinking with their mind, they just think who are telling RK wrong are RK or viv basher thats it, so they are not ready understand anyone views , just trying to cut other view n want to come with new excuse n want to make fun of other veiw n fun of other char who are showing decent as they don't like him.
more than 80% ppl are agreeing whatever he is doing is not at all right, we all like him before after when he started changing toward MAdhu n before revenge track, as his action were like that we love him , I always say still saying he has not consummate this 4 pera marriage, was best thing he did till nw, otherwise I never ever consider anything after revenge, but after revenge what he has done n now what he doing is not at all looking good not on the name of junoon , not on the name of love, for him life is still like game. for first thing , when he has tested her love all the way , did so many nautanki to proof Dips that Madhu truly love her and MAdhu has proved her love which was itself wrong but that time MAdhu has still understood him n we too that he is betrayed so he did that ,Madhu love proved , than why he went for revenge after knowing everything. first thing whether that was not enough to come from past he want through , mean if you went through so much but agar tume itna love karne wala mil jaye to saare ghav bhar jatein hai , s Madhu love was not enough for him to heel his wound , it was but his ego came in between n after that whatever he did is completely unacceptable so what ever excuse these girls are going is just to satisfy them self, they are actually not understanding that they are supporting wrong thing to just show their love for their fav , that is more strange thing for me, we were not RK hater from starting right we to love him, like him when he was right , but if he is wrong according to the story we are saying wrong as we are not biased with the actor, rightly said koi bacha bhi abhi ye samajh sakta hai whatever he is doing can't be justify with any excuse, n I just want to know the definition of love, what they want to say , jabardasti kisi ko apna se han kalwana love hai just J mean love , in love first thing come is respect n trust unfortunately both are not there now, love is free someone whom you love that is not there. if this love which RK is telling then this type of love can't be consistent it will go with time when you will get satisfy hope ppl understand but they never they say lecture lecture, so really no use to say anything here
Edited by alovi_21 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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People want to see what they want to see. Some are too blinded by their love for a certain character/actor to hold objective opinions. No matter what you say, it will not change their opinion. Sad yet true. Also, desis tend to have a very distorted view of romantic relationship between a man and a woman. The woman is never seen as an equal. We strive for women being the doormat, not for equality. That is how we are brought up from a young age. That is exactly what we see either in our own family or near ones. We assign every abuse dished out by an alpha male under the paradigm of "Junoon" or "Manliness". And that sort of mentality is what is reflected in the young impressionable minds of this forum.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

RK abused Madhu , I completely agree
But does anyone appreciate how far this man has come ?
This man had a tormented childhood, fame at a young age and constant emotional torture from family / first love
Of course he is "abusive" but does anyone acknowledge the fact that he could do so much worse ?
Did he consummate with madhu ?
Did he rape her ?
Today he forced her but why ? To prove to her how much he loves her
RK had the power to do much worse but no one appreciates that


Puhleezz... Not the tormented childhood AGAIN.

Well RK has the money and resources and is highly intelligent right? Then the smartest thing for him to do is to get some help in the form of a therapy.

Just because someone had a bad childhood doesn't give them the right to emotionally torture (in your words) another human.

So many people have even far worse childhood than RK. Not everyone turns out like him. So just because he didn't consummate he becomes a saint? Puhleez. There isn't much difference between emotional abuse and physical abuse.
Edited by Siri22 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Alovi_21: Thanks for reading and commenting, I was only trying to voice out my opininon😊

@Castiel: Yes I do agree completely, People only see what they want to see. Was just trying to be rational here 😊

@Siri22: Thanks for reading and commenting😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird




Who does Madhu love ? RK.
Madhu had a tormented childhood but she had a mother who selflessly loved her and put in good values
She had a sister
In a real world where women are constantly giving chances to abusers who physically abuse them , victims of domestic violence are going back .. Why ? Sometimes fear other times ; love and hope.
Situations are alike both of them
But please understand RK lost a father at a young age and never interacted with his mother properly
As for madhu , madhu has been strong she is much stronger than RK
RK is weak and no one is denying that
RK broke her heart but did he go marry Trisha and live in the same house because she isn't successful enough ?
Madhu always had the people she loved except her father of course
Madhu is strong but she is human
And she loves RK , sure RK needs to work more to get her forgiveness
But madhu loves RK , that should be the only reason she forgives him
And madhu should appreciate how this man could do worse to her but didn't
RK is not a bad human being he is just messed up
But that's what people are , messed up


Are you freaking kidding me?!?! @Bold Black: Are you saying women themselves give chances to abusers?? I'm sorry to break your 16th century thoughts/ideas but I'm a woman and I don't find people and give them chances to abuse me!! And you said they go back due to fear or love? Did Madhu go back willingly or was she forced by the Almight??

@Red: He also had/has a loving mother but HE HIMSELF chose to ignore her because he held a grudge against her!! He just couldn't bear her marrying someone else which is why he hated her for so long!

@Pink: Where does this logic even come from So you're saying everything is fine (even him breaking her heart) as long as he does not go marry trishna? Where does Trishna even fit into this conversation? Did Madhu marry Sultan? No! She was helping him due to her humanity (which I may remind you...if she didn't have any, she would have let RK cut his wrist and let him die in today's episode)...but I guess the idea of humanity is foreign to you!!

@Purple: OK this is seriously cracking me up!! 🤣🤣SHE SHOULD APPRECIATE THAT HE DIDN"T DO WORSE TO HER EVEN THOUGH HE COULD?? 😲😲Do you even know what you're saying? She should forget everything as long as she knows RK hasn't done much more than breaking her and destroying her!! Wah Wah Kya Baat Hai Bhai 👏👏 Now I know I'm talking to a fangirl and that too a fangirl who's thoughts are from the 16th century!! You're a girl/woman right? How can you even say this being a girl yourself?

@Green: Uh Excuse You buddy but not all people are messed up like your ALMIGHTY!!

P.S. Please come up with better excuses!! Your logic doesn't even make sense!!
Edited by TheDarkKnight - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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