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Posted: 18 years ago
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hello,

plz give ur honest opinion and tell...

would u support neti in her decision to become -ve after what has happened to her?

PS: be4 voting in favour or against, keep ur self in neti's position and think how would u have felt if someone u truly loved(2 SIDED) had insulted,humiliated and disgraced u in mandap in front of ur families and relatives(for sake of his family issues i.e. same as story). would u just have tried to forget everything and start with ur new normal lives!!!!!!! OR....!!!

AUDIENCE IT IS EASY TO WATCH SERIAL AND SAY IN FAVOUR/AGAINST. BUT WHEN IT COMES TO REALITY IT IS REALLY PAINFUL!

so plz keep urself in neti's position with same background. dont support wadwa family or neti...while giving ur answers remember u we not india forum,nor kk fans....WE ARE SIMPLY HUMAN BEINGS...SO BE NEUTRAL IN UR JUDGEMENT.

JUST BE HONEST!!! and DO JUSTICE

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Posted: 18 years ago
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😆 Oh dear I have suffered the same pain in my life much earlier when I was rejected by someone at the last minute 😊 ..So I m very well aware about the feelings that a girl go through when someone first loves u and then rejects u for his family's well-being 😭

But u see if u truely love someone then u should respect your lover's decision and move ahead in life instead of becoming negative and going for revenge thus ending up spoiling your own life too

Today I m very happy with my Fiance and hv completely forgotten my past 😃 ..

So I guess u got your answer 😉 😛

Neeti should hv done the same thing 😊
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Posted: 18 years ago
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seeking revenge is the worst solution everything and everyone will be shattered.

It is difficult to forget but God is so helpful that he helps you to move on in life. and this what Neeti should do
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Posted: 18 years ago
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neeti should move on and try to forget eveyrhting there is no point in becoming negative
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Posted: 18 years ago
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hi

well i feel really bad for neethi

she suffered for no reason, but i dont support her taking revenge

she was always a sweet girl and i wished she remained that way

norzar
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Posted: 18 years ago
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well if i keep in place of neeti then neeti got shock in her life at that momemt when she was getting married.that is really a painful moment and i am very sad for neeti. acc to consequences going on from first in neeti and siya it is obviuos for her turn neg becauz she got shock in her life.i wont suggest to be neg and hurt kk.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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i'm against they just filled her mind with poison she's so nieve she doesn't know what she's doing
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Posted: 17 years ago
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👏

Originally posted by: jyoti06

😆 Oh dear I have suffered the same pain in my life much earlier when I was rejected by someone at the last minute 😊 ..So I m very well aware about the feelings that a girl go through when someone first loves u and then rejects u for his family's well-being 😭

But u see if u truely love someone then u should respect your lover's decision and move ahead in life instead of becoming negative and going for revenge thus ending up spoiling your own life too

Today I m very happy with my Fiance and hv completely forgotten my past 😃 ..

So I guess u got your answer 😉 😛

Neeti should hv done the same thing 😊

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Posted: 17 years ago
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i am suprised by all of ur answers. dont assume that this is normal situation of break up.
sharman has disgraced a girl,by rejecting her in shadi mandap in front of her relatives.
HOW CAN U NOT TAKE REVENGE IF ANY OF UR FIANCE INFRONT OF UR WHOLE FAMILY REJECTS U AND U HAVE TO GO BACK TO UR HOME IN THE DRESS OF BRIDE. WHAT JYOTI SAID...I KNOW IT HAD BEEN PAINFULL...BUT WAS THAT GUY HER FIANCE???
DID HE LEFT HER IN MARRIAGE MANDAP!!! ?
IN STORY OF KK, IT WAS LOVE AFFAIR...WHERE 2 LOVER'S HAD MADE SOME PROMISES AND COMMITMENTS. HOW CAN SHARMAN DISGRACE NETI LIKE THAT IN MANDAP. HOW CAN HE EVEN THINK ABOUT DOING IT???
EVEN IN ARRANGE MARRIAGE IF SOMEONE REJECTS SOMEONE IN MANDAP, THE GIRL WOULD TAKE REVENGE. U KNOW Y?????
becoz nothing is more imp than izzat, self respect??? remember proverb,
"Money is lost,nothing is lost, health is lost,something is lost,Character is lost,everything is LOST."
and after being refused,NO BODY REALLY MARRIES A GIRL,saying that she is unfortunate or bring unhappiness, where as a man can get marryed when ever he wants to ...and that is a REALITY. SO DEFINATELY IN LOVE MARRIAGE UR EXPECTATIONS ARE ALOT, BECOZ OF LOVE,COMMITMENTS AND PROMISES,...SO HOW DO U NOT TAKE REVENGE???

2nd thing....SIYA made a mistake of getting pregnent be4 marriage. Y WOULD,neti be punished for that.neti should go in the past and get pregnent as well....becoz those people who are doing bad are getting the benefit???????SO NETI DIDNT GET SHARMAN BECOZ SHE DIDNT GOT PREGNENT,OTHERWISE SHE WOULD DEFINATELY HAVE GOT HIM. THIS IS NOT JUSTICE.if SOMEONE IS GOOD,HE SHOULD BE REWARDED AND NOT PUNISHED FOR BEING GOOD.i understand siya's life was being spoiled if sharman would not have married her ...but at the same time,neti's life would also be spoiled if sharman would not have married her, BECOZ HE REFUSED IN FRONT OF EVERYONE....IN SHADI MANDAP. SO BETWEEN SIYA AND NETI,SHARMAN SHOULD HAVE CHOOSED NETI AT ANY COST.

i reqest the forum to understand and realize the exact scenario and then decide.
REALITY IS THAT,ANY GIRL WHETHER IT IS NETI,OR ANY OTHER GIRL, WOULD DEFINATELY TAKE REVENGE,IF SOME1 SPOILS HER LIFE,specially by REJECTING IN MANDAP.revenge cant give any benefit....but atleast it would TAKE OUT THE FRUSTRATION FROM INSIDE,OF BEING EMBARASSED.if any girl doesnot take revenge then ATLEAST,SHE WOULD PRAY TO GOD FOR THE UNHAPPINESS OF THE FAMILY WHO DISGRACED HER,means bud dua dey gee and that is for sure.
SO PLZ STOP TAKING KK AND WADWA PARIWAR SIDE...and be honest. 1 thing i dont understand,most of ppl in forum are girl's and still they cant understand GIRL'S FEELINGS....and i am a boy,but still can understand NEETI'S PAIN. 😕
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Posted: 17 years ago
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hi

destiny too plays a huge role in one's life. i believe in destiny

neethi ka saath jo bhi kuch huha, destony too palyed a crucial role. she was a victim of destiny mand cirsumstances

neehti pain is evident, but i dont think what she si doing right by marrying rahul and taking revenge

what will she get out of revenge???

no one benefits form revenge my friens

the fact si that she spoli her life over revenege

kk and otehrs in wp do realise that neehti ka saath
wrong huha

but what can they do about it now

they cnat tell shr to divorce siya and marry nethi

it was shr decsion and he will have to fulfil it all life

nehti could have moved on and maybe would have meet her real soul mate whom would have loved her and given her all happiness

by spoiling her life by marrying ragul, she has blown her maasi dreams too

norzar


not everyone gets they true love, and if all

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