i am suprised by all of ur answers. dont assume that this is normal situation of break up.
sharman has disgraced a girl,by rejecting her in shadi mandap in front of her relatives.
HOW CAN U NOT TAKE REVENGE IF ANY OF UR FIANCE INFRONT OF UR WHOLE FAMILY REJECTS U AND U HAVE TO GO BACK TO UR HOME IN THE DRESS OF BRIDE. WHAT JYOTI SAID...I KNOW IT HAD BEEN PAINFULL...BUT WAS THAT GUY HER FIANCE???
DID HE LEFT HER IN MARRIAGE MANDAP!!! ?
IN STORY OF KK, IT WAS LOVE AFFAIR...WHERE 2 LOVER'S HAD MADE SOME PROMISES AND COMMITMENTS. HOW CAN SHARMAN DISGRACE NETI LIKE THAT IN MANDAP. HOW CAN HE EVEN THINK ABOUT DOING IT???
EVEN IN ARRANGE MARRIAGE IF SOMEONE REJECTS SOMEONE IN MANDAP, THE GIRL WOULD TAKE REVENGE. U KNOW Y?????
becoz nothing is more imp than izzat, self respect??? remember proverb,
"Money is lost,nothing is lost, health is lost,something is lost,Character is lost,everything is LOST."
and after being refused,NO BODY REALLY MARRIES A GIRL,saying that she is unfortunate or bring unhappiness, where as a man can get marryed when ever he wants to ...and that is a REALITY. SO DEFINATELY IN LOVE MARRIAGE UR EXPECTATIONS ARE ALOT, BECOZ OF LOVE,COMMITMENTS AND PROMISES,...SO HOW DO U NOT TAKE REVENGE???
2nd thing....SIYA made a mistake of getting pregnent be4 marriage. Y WOULD,neti be punished for that.neti should go in the past and get pregnent as well....becoz those people who are doing bad are getting the benefit???????SO NETI DIDNT GET SHARMAN BECOZ SHE DIDNT GOT PREGNENT,OTHERWISE SHE WOULD DEFINATELY HAVE GOT HIM. THIS IS NOT JUSTICE.if SOMEONE IS GOOD,HE SHOULD BE REWARDED AND NOT PUNISHED FOR BEING GOOD.i understand siya's life was being spoiled if sharman would not have married her ...but at the same time,neti's life would also be spoiled if sharman would not have married her, BECOZ HE REFUSED IN FRONT OF EVERYONE....IN SHADI MANDAP. SO BETWEEN SIYA AND NETI,SHARMAN SHOULD HAVE CHOOSED NETI AT ANY COST.
i reqest the forum to understand and realize the exact scenario and then decide.
REALITY IS THAT,ANY GIRL WHETHER IT IS NETI,OR ANY OTHER GIRL, WOULD DEFINATELY TAKE REVENGE,IF SOME1 SPOILS HER LIFE,specially by REJECTING IN MANDAP.revenge cant give any benefit....but atleast it would TAKE OUT THE FRUSTRATION FROM INSIDE,OF BEING EMBARASSED.if any girl doesnot take revenge then ATLEAST,SHE WOULD PRAY TO GOD FOR THE UNHAPPINESS OF THE FAMILY WHO DISGRACED HER,means bud dua dey gee and that is for sure.
SO PLZ STOP TAKING KK AND WADWA PARIWAR SIDE...and be honest. 1 thing i dont understand,most of ppl in forum are girl's and still they cant understand GIRL'S FEELINGS....and i am a boy,but still can understand NEETI'S PAIN. 😕
Edited by syed shariq - 17 years ago