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Posted: 17 years ago
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Well giving my point of view Neethi is wrong.
As she didnt know the whole truth as to why sharman
did it.well sharman tried to save his family prestige and Siyas and the upcoming babys life. Siya should
understand it and then she should have moved on with her life. revenge is not an answer. but then this is just a serial and we all well know Ektas trend so cant say much. but personally what neethi did is wrong. she should leave sharman to his life and get her life started in a new direction. 😕 😕
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Posted: 17 years ago
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1ST OF ALL, NETI KNEW VERY WELL Y SHARMAN DID IT. 2NDLY IT TAKES TIMES FOR THE INJURY TO HEAL.
AND SUKANYA BUA DIDNT GAVE TIME FOR NETI'S PAIN TO HEAL.JUST WHEN NETI WAS INJURED BADLY...AND HER DREAMS SHATTEREED SUKANYA BUA SHOWED HER A -VE WAY.
wat u ALL ARE TALKING ABT, MARRYING ANOTHER GUY OR WAT EVER....that would have come after neti got some time ALONE. and time wud've cured her injuries.
here sukanya...starting molding iron when it was hot. so she showed neti wrong way....IS THERE ANYONE FOR NETI...TO SHOW HER RIGHT WAY. NO ONE.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I am actually going to be for Neti on this one. I am not for revenge but the Wadhwa parivar do deserve some kind of pain for this whole mess. Everyone is responsible in some way or the other. I think Dhruv and Sharman are the worst. Not so much Kumkum or Sumit.

Of course it started off with KK getting Antara home. Why is beyond me? I understand the baby is small and so would need his mother but that doesnt mean that she gets to be a wife also, she just gets to be the baby's mother. The simplest solution would have been to get Dhruv and Antara divorced and then of course have equal visitation rights or whatever but no the baby has to brought up in the Wadhwa parivar with Wadhwa parivar values and all that jazz.

Sumit's problem was that he wanted to keep the baby totally, get the D-A divorce and toss Antara out. That cannot happen cause she is the baby's mother and well she wasnt in her senses and so he was trying to take advantage of that which is totally wrong. If she was in her senses she would have fought for her baby. Both mother and father are important. I dont care for Antara because of what she did to the Wadhwa parivar was wrong but well you cant take advantage of a person who is not in her senses.

Dhruv needs the biggest slap according to me. Suddenly on the day of the wedding he decided to be all mahaan. What if he found out that Siya was pregnant? Then he would have had 2 kids to think about? What would he have done then? Suddenly saying hey Siya I am sorry have to think of my kid. I mean what is that? Not to mention that he is equally at fault along with Siya for her being pregnant. No one is looking at that angle. Everyone looks at pregnant Siya but no one looks at Dhruv and gives him one tight slap for it.

Sharman is second in my slapping line. Who asked him to be all mahaan and put sindoor in Siya's maang? All for Farz? What farz? nobody asked him to do that. there were going to be 2 women at that mandap. one whom he knew was pregnant and the one who come what may Sumit wanted as a Wadhwa parivar bahu and another whom he truly loved. He didnt even think of Neti once. So what does a girl have to do to get her maang filled? Get pregnant before marriage and hope that someone mahaan like Sharman fills their maang.

Siya what do I say about her? I am a little confused. Honestly she should have just walked away from that mandap but well she has to think of the baby's future cause she is already pregnant. True she did cross the so called limit before marriage but guess she is staying in this relationship only to give the baby a name. Wonder what she would have done if she wasnt pregnant?

Antara is another confusing person. Your hubby cant stand you. He loves someone else. Why are you trying to go back? You have a kid. Either you stay with the Wadhwas parivar and raise the kid or take the kid with you. The ball is actually in your court. Why are you trying to make amends and that to when he is clearly in love with someone else.

And in all this is stuck poor Neti. I dont want her to take revenge cause she is ruining her own life by doing so. But well if she didnt trouble them even a little bit, everyone would have gone back slowly with time to either compromise or fall in love with each other and she would have been left high and dry. She would have been the only one saddened by this whole mess. Maybe she would have been married too but well nobody marries a girl whose dulha left the mandap. Siya was luck to have mahaan Sharman when Dhruv left, Neti might not be so lucky.

So well Neti should trouble the Wadhwa parivar a bit. As I have mentioned before the simplest solution would have been the D-A divorce and Antara deciding what to do with the baby cause you cant have your cake and eat it too.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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nice analysis nandni....atleast i am speaking to some1 who wanted to slap sharman and druv for everything...and someone who really cares for neti.

new formula: get pregnent+ gain everyone's sympathy = GET MARRIED TO WADWA PAREWAR.

u know, i want druv and sharman to get some real pain from neti....such a big slap on their faces...that in future, they dont even think of spoiling any girl's life. i want them to suffer and i want to see successful neti...I WISH NETI WUD WIN AGAINST WADWA FAMILY.
but producers would only win kk and parewar as it is name of movie, so in the end neti wud suffer. 😭 ,where as JUSTICE IS THAT IN THE END, sharman and druv should have suffered. and yes siya too should have suffered.after sharman put sindhoor,y was she standing doing nothing...she should've rubbed the sindhoor off and walked away. she did all the rasams...and when she went to her room, she broke the mirror. 😡what is she posing.y not walked away straight away....saying ....no one can forcefully marry some1, just by putting sindhor.

revenge should teach sharman and druv a lesson not to play with girls life and some people learns lessons after getting slaps and after learning their lessons
WHAT REVENGE WILL GIVE NETI ?:NETI SHOULD GET SHARMAN AFTER TAKING REVENGE. THATS JUSTICE.
CONCLUSION
so sharman,druv,and siya should be punished and suffer pain which neti gives them. antra should be divorced and live in the same house with the kid.
siya should marry druv, and neti should marry sharman.THE END. that is how the story should be.

Edited by syed shariq - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
#15
hello again!!!! dont think that is ever going to happen. the sharman marrying neti thing. the suffering that the entire wadhwa clan is going to get is going to be pretty minor. it will just be awkwardness whenever they face neti that's it. The biggest emotion shown by all wadhwa people is FARZ( as a matter of fact this is the emotion shown in all serials) so well if neti even attempts to do anything sharman will in time start hating her cause to him FARZ is more important meaning living with his lawfully wedded wife is more important. The problem is once sindoor is put, people stay in a marriage even if they are unhappy with it thanks to samaj. Like in sharman's case he thought about his wadhwa parivar (which I guess every individual would) and not neti's parivar. I am not sure but I think it was Sumit wanting Siya as bahu and Siya carrying Wadhwa parivar waaris that mattered to him more than just plain Siya alone. If Siya was any other girl who like Neti didnt have any ties to the Wadhwa parivar and more importantly wasnt pregnant with the waaris, he may not have done what he did. Which leads me into thinking would Neti really want to be with such a guy who will always always always keep FARZ before his wife. Am not too sure about the answer to this. Depends on the individual I guess.

On another note, Dhruv needs another slap. Telling Sharman well now you know how I feel when someone whom u love gets married to someone from ur own parivar. Hey what did he expect? Siya to sit at home and mourn him and take care of the kid on her own. What a loser!!! He would have proved to be an even worse husband than Sharman.

Actually all the women are probably better off than marrying into the Wadhwa parivar. Cause come what may FARZ to the MA and PARIVAR will always be put first before their own wives. This is not a bad thing. It's always right to do stuff for your family but there are certain situations and circumstances when you have to put your foot down and say NO to your PARIVAR.

No offence anyone. Just my 2 cents. Happy Holidays.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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HMM, I AGREE...SOMETIMES OUR HAPPINESS SHOULD COME BE4 PAREWAR'S HAPPINESS.IN WH...EVERYBODY WANTS TO MAKE EVERYBODY ELSE HAPPY...BUT IN REALITY.......NOBODY IS HAPPY 😆

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