Originally posted by: Naina-
Milz, I think its called becoming desensitized :( And I totally agree!
You know, I was watching the Lonavala episodes yesterday and I realized that the first time I watched them, I didnt cry. I was too excited with what was happening to realize the foreshadowings. But yesterday, I was kinda left in tears by the scene where Abhigya are hugging and she still cannot believe that he believes her and she asks him in desperation whether there is still anyway for him to believe Tanu if she brings counter evidence against her, or will he ever leave her again, can she count on him being there for her forever?
And then flashback to yesterday's episode where she says she will try to book him for the next life, he says start booking now and then she asks whether he can leave Tanu for her and he says no. I'm not blaming Abhi here, as I wanna keep the post abt Pragya, but watching that Lonavala episode and then watching yesterday's episode was heartbreaking :( And while I sat there upset for the rest of the day to see Pragya back to square one, trying to make a permanent place in her husbands life, who doesnt remember he loves her and is incomplete without her, there she is...just basking in the disappointment with a smile. Like all those fears she vented out to Abhi in the last track finale came true. :(
And for those that say she wasnt disappointed-there is more than what meets the eye.
Naina, I teared up too as I read this. I remember this all too well. When you see her smile, when he says that he won't leave 🤬, I really felt sick to my stomach😭. The courage she portrays, as if saying to herself, "here we go again, fight against my fate". It is almost as if she expected this reply from him🤢😔.
@ Nadz, agree with your thoughts, very well written. I am so sad for her.
Guys, got my answer from our very own Nive. The term is " learned helplessness". Thanks, Nive😃
Edited by mili9 - 8 years ago