He doesn't deserve to be her solace. - Page 4

An insensitive kid can absolutely be a rockstar. Maturity and talent do not have to go together.

Originally posted by: harisha_kb

A man doesn't need a wife to save himself.
A man like Abhi never needs it.

He saved himself for 30 years from the world.
He lived life, he achieved so much, he gave life to his family, he is successful, he is being loved.

Above all he wasn't born with a silver spoon. From a chawl to a mansion in Bandra. He grew a lot.
He had responsibilities and he fulfilled them.

Yes he had dadi Purab supporting him not saving him.
No body saved him all his life. He saved himself and his family.

Yes he is getting cheated by Tanu and Aaliya. If he was the same RS Abhi he was, Tanu wouldn't have played this game.
Tanu dint use Abhi to her advantage, she used Pragya.

A insensitive kid cannot be a successful rockstar.

Originally posted by: -Tia-

Abhi might be better off with no wife at all if this is how Pragya is going to be all her life. Never able to tell him one truth/be honest with him. Whole life lost in figuring out what's going on!!

Yes Abhi needs a better wife.

A wife who values her husband feelings more than her MS.
A wife who belived in their love more than the kumkum.

Originally posted by: -mina-

An insensitive kid can absolutely be a rockstar. Maturity and talent do not have to go together.

He reaches his hand out. She turns to him before it even lands. His gesture was hesitant. Her acceptance was blind.

We all would like pragya to go tell her mum..go tell abhi the whole truth...what we are seeing is this not happening...we know the reason why she is not telling abhi..what we don't know is why sarla ma is not being told at the moment...maybe the cv's will somehow disclose this..i don't think defending pragya is really so much if a point..we are just understanding why this plan is being carried out the way it is..we are all critical of it...and trying to put it in prospective is helping us to identify with what pragya is going through and why she feels that she has to do it dadi's way..just as how some ppl are disgusted by the wrong that they believe pragya is doing aa lady mogambo..in the same way some are disgusted by abhi's rude remarks to pragya..this may have stemmed from his attitude to her from the beginning..it wasn't nice..but she took it...he realised then who and what she was..he fell in love with her..doubted her when tanu pregnancy situation cane about..found out the reason for her behaviour..and why it is now...wgen his love for her is so deep..he cannot figure out that there is a reason for it this time as well...she 'took' everything of his..tried to show him what was happening in his office but he believed otherwise...he is just not connecting the dots this time...why..so I do think it is all about for abhi against pragya and vice versa..it is trying to understand why..how..and when in order to allow ourselves to understand and continue to watch even though we are critical as hell..and that is why there is this forum..to agree to disagree and have healthy discussion..

You need to be mature to put ur talent in place and achieve something.
Kids are talented, but they are guided to be achievers.
Adults have their own maturity and need not be guided.

An insensitive kid cannot take the decisions Abhi takes.
An insensitive kid cannot understand Pragya despite her lies.


He was sensible enough to put bb to sleep to go to the jungle
He was sensible enough to guess she is not a gold digger in the mms track.

Abhi is impulsive not insensitive, he likes being a child but he has his own maturity.

KC was enough to tell what is more important for Pragya, husband or rituals.
His happiness or her values.

She felt happy wearing her symbols but she dint think twice in hurting the husband.
Where is the divinity in it when the person on whose name you wear it is not happy.

God wouldn't have killed Abhi if Pragya dint fast. All those husbands of woman Who don't fast doesn't die.

I don't want to have a healthy discussion, I just want to vent about Abhi's utter inadequacy to be what he should be. Pragya's faults and mistakes do not diminish or excuse Abhi's in my understanding. Of course everyone is free to state their opinion respectfully but ultimately I am still going hold Abhi to my expectations. Unless CVs shape up I am going to continue to be disappointed and therefore critical. I like to praise Abhi when he deserves it, I just don't find that he deserves it very often.