He doesn't deserve to be her solace. - Page 6

Originally posted by: -Tia-

I think Abhi and insensitivity do not go together at all!

He was sensitive enough to help out a woman he hated. He was all along sensitive to consider her mother (even in the very early days of marriage, keeping away his hatred for Pragya).

He has been sensitive enough to stand up for Pragya so many times despite her lying to him all along.

Talking of sensitivity, he is so pissed of with Pragya right now, because she is insensitive to BB/Sarla Maa. He wanted her to support her folks. He called her on that (he tells her to go to her folks than arguing about money). And he gets picked on for insensitivity, I am amazed, really.

If only he figures out how insensitive Pragya has been to Aaliyah. oh well, he won't.. because Aaliyah's crimes are too big..

Originally posted by: harisha_kb

Well, I see a lot of understanding in him.
He is so nice to be nice to her even after she taking his everything and calling it hers

Originally posted by: -mina-

All these wonderful sensitive things you mention, were they really completely selfless? I don't keep track of incidents in my head, I just have a general impression that Abhi always has a self-interested reason for what he does. In which case, anything admirable about his "sensitivity" would be cancelled out.

Also, whatever the pattern of his behaviour, that doesn't erase that he was insensitive specifically today to test the legitimacy of Pragya's grief. Personally I don't think him doing it is so unreasonable, it makes sense to me that he thinks and acts selfishly like that. What really bothers me is that HE is the one to comfort her after that. Whereas in a just world, someone who stooped that low would not be able to come within 10 feet of the person they tormented. Yes of course it's better that they hugged and that he was there for her whether he wanted to be or not. The injustice still bothers me. If only there was any evidence in his comforting that he regretted pushing her like a jerk, I would be celebrating. But as much as Iwatch that scene, all I seeis an Abhishocked and lost in thought - notone who is truly attuned to Pragya's pain. And that's fine, it's fair for him to be shocked. I just can't give him credit for comforting her when he wasn't actually trying to be there for her.

Originally posted by: harisha_kb

Yes, he is nice to her.
Actually very nice.

He stil asks her to hide and not come in front of Vijay, he still belives her when she says Vijay tried to kill her though at the beginning she said she dint know the person.
He still picks her up if she falls down and so many other things.

When some one takes over my empire by fraud and is ruling me I would not be this nice.
So basically Abhi is very nice to me.

Originally posted by: -mina-

"I don't want to save her but I guess I owe it to the memory of my love. What a drag but I better do it."

He has to talk himself into it. For every nice or good thing he does, there are five mean or selfish things. Just as its not reasonable to only count the mean things, it's not reasonable to only count the nice things. On balance I find him being not nice much more often and much more thoroughly than he is nice.

Originally posted by: -Tia-

Absolutely Rishu. Even in the early days of Mogambo, she slips and he picks her up! Loved that he wanted her not in Vijay's sight. He always takes danger on himself before letting her or BB anyone.

He still has the heart to save her life, endangering his (@Mina, you may not want to remember, but in dussehera he jumped into fire to save Mogambo, a very selfish act indeed😆).