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Posted: 9 years ago
#81
Mystery...I wish I had a real answer for you. But as far as I've seen there isn't a "why". There's just a blinding partiality for Abhi that inclines some viewers to make every excuse on the planet for him and none for anyone else.

There's also a general double standard...it's ok for Abhi to be "sweetly" immature or manipulative "with good intentions" but Pragya is not allowed to be like him or to even accounts with him or anything really.


Love your questions rundown.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#82
I need to vent.
I am tired of how everyone's life in kkb revolves around abhi.
Dadi wants pragya to be abhi's bodyguard.
Pragya worries about him all the time.
Purab wants to help him
Aliya wants to destroy him
Tanu wants to marry him
He is some demi god sun around which everyone revolves.

I want a female rockstar on the show!

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Posted: 9 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: -mina-

Mystery...I wish I had a real answer for you. But as far as I've seen there isn't a "why". There's just a blinding partiality for Abhi that inclines some viewers to make every excuse on the planet for him and none for anyone else.

There's also a general double standard...it's ok for Abhi to be "sweetly" immature or manipulative "with good intentions" but Pragya is not allowed to be like him or to even accounts with him or anything really.


Love your questions rundown.

i kno...i just find it unfair :(...i just had to let it out...thank you for replying...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mystery1

Why are some people having issues with pragya meddling with abhi's career?! Why do they seem to be okay with abhi not being actively doing anything?! Isnt fuggy the same as ey ladkhi?! Its obvious he doesnt care about the baby and the mother of the baby i.e theft blame was clearly shown on his face when he was smirking/smiling that tanu was target before him so why is tanu living in that house when he was only doing it for pragya in the first place, now pragya doesnt even care about it so why is she there?! Why tanu exerting rights and abhi just taking it and people seem to be not saying anything to abhi but have issues with pragya when her intentions are in the right place?! Am i missing something here?!...


It's very simple. Abhi cannot do wrong. If he does something wrong the reason is" he is human "or "it's pragya s fault directly or indirectly".
It's only Pragya for whom people have high expectations and she will be criticized for every lil mistake.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#85
Abhi is the male writer's ultimate dream come true character. A cool rockstar who is emotionally immature and doesn't bother about his responsibilities, every one adores him, protects him. Pragya is also part of the fantasy, she is the devoted wife who is always put on a pedestal. Who don't like him want to destroy him because he is oh so powerful.
This show needs a female writers perspective.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: poiu123


It's very simple. Abhi cannot do wrong. If he does something wrong the reason is" he is human "or "it's pragya s fault directly or indirectly".
It's only Pragya for whom people have high expectations and she will be criticized for every lil mistake.


Even Abhi is treated like a god in both families, if he does something wrong he is also criticized by people quickly, both families have high expectation from this two and are judged immediately if they do a single mistake
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Moodyblue

Abhi is the male writer's ultimate dream come true character. A cool rockstar who is emotionally immature and doesn't bother about his responsibilities, every one adores him, protects him. Pragya is also part of the fantasy, she is the devoted wife who is always put on a pedestal. Who don't like him want to destroy him because he is oh so powerful.
This show needs a female writers perspective.

Unfortunately seems like the writer is a male chauvinist atm sigh...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashpat3


Even Abhi is treated like a god in both families, if he does something wrong he is also criticized by people quickly, both families have high expectation from this two and are judged immediately if they do a single mistake

ashpat i said it as a viewers point of view...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mystery1

Why are some people having issues with pragya meddling with abhi's career?! Why do they seem to be okay with abhi not being actively doing anything?! Isnt fuggy the same as ey ladkhi?! Its obvious he doesnt care about the baby and the mother of the baby i.e theft blame, it was clearly shown on his face when he was smirking/smiling that tanu was the target before him so why is tanu living in that house when he was only doing it for pragya in the first place, now pragya doesnt even care about it so why is tanu there?! Why tanu exerting rights and abhi just taking it/not doing anything about it and people seem to be not saying anything to abhi but have issues with pragya when her intentions are in the right place?! Am i missing something here?!...


No, you're not. You've raised good points. I've noticed there's a huge bias for Abhi. They interpret his actions/decisions on heroic levels. But when it comes to Pragya, I noticed they slam her for being weak. They scapegoat for everything that goes wrong. Like the theft trap. I've read posts she failed and screwed up and she'll never win. I keep reminding it was Abhi who that case (yes we know why he took it now).

It's the halo effect. Just because he's a popular icon he's excused for all his faults and weaknesses.

Abhi doesn't know why Pragya is doing what she's doing. But we do. Yet, I've seen posts that they want to strangle Pragya for pushing him away from her. Are they even watching the same show?😕. This girl was gone through hell and high water and was a perfect wife, DIL. She sacrificed her marriage for the Tabhi/baby (yes we know the truth). She's back to right thing again for him and they see as the problem.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Cerealgirl

You've raised good points. I've noticed there's a huge bias for Abhi. They interpret his actions/decisions on heroic levels. But when it comes to Pragya, I noticed they slam her for being weak. They scapegoat for everything that goes wrong. Like the theft trap. I've read posts she failed and screwed up and she'll never win. I keep reminding it was Abhi who that case (yes we know why he took it now).

It's the halo effect. Just because he's a popular icon he's excused for all his faults and weaknesses.

Abhi doesn't know why Pragya is doing what she's doing. But we do. Yet, I've seen posts that they want to strangle Pragya for pushing him away from her. Are they even watching the same show?😕. This girl was gone through hell and high water and was a perfect wife, DIL. She sacrificed her marriage for the Tabhi/baby (yes we know the truth). She's back to right thing again for him and they see as the problem.


YES!!! Lucidly and powerfully expressed, love this 👏

@she'll never win - this drives me nuts. she is the heroine. of course she's gonna win - you just need to frame it properly in your mind. what looks like defeat is only ever temporary.

@watching the same show - I have watched my fair share of shows and it blows my mind that they're let Pragya do everything she's been doing and saying since the makeover. I'm used to shows that never let the heroine be anything other than the perfect bahu/patni - and in a sense that's still what's happening here, because Pragya is only putting on this outrageous persona to benefit her pariwaar and she feels guilty like a good girl for doing it - but it is phenomenally exciting and also more and more satisfying to watch Pragya these days. This...doesn't really relate to making sense of general viewer reaction and figuring out if they're watching the same show but somehow that line led to these thoughts 😆
Edited by -mina- - 9 years ago

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