*Season 2, Week 29* Analysis Thread - Page 21

just saw the bose scenes, (skipped them before 😛)

With due respect to those who are of the opinion that Sonakshi handled Soha just right I disagree. In comparison Dev handled Soha well. Once he took the stand he did not bother too much to appease Soha . Instead he went ahead with what he thought is right for the situation.

Originally posted by: asha2012

After seeing last nights episode I am happy to note that Vicky has not changed - I have a feeling what's going to happen - Dev will eventually bring back Vicky and he would pretend to be nice and changed and then would throw Dixit family out of IN . Sona would take Dev, Suhana and Ishwari to the Bose house where Asha and Bijoy would take them in but I have a feeling that it would be Sourav (under the influence of Mrs Mondal) and not ronita who would create a problem, yesterday I was not happy with Sourav's words that he kept saying that he wanted to give his child the best - when Soha was young they did not have so much money, I presume - then didn't he feel the same way?

I also loved how Sona stayed by dev's side and offered him support that he was right and she was by his side. She knows the extent of his anger and the reason why he is no angry with him. She knows he is not as much angry with Vicky about trying to sell the software as much as he is about separating Sona and Dev and throwing the Boses out of their house,

I want to see how Elena reacts when Vicky throws them out of IN - she is such a selfish B***h that she will stay by vickys side because he is the one with the money now. Vicky was always bad but now she has also become the same way. What she did last night was use the love that Dev has for golu.

I am very sure devakshi's love for each other would help them emerge from this crisis much stronger.

Looking forward to the story ahead.

The analysis of characters and story is beautiful here and that is one strong reason I remain hooked to the show.

Originally posted by: Shaavi

Sam, I agree with everything you say. But I still feel that at least some part of the truth needs to be told to Soha. That she should be talked to. If not today, but soon. It is always good to let kids some idea of reality. That will help them to truly differentiate between the right and wrong instead of just going by what they see in front of their eyes. Cause not everything we see in front of our eyes may be the truth. We may have to look beyond that to understand the truth.

And I feel happy that I did that with our son. Recently a kid his age died by committing suicide in school. It seems he had been bullied. After hearing that news, I talked to my son and he was like no way I will do something like that. And I asked him how can he be so sure. He said "Mom, I attended the DARE program when I was in both elementary and middle school". It is a program where police go to schools on scheduled days and teach children the harm caused by weapons, drugs etc and how to say no and choose the right thing.

Saying that bad doesn't exist or just hiding it doesn't really take away the bad. It will be there always. The only thing as a parent we can do is show not all of that, but at least acknowledge it's presence and teach our kids to fight against that. Make the right choice and not just get misled by that.

Not intended to hurt, but am feeling scared for kids like Soha. They are very vulnerable and can be easily manipulated. Cause they are easy targets. And next week it is going to be an emotionally roller coaster week. But am hoping that after next week, it will settle with Vickky's true face coming to the fore and he not having any place to hide. That it will be there for everyone to see and neither maami nor Elena will be able to deny that.

P.S: I have a doubt. Will Elena or maami really be able to digest the truth if Vickky really throws Dev out of IN. Will they truly be able to live there. Will maami be able to wear the sarees or the jewels she wears now. Cause both of them are not that bad from heart. Their heart is not as black as Vickky's. Also will they even agree to live with him, especially maami who is his number 1 fan. I don't know why but am really looking forward now. Maami had in a way rejoiced at Ishwari and Dev's plight at both the break ups. And she always wanted to have what ishwari had. Now that she will be getting that, i wonder how she will like it.

P.P.S: Since Vickky has no real brain in running business, if he acquired Dev's in this way, how long will he actually be able to run it without losing everything. Looks like my brain is in an overdrive. 😆

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

With due respect to those who are of the opinion that Sonakshi handled Soha just right I disagree. In comparison Dev handled Soha well. Once he took the stand he did not bother too much to appease Soha . Instead he went ahead with what he thought is right for the situation.

Dev just tried to interact with Soha at the dining table but did not say anything reg Soha's demand. I loved it Mr Dixit. I hope you will continue to be like that.

Sonakshi just tried to avoid admitting anything before Soha. Not once did she think what would be the impact of such negativity in Soha's heart towards Dev.

Years back she attributed the cause of their separation to Dev before Soha so without hesitation. Years after she still is unperturbed when Dev is emerging as an arrogant person who will not think twice to slap Vicky at a public place.(in Soha's eyes)

Sonakshi is waiting for a proper time to tell the truth? No indication at all. She just did not give it a thought as yet. May be she is afraid to face Soha's questions which may land her in trouble. But being Sonakshi Bose she should have been honest in making Soha realise the truth.

Sonakshi definitely mishandled the situation. I did not like her signalling Dev to stop Elena. She could clearly see how Elena is using the situation to benefit Vicky. Still she wants her back with her vily husband? Did she think atleast a minute about Dev if he is forced to call them back? What difference is there between her and Iswari who thinks more of her brother's family than her own son?

I know I will be among very few who feel this way. But I stick to my point. It is not Dev and Sona who handled Soha well. It is only Dev who handled Soha the best. Reason? He doesn't have the burden of revealing any truth before Soha since he already admitted before Soha.

that it is his fault and he did not take care of Sonakshi well...

Just when I hope Sonakshi will safeguard Dev's image by telling the truth she gave me another reason to feel bad ...

Lakshmi

@iteledevara I agree with you on this, I actually cannot say much about whether Dev handled the situation well or not but I liked that he did not give in to the demands of Suhana though eventually he might but good that he did not give in at that moment, also we need to remember this he did at the risk of further jeopardising his relation with his daughter. After Suhana called him a bad father it would have been very easy for a person like Dev who is emotionally so attached with the people he shares relations with to accept Suhana's demand, remember the time he called Asha as Aunty or for that matter giving job to Vicky just because Ishwari did not like that this time also he could have done the same but good that he did not go down that path, so as a whole I liked what Dev did.

As far as Sonakshi is concerned I agree she could have handled the situation especially with Soha better, just yesterday she had seen that Ishwari scolded Dev when he talked rudely with Mamiji yet today when Soha was doing the same with her Dad she did not tell anything and I did not like that. Another thing that Sonakshi needs to understand relationship between Dev & Soha is still work in progress, they have got together after seven years and for any relationship it takes time to develop. It's natural that both will be a bit insecure with the relation for sometime more so Dev because if anything goes wrong in his relation with Soha it directly affects his relation with Sonakshi as well and it's for Sonakshi to remove that insecurity from both of their minds.

Young kids especially till they are teens are impressionable and that is what is happening with Soha as well. When for the first time Sonakshi revealed about Dev and how he was not good for her Soha thought that he would not be good for her as well, then when she met Dev and knew him she thought otherwise. Same way when Vicky spent some time with them she got the impression that Her Vicky Chachu is good. So this way she is quite impressionable which is quite natural for young kids. And this is where Sonakshi's role becomes more important as Suhana believes that her mother is never wrong and always does the right thing so when Sonakshi is quite even when Soha behaves wrongly she believes that she is doing the right thing as her mother did not say anything, being silent is also a kind of acceptance and Sonakshi is just doing that right now. At the moment she is the most secure with the relationship with Soha so it is her responsibility to make Soha understand why her father is doing what he is even if that means revealing the truth regarding Vicky to Soha. She needs to understand that if not stopped now it can actually further damage Soha's relationship with Dev. And I frankly do not buy the argument that Sonakshi is doing it for the family because if she is then she is doing it at the cost of Dev-Suhana's relationship and that is not right.

Apologies for the long rant, it's just my POV, no offence. Feel free to disagree.

SP12

Ek thappad ki keemat ... I luvd it. Kuch rang already proved that how to deviate or giv importance to something less important wen something more important is involved . For eg. Wen Sona's medical report was out , more importance was given to Ishwari citing the tsunami that hit her ( the news of Sona's 7% chance of being pregnant ) & the subsequent tragedy ..she cudn b a dadi compared to Sona who cudn b a mother . Think of it..which one is more heart wrenching ? One cudn b a dadi or a mom ?? Forget that.. now the focus is on Vicky's mission sudhar jaau ( esp acc to elena , Mamiji etc ) rather than his failed mission Dev Dixit destruction. Vicky tried to steal the software n sell externally n Dev sabotaged the same but still sympathy flows for Vicky bcoz Dev slapped him in front of the kids. The same Vicky tried to slap his own wife Elena .( Even Elena forgot the same n trying to get bak to her dear, trying to-sudharnewale hubby , then watz wrong with u viewers ?? )

Soha ...first of all , a big round of applause n a tight hug to Aaliya . As viewers , if v r fuming with soha's behaviour is bcoz of the convincing acting by this young beautiful lil lady .Well done Aaliya. Soha is such a kid who has her own opinions n who can take her own decisions. ( For a 6/7 yr old, it's a bit too much but ... ) She decided to go bak to kolkatta wen dev n sona refused to stay together. They had to gav in @ last for her . Vicky is hell bent on impressing Soha n Golu n he did succeeded in the same to some extent too. Wen Soha's accident hapnd, Vicky was the first one to reach there wer as dev n Sona was trying to deal with their own personal n professional priorities. I won't blame Dev or Sona alone but both . Parenting is nt a one sided act if both r staying together (but there r single parents too they can handle their kids really well) & as far as Soha is concerned , she needs them both. Actually I luvd Sonakshi ..I luvd the way she hugged Soha so as to comfort her wen Golu was leaving. She managed an emotionally broken Dev too with her soothing hug. The episode was an emotional one with an unchanged Vicky n I'm eagerly waiting for his further plotting , scheming n further games. Afterall someone shud b required for dev n sona to create problems for them, rt ?

Saurav... yaar , this is nt the first baby in the whole universe n u r nt the going to b the first papa. Excitement is good but don go overboard. Saurav shud learn that it's nt bout how big our house is but how happy our home is. An interesting track awaits us , for sure.

After all these house leaving drama of Elena & the spoiler wer Soha demanding Vicky chachu bak, I was thinking bout the tagline ..somewat in a reverse mode. Kya paate hain ( uninvited worries in the form of Vicky ) , kya khote hain ( a peaceful family life for Dev ) jab DIMAG ke faisle bhi DIL se hote hain...For Vicky , the faisla shud b from dimag , nt from dil bcoz he's such a pain in the ...🤬

Aarcha

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Aarcha

A tight hug can never change the attitude of a rebelling child. Atleast for me. If you think Sonakshi not telling the truth of Vicky to Soha and let her continue with her antics is OK so be it..All I can say is Sonakshi is just behaving against her supposed notions that a truth should never be hidden even before the kid.

Dev could do nothing in this regard since Soha won't believe him now. Still because he is a parent he is to be blamed?

Lakshmi