Lakshmi: Sorry to disagree with your view. Right now Sonakshi is running away from truth and Dev. She readily agreed to wipe away his thoughts and promised her father so. By now Dev revealed his feelings before her umpteen times and Sonakshi is smart enough to know his inclination. Just recently he said if I can control your mind break up wouldn't have happened. What more could he do when every time Sonakshi snubs him and shows her reluctance!
Agreed he has been very transparent with her...but what next? He has taken a 360 degree turn after the Khatri incident...he is whining in quilt which is unwarranted...dynamics of IN hasn't changed nor the people there...to a greater extent Dev also the same when it comes to his mom...what's new there after 7years which should propel sonakshi to accept him?
@ Chitra
What Dev felt after the Khatri incident in no way determines the way his relationship with Sona be . He may feel for his mother and regret his behaviour towards her . How can it effect Sonakshi who herself admitted her undaunted reverence for Iswari?
@ Chitra To me Dev changed for certain. He did not readily oblige when Iswari told him her demands. He is thinking. People in IN did not change. So what? Now Dev knows what went wrong in the past. He ascertained before RR that it is his house and Asha is his guest. I found him just right. If he takes a decision to remarry it won't be totally for Iswari, It is also for his sake.
Lakshmi: Iswari gave him option to reunite with Sonakshi but Dev told her it won't be possible. Why did he do so? He understood Sona would never let that happen. Hence he doesn't want to persuade her to rekindle her feelings and give another chance to their relationship. He cares for her and realises his part in their separation. Still in the pre cap we see him raising the topic before Sonakshi and I am sure she would advise him to move on. After all the word given to her father counts for her.
Dev should take a reality check on why Sona would never let that happen...even today she is dreamy-eyed in his presence...so what is deterring her? A self-introspection is highly warranted...I hate to reiterate it again I don't blame Dev for this...if anyone thinks he should discard his mother for Sona or stand by her side and go against his mom...the way Dev Dixit's character is portrayed he can never do that...if he does then he will be no longer the Dev we all know...the corrective action is required from Ishwari only
@ Chitra Dev need not do a reality check. He respects Sona's decision. He believes he is the reason for her reluctance. At the same time he may try to analyse the propriety of Iswari's demand and then take a decision.
Sonakshi should introspect where her happiness lies. Then she can discuss openly with Dev the hurdles and the ways to overcome them to make their marriage a success. Dev is always receptive to her ideas.
Lakshmi: Dev already is man enough to accept his mistakes and say sorry. He can be her sun Ofcourse for that Sonakshi should first gain enough courage to let him be. Iswari or no Iswari Dev will shine like a sun just like she dreamt of had she shown slightest inclination towards giving a second chance to their relationship.
Agreed Lakshmi, but give me one instance where Sona is reassured that whatever happened will not be repeated...we always tell this to our children...say sorry for your mistakes only if you will not repeat it, if you are going to repeat the same mistake don't apologise... isn't this rule applicable to dev also? umpteenth time he makes mistakes and comes back with a puppy face...how long this will continue???
@Chitra well Both of them crossed the stage of verbal reassurances.It is not only Dev who should not repeat his mistakes. Sonakshi has equal share in their separation. I think she said it once. I won't target only Dev for the break up. You and me differ here. I blame Bijoy Bose also as he like Iswari drove them towards separation. So both of them should try their bit to sustain their relationship if they have inclination to do so.
Lakshmi: Yes Soha will suffer more than anyone else like I said in my previous post But her parents are ill fated. Despite loving each other hopelessly they can not live a happy life together . Soha's fate also looks bad as she has to grow up in such situation where she may have to see her parents drift apart in different ways. I am sure if Bijoy asks Sonakshi to prove her point that she is able to wipe off Dev and his thoughts by marrying Jatin,she will readily agree to do so. Now the situation demands both to stand up for their togetherness. Dev can do it by all means but Sonakshi may not. So I feel Dev's honesty and commitment in love towards her are still intact . Given a chance he will grab the opportunity to be with Sonakshi till his last breath. Let Sonakshi admit it for a change...
(in bold) I feel it has nothing to do with commitment and honesty...a relationship will not survive simply due to love, honesty...the building bloc is trust and supporting each other in difficulties...in that department both Dev-sona has to go a long way...in the current scenario if they unite, sonakshi will be at the receiving end again and the history will repeat and casualities will be not only on Devakshi but on Soha also
For peaceful co-existence I don't expect Devakshi to change but the change should come from their respective parents...will it happen? Lets wait and watch
@ Chitra the bond exists between them So they are the ones who will make it or break it. Others will just contribute either in cementing their relationship or in breaking their relationship. Dev and Sona are the main players who has to take charge . They have to change for better. If you remember Dev instantly became ready to live separately with Sona and Soha but Sona declined his offer. I am sure Dev will do the needful once Sonakshi approves to be with him. I don't think their parents need to change. RR or GKB need to change. No. Dev and Sonakshi should change . If they do there are many ways to make their relationship work.
Dev definitely changed according to me. Sonakshi should realise the effort they have to put up to see Soha happy,to give Soha a normal childhood like any other kid who gets both her parents to live with.
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