*Season 2, Week 9* Analysis Thread - Page 29

Originally posted by: devakshi1

Does that fire represent Dev's hatred/anger?We have heard a lot of stress given for the same throughout S2.Suhana seems to have fuelled his anger towards Sona.I dont really know how to elaborate.That fire only seemed to be helping him.Sona was still shivering.WHen they finally came close that fire was nearly dying.

Dramaqueen- I read your love language post and I liked that one too.

I came across this on twitter guys. Do watch it if u have time😊

Lots of discussions have arisen here from spoilers, regarding Sonakshi and Suhana moving back into Dixit Mansion. I am not into spoilers so won't comment on this. But, the debate of who was right or wrong even after so many episodes, does reveal that this script is indeed different. How could Sonakshi walk out just because Dev thundered,"GET OUT"? How could Dev utter such words to his wife? So, it's back to the same debate. I loved the POVs of so many writers here who echoed my thoughts. 😃 When two friends fight, if they are besties, all is forgiven and forgotten. Chalta hain yaar, DIL pe mat le yaar etc etc. Here, Dev-Sonakshi are soul-mates. Yet, Dev thunders in anger after Ishwari is accidentally pushed (just like Bijoy was accidentally 😊 ) and Sonakshi catches Dev's collar in front of his family. Then he thunders "Get out!" and she obediently walks away!!! 🤣

I would have just walked upstairs to our room and closed the door and stayed put, till tempers cool down.

Anyways, too much water has flowed under the bridge, but the characters now are bringing out their bitterness about these past incidents. The significance of the time spent by the leads in the jungle is to probably reflect that these incidents were never forgotten by them and that's the reason why both of them have not moved on. They are still clinging onto old memories to confirm whether they were right or wrong. They want to be right, to console themselves that living apart for seven years was not their fault. Each one tells the other that if he/she had behaved differently, things would have been different. The dialogues here were meaningful and well-written. Sonakshi blames Dev for depriving her and him the happiness of a family, while Dev holds her responsible for it as she chose to walk out! Both are not willing to own up to their mistakes. Dev was blinded by his love for Ishwari, while Sonakshi's false pride made her take the unfortunate step. While Dev has accepted that his 'zindagi' has been empty all these years, Sonakshi has created a wrong halo of a happy family around her, which is likely to break very soon.

Interesting episodes ahead...enjoy the weekend.



-Rekha

Psychology fact - Anger is a natural defense against pain. When someone says" I hate you", they really mean "you hurt me."

After yesterday's episode I have pretty much made peace with the fact that Dev never went after Sona and the Bose family to check how they fared.( I still hope though) But he kept repeating the same thing over and over that it was Sona who left him. Sona and family leaving Delhi, the place where they grew up, worked and had contacts actually made a statement. Sona expected Dev to come after her. He always did. So what made him not do what he does this time around? It was the statement that she doesn't even want to live in the same city that he lives. Just like the Dixits came back to their roots making a statement to the society who hurt them, the Boses also went back to their roots.

There is a saying that a woman choose a partner like her father and a man chooses someone who reminds him of his mother. For Dev, Ishwari was not only his mother but he literally worshipped her. Same with Sona though not to that extend because of the difference in circumstances. But Dev could see the strength he saw in his mother in Sona and Sona saw the caring side of Bijoy in Dev.

The same characteristic that made them fall for each other is now causing them immense hurt. Dev acknowledges and appreciates subconsciously the fact that Sona just like his mother fought the adversities and has brought up their daughter wonderfully. But this same quality that made him trust her with his complicated family never materialized when it came to him. She never fought the world for him the way she fought for their daughter. This hurts him like hell and that is the biggest gripe he has with his ex-wife. What he appreciates in his daughter's mother is making him lash out at his lover.

Sona has seen the caring side of Dev all too well even before she became Dev's friend. All she ever wanted was to be included in that group. Their marriage became a war zone with Ishwari with more than a little help from GKB and her family planting land mines everywhere. Where Dev expected her to help him navigate through this avoiding the mines as much as possible, she made him pick each and every mine to disarm it and finally fell prey to the one that exploded. She never could understand why he was trying to avoiding these instead of facing it head on. But what she couldn't find in her husband, she saw it in her daughter's father. He overcame his fear of snakes which he had from childhood for his daughter. Even though Ishwari and Dixits made it clear indirectly that she won't ever be accepted as a Dixit if she is not able to give them an heir, she knew Dev never thought that way and accepted her as she was. She was able to go back with a six month old Soha only because of that. But seeing him willing to place their daughter his first and only priority, fight for her and work relentlessly to make her accept him makes her happy as Soha's mother but it also makes her frustrated with her ex-husband.

They now know that the other person is as much affected as they are. But they are unwilling to act on it because they don't trust that the other person cares as much as they themselves care. And now since the priority is their daughter they have enough means to interact with each other and don't have to go out of the way to create opportunities. Even though when they are alone with each other the lover's hurt comes to fore, if Soha's well being is under threat they will be a team. As much they are going to admire each other as parents it is also going to hurt the lovers in them and this bickering is only going to escalate. Added to that the frustration of being together but unable to act on it with all the sparks flying is going to create a mean edge to their fights. With Jothin still in the picture and Soha and Golu wanting them to be together I really hope the maturity of the parents take over the irrationality of the mean lovers before more people ends up hurt.

"It is hard to wait around for something you know might never happen, but it's even harder to give up when it is everything you want."

@Geena ...beautifully written ..bang on post

Geena. What a post!! Kudos. What a post!! 🤗

Originally posted by: gmgi

Psychology fact - Anger is a natural defense against pain. When someone says" I hate you", they really mean "you hurt me."

After yesterday's episode I have pretty much made peace with the fact that Dev never went after Sona and the Bose family to check how they fared.( I still hope though) But he kept repeating the same thing over and over that it was Sona who left him. Sona and family leaving Delhi, the place where they grew up, worked and had contacts actually made a statement. Sona expected Dev to come after her. He always did. So what made him not do what he does this time around? It was the statement that she doesn't even want to live in the same city that he lives. Just like the Dixits came back to their roots making a statement to the society who hurt them, the Boses also went back to their roots.

There is a saying that a woman choose a partner like her father and a man chooses someone who reminds him of his mother. For Dev, Ishwari was not only his mother but he literally worshipped her. Same with Sona though not to that extend because of the difference in circumstances. But Dev could see the strength he saw in his mother in Sona and Sona saw the caring side of Bijoy in Dev.

The same characteristic that made them fall for each other is now causing them immense hurt. Dev acknowledges and appreciates subconsciously the fact that Sona just like his mother fought the adversities and has brought up their daughter wonderfully. But this same quality that made him trust her with his complicated family never materialized when it came to him. She never fought the world for him the way she fought for their daughter. This hurts him like hell and that is the biggest gripe he has with his ex-wife. What he appreciates in his daughter's mother is making him lash out at his lover.

Sona has seen the caring side of Dev all too well even before she became Dev's friend. All she ever wanted was to be included in that group. Their marriage became a war zone with Ishwari with more than a little help from GKB and her family planting land mines everywhere. Where Dev expected her to help him navigate through this avoiding the mines as much as possible, she made him pick each and every mine to disarm it and finally fell prey to the one that exploded. She never could understand why he was trying to avoiding these instead of facing it head on. But what she couldn't find in her husband, she saw it in her daughter's father. He overcame his fear of snakes which he had from childhood for his daughter. Even though Ishwari and Dixits made it clear indirectly that she won't ever be accepted as a Dixit if she is not able to give them an heir, she knew Dev never thought that way and accepted her as she was. She was able to go back with a six month old Soha only because of that. But seeing him willing to place their daughter his first and only priority, fight for her and work relentlessly to make her accept him makes her happy as Soha's mother but it also makes her frustrated with her ex-husband.

They now know that the other person is as much affected as they are. But they are unwilling to act on it because they don't trust that the other person cares as much as they themselves care. And now since the priority is their daughter they have enough means to interact with each other and don't have to go out of the way to create opportunities. Even though when they are alone with each other the lover's hurt comes to fore, if Soha's well being is under threat they will be a team. As much they are going to admire each other as parents it is also going to hurt the lovers in them and this bickering is only going to escalate. Added to that the frustration of being together but unable to act on it with all the sparks flying is going to create a mean edge to their fights. With Jothin still in the picture and Soha and Golu wanting them to be together I really hope the maturity of the parents take over the irrationality of the mean lovers before more people ends up hurt.

"It is hard to wait around for something you know might never happen, but it's even harder to give up when it is everything you want."