*Season 2, Week 4* Analysis Thread - Page 3

There was another thing I noticed in Friday's precap. In that Dev asks Sonakshi if she had come to meet "her parivaar ". If Dev and Sonakshi are legally divorced then how is Dev's family is still hers? Or is this the way CVs are planning to reunite Dev and Sonakshi 😛


I also want a scene which is similar to their love confession scene . I also want a repeat of Dev - Bijoy scene where Bijoy comes to meet Dev after Sonakshi- Kushal Roy date where Sonakshi calls Dev dumb and Ishwari hears it. 😆

Originally posted by: vayu_prachi

Hopefully sona Di...they do have a trend of something major happening in the story on milestones

dats d only reason m hoping against a hope

@Shaavi ...such a beautiful ananlysis on ishwari ...n d last para
I am not defending Ishwari but am trying to understand how a person who does so much wrong continue to believe that they did not do anything wrong. I also feel sorry for her because when the realization happens that she has actually harmed her son, I don't want to be in her shoes. 😛

being a mother i too wud give anything in dis world for not being in her shoes dat tym ...to realise dat my son is beyond miserable n i am d reason ...

@Sam, oohhh... I'd love to see Sona in her 'I'm not so in control as you might think' avatar too. There is a saying in Tamil 'kodu Potta rodu podra ' 😆 which translates into 'if I draw a line you turn that into a road'. That was one scenario which I want to happen and all you guys are giving awesome scenarios to exploit. If only the CVs utilize half of what we discus here 😆 . Sona has always been perceived as the 'strong' one the one in controlalwys, the fix-it-all type. She's been put on a pedestal by her father and Dev that I think she thinks she shouldn't show she's not what they think her to be. Seeing her unravel like you said in Dev's arms will be an electrifying scene and much needed to show that she too is 'human'. In Dev and Sona's relationship, Dev has always been the heart while she has been the head - so with the reversals going on it will be one hell of a reversal if Sona becomes the heart and Sev the head(though I can't ever imagine Dev being anything but heart, even with the new version of himself, I can see that he's still heart but doesn't wear it on his sleeve for all to see- just my pov) - the way we can see his heart in his eyes when he looks at Sona makes me feel that. So, the point of this ramble is we'd all like to see a demonstrative or a not-in-control Sona. Sigh!!! If only unicorns existed... 😆

P.S @shaavi, Ishwari's psyche analysis was so good. Still, am not a big fan of her, whatever her motivations or reasons 😆

thank u so much guys for your wonderful dissections abt the characters..more than the show now i am addicted to this thread..i really enjoy reading thank u so much guys for making this wonderful thread with unbiased analysis..love u all🤗

Originally posted by: Looneygirl

P.S @shaavi, Ishwari's psyche analysis was so good. Still, am not a big fan of her, whatever her motivations or reasons 😆

I don't like her either, but feel bad for her. 😊 in the beginning of the series she is shown to be a sensible and strong person. She appreciated Sonakshi multiple times and even supported her. She told Dev that Sonakshi's MIL would be very happy with her. When Sonakshi tells Ishwari about her broken alliance with Kushan, Ishwari advises how it was all good. She praises Sonakshi's upbringing when Sona convinces Neha to wear the lehenga sent by Ranveer family. How did Ishwari forget all this as soon as Dev came into this picture?.

I remember reading this saying -- there are bad children, bad brother, sister etc, but there is never a bad mother. But then I feel neither Ishwari nor GKB are good mothers. Both have given an upbringing where the sons end up miserable. If sons like Dev end up being alone or lose their family, sons like Vickky end up in jail or become criminals. So then why do we define mothers as the epitome of goodness.

Also in India the mental disorders are not really diagnosed as most of the time it is not even considered as might be the reason for one's behavior. I mean in U.S. Ishwari would be considered having suffered from PTSD or some such syndrome or condition. Why there is not much awareness among people.

Today while watching Harry Potter i felt Soha and Golu are like Hermoine and Ron. Also in previous thread we were discussing how Voldemort was evil because of lack of love in his life. But then Bellatrix Lestrange is also described as equally evil. What drove her when she is shown to have come from a decent family.

Ishwari is always shown to strive to be called the perfect mother. Is being perfect mother more important than giving your child a happy life. Is being an average mother so bad that it is considered as below standard if your child is happy with being who they are and not what you want them to be.

I am just trying to understand what drove Ishwari to where she is today... 😊 and is it possible for someone like her to redeem themselves.

Shaavi, I understand what you are trying to say and why you are feeling bad for her. I too felt she was quite accepting of Sonakshi as a person but when she became intertwined with Dev, Sona became the epitome of evil 😕. Though Ishwari was possessive of Dev, she still had a soft corner for Sona. But that's all water down the bridge. Yes, GKB and Iswari are crappy in the 'I want my son to be happy' department as they have various definitions of happiness. But here in they fail to understand that while Ishwari wants happiness for Dev he wanted joy. Hope you get it- happiness is temporary while joy is lasting and Dev's joy is Sona 😳 . That's why we see(and most of us agree that Dev is happy now,relatively) but does he have joy? A big fat NO. Like wise Sona, she's happy now in her place as Soha's mother and blue-eyed daughter to Bijoy Bose again but is she truly joyful? Again a big fat NO. Because we all know that the truth of the matter is Sona is Dev's joy and vice versa. Well again it seems I went off topic, 😆 . Though I had empathy for Ishwari, I'm not in the mood to dole out sympathies any more for the way she is totally refusing to leave her cuckoo land( not La La Land, cos I hear it's an awesome movie 😆 ). I'm trying to understand too but it's not getting beyond the start point... . Anyway once again, you wrote a brilliant piece - and yes mental illnesses are still taboo here.

P.S : Don't kill me for this - I'm not a potter head. My daughter is - and she rambles quite a bit about it so I know the general scheme of things and the various protagonists so I got what you are trying to say.

Alright, one more thing, the week hasn't even started yet and we've filled up four pages already! I can't thank Sam and DQ and many other awesome people enough for this thread. You made me come out of the woodwork and say my POV too. I know for sure I can speak my mouth off and empathize with Dev and not be judged. I'm always team Devakshi 😳. Even when he was a total knucklehead(not that he is not one now) 😆 , I used to want to know why Dev is the way he is and I've never been unsure that he loves Sona, used to get fed up with all the one way rants now I'm a happy person that I can voice my opinion without being ridiculed.Hugs to all of you.

P.S: Not to say I don't love Sona - I love her too though at present she's acting like Dev 1.0. Well we did talk about role reversals 😆 😆

Since everyone is talking about Ishwari and Sonakshi...

Hi everone.This is the first time I'm posting here. had a few ideas which could make the leap look realistic-