Difference Of Upbringing - Page 3

Originally posted by: mayu1982

Sorry to butt in as well.

Currently am staying in australia

Till my son was 5 year old then he was not able to write ABC properly forget about anything.

Now he is 6 and half he could write small sentence and even able to read it.

He loves school a lot. They play, dance, learn music , learn sports. Learn different languages without burden of any heavy books or exam.

" Learn and play" is lovely concept over here.

Yes let kid enjoy his childhood . let him live the childhood without burden of marks, failure .

Childhood is most precious time of any human being.

One thing I have learnt over here- Let the child live his/her childhood.

Yeh paal phir se nahi aayege. Yeh paal bas yaadein ban kar rahe jaayege.

Unfortunately we, indian , are killing the childhood of many kids with so much studies. 😡

India mein sab ko engineer and doctor banana hai ..

Originally posted by: DevakshiCrazy

I agree
Sometimes i feel soha is way ahead f her age in terms of thinking n behaving while golu is xactly what he shd be

Originally posted by: deepakloveskat

Originally posted by: deepakloveskat

well its gud she is smart enough. my niece is 9 yrs old n is mature enough to understand situations. but she has a normal childhood..but no kuch sonakshi ki kami to nikalni hai na... kuch bhi reason bana lo. atleast her upbringing willnot be pathetic like her dad who even in his thirties was tied to his maa ka pallu.. n reagrding calling people by name.. i have seen people using maiden names also some uses tu for their parents including dev.. it depends on the surrounding.. that doesnt means it is disrespect. we may feel uncomfortable but others might not!

Originally posted by: deepakloveskat

i myself an engineer studying from top notch college in india... but my parents never forced me. ofc they were strict but they let me enjoy my passion football n dancing... yes we need to growup from engineer n doctors mentality but middle class has not many options... there should be perfect balance but we shouldnt let our kids be failure like golu as simple as that..when i reached 11th standard mom dad asked me to study hard. was it wrong? no! today i m placed in top MNC going to join soon...but if i had left studies for fun all d tym i would be sitting home doing nothing

Originally posted by: mayu1982

Exactly survi

How can 6 year old can be equal to 9 year old kid😕😳

With this logic from tomorrow 15 year old should be equal to 18 year old as well.

Logic ka bhi THE END KI bhi limit honi chaiye

Rest you have said everything so apt.😳

Originally posted by: M.soni

Sonakshi burai hahahahhaha..like u all do dev ki burai call him rapist manhandler and SO CALLED REPEATITIVE MPC...jo aj tak show me dekha nahi assume kr k dev pe start...hahahahaj..

Jab bura bolty ho toh bura sune k guts bhi rakho...jahan jo galte hai usko galte bolne k guts rakho.ok...atleast we r not talking on assumption...we r talking on what we r watchng.
i never called him rapist... but he is MCP male chauvinist pig n u need proof? sona is nthng compared to mcp

And and about ageee...

Cant u see 3 year difference between 6 year and 9 year child...3 year mazak nahi hoty ok...my niece is 6 year old...but she is innocent .do all mast...dont know how to make hairs.through her toys here and and there...do nautanki play with toys .and alot of thing...i u want can show the video of her...then u can get 6 saal ke bachy golu jaise hoty hn ya soha jaise...
ok i can be wrong here. i m not good with kids. so i can accpet i can be wrong here

Upbring is not pathetic..but calling father spinless in front of child is so so nice ..wowoow..let me remaind u soha said about dev jab bhi suna hai unke bare me bura suna hai...ab soha jake bahar se toh sun kar nahi ai na dev kaisa hai...offcourse bose family me hi suna hai jo bhi hai etc...now i think should thank bose family and sona k they have brain washed of 6 year child against her father..q ki dev ne unki beti ko chora toh chalo dev se uski beti chin lo..hissab equal...and i should give slap to dev who never insult vixky or others in front of golu...who never bring his and family difference in between his and golu relation...ghadha jahil duffer MPC jo hai.atni aqal nahi na k badon ki fights ka advange udha kr bachon ka brain wash karo...
well dev asked for it.. did he ever do somethng gud to sona? he used her, he hide things from her,used her as baby making machine a doormate n thrown her out of his house. for sona he signed prenup n acc to that he will not pay a single penny for kid. so he isn't fulfiling fathers duty.. ofc dev was tricked by ish but bose family thinks he signed prenup n they did gud

Calling name..haan jee... Jab dev ne asha ko aunty kaha tha toh what tamesha was done by bose family...now they r ok with soha calling asha by name .because their upbringing...wah wah wah what a double standrdcrap...
well i dont like kid calling granny by name but it is their upbringing...their choice

Let me remaind u..we devakshi fan and dev team tab bhi ghussa howae thy jqb dev ne aunty kaha tha ..and aj bhi acha nahi lagta soha calling ash by name...if u want proof i can give ...u want?

i dont need ur proof. all i see is blind support currenty

😆

Originally posted by: M.soni

Sonakshi burai hahahahhaha..like u all do dev ki burai call him rapist manhandler and SO CALLED REPEATITIVE MPC...jo aj tak show me dekha nahi assume kr k dev pe start...hahahahaj..

Jab bura bolty ho toh bura sune k guts bhi rakho...jahan jo galte hai usko galte bolne k guts rakho.ok...atleast we r not talking on assumption...we r talking on what we r watchng.

And and about ageee...

Cant u see 3 year difference between 6 year and 9 year child...3 year mazak nahi hoty ok...my niece is 6 year old...but she is innocent .do all mast...dont know how to make hairs.through her toys here and and there...do nautanki play with toys .and alot of thing...i u want can show the video of her...then u can get 6 saal ke bachy golu jaise hoty hn ya soha jaise...let me tell u my jeeju and sister are doctor.welll mannered and matured people...unki beti k pass 24 hr tab hota hai etc...technolgy give u practical thinkng.not about realtionship thinkng and na hi ammma abbba types baatein karna sikhati h.

Upbring is not pathetic..but calling father spinless in front of child is so so nice ..wowoow..let me remaind u soha said about dev jab bhi suna hai unke bare me bura suna hai...ab soha jake bahar se toh sun kar nahi ai na dev kaisa hai...offcourse bose family me hi suna hai jo bhi hai etc...now i think should thank bose family and sona k they have brain washed of 6 year child against her father..q ki dev ne unki beti ko chora toh chalo dev se uski beti chin lo..hissab equal...and i should give slap to dev who never insult vixky or others in front of golu...who never bring his and family difference in between his and golu relation...ghadha jahil duffer MPC jo hai.atni aqal nahi na k badon ki fights ka advange udha kr bachon ka brain wash karo...

Calling name..haan jee... Jab dev ne asha ko aunty kaha tha toh what tamesha was done by bose family...now they r ok with soha calling asha by name .because their upbringing...wah wah wah what a double standrdcrap...

Let me remaind u..we devakshi fan and dev team tab bhi ghussa howae thy jqb dev ne aunty kaha tha ..and aj bhi acha nahi lagta soha calling ash by name...if u want proof i can give ...u want?

Originally posted by: survika1111

Thank you di..Problem is ppl are not understanding the meaning.6 years is the age to lead a life as a kid.not like a grown up girl.A 9 Year old girl is much more mature then 6 years.what a 9 yera Old can do is not applicable at all to the 6 yeras.Being over mature Then age if considered To be smartness then i am happy i have Kids around Me who are dumb And Kid actually

Originally posted by: mayu1982

MY elder sister till the age of 14 was not at all good in studies- my parents never forced us to study as well. But when she came into 9th standard, she tarted liking studies and not only that she was gold medalist throughout after 9th standard.

Today She is professor in Navy college.

SO bad student in primary school doesn't proves that you will be bad student forever. 😳

Whereas my brother in law hardly passed graduation with passing marks. But he got field of his choice. Today he is an executive in Gowanka house= dealing with topmost builders in Mumbai. He was earning in crores, literally in crores.

Hence proved that Success of any person is not determined by studies , but with his liking towards his field.

Above story is stories of middle class people and not rich class people.

So study is not parameter of anyone success.

Even I know doctors who are so highly educated so called doctors but struggle to earn for two time bread and butter.

But still study is important factor of life. Let it remain as an important factor but let it become whole and sole of the life.

One can achieve success with or without education.

Sachin tendulkar was just 12th pass student but he is what everyone knows.

Secondly who knows what golu will become in future. It quite hardcore statement by you for GOLU😕

Does any ask you whether you have cleared your papers in what percentage in 1st standard?

Don't leave the studies, do whatever you feel like.

If you want to play, sing, dance etc do it with all determination and honesty

P.S. HIGH TIme we need to change our mentality as well. Every time we can not hide under the name of middle class problem and its limitations.