Difference Of Upbringing

Hey There all Ppl..


I am Here Today talk about sth Serious

It's About Upbringings..


Upbringings About Two Children..The New Lives Of The Show

Our Adorable Golu And Lovely Tiny Miny Sohana Bose


So Here I am With My Thoughts..This is My analysis After Watching These Two Kids And Compare Them With The kids I have around Me Iof Similar age Group

This Is Very Surprising for me To say But I found Golu Is much More Normal and Well behaved Then Soha according To age

They are first Of all Kids..Ya I understand They want Show Sona Has Brought Up her child all Alone And make her strong Enough To Face the world..But Is It really gone into a Right way..???

Well may Be some how Yes..But In a Bigger Case It's No!!!!!!

1st Thing I want To Point Out Brtween this Two Is The way of talk

Golu-He Exactly talk like what a 6 Years Old Kid Talk Around me.I could immidiately Connect with Him.Instead Of Living Such a mad house with such a Horrible parents His innocent didn't fade away..And Not There unnecessary Maturity.He is a Kid so he Behaves like that.Talk like that

Soha-Being extreamly confident girl Sometimes it end up as Over smartness Or Over maturity Shown By A lil Kid Who Is Just 6.The way she talk sometimes really Make Me wonder To beleive That ok, Is she just 6..??? ..she Doesn't seem So..But It happens when she is at Home Most The Time When She is With Golu i think She Is much tone Down..Now May Be It's Like Bado ke saath Bado jaisa And Choto ke sath Choto Jaisa..which Is really Not digestible To get From a 6 Yrs Old kid..


2nd Thing Is Their Behavior

Golu-He Is Naughty..he Is Cute..He answered back GKB When She Does her stupid antics..No matter how The Lady is ..she Is her dadi..So Respect should Be there.Yes He laugh When she talks In her silly English Language.But He Never say anything which can Make us think Yaar Ye baccho jaise baat kiyu nehi karta..Aise Kaun Bolta hai..!!

Soha-She Is More tend Try To Be Mature..and ans Back Bijoy In The manner where some how I feel she shouldn't...Like Calling him Kaise baate Karte ho..and so on i exactly don't remember the Lines I felt a Bit Over Written or Over Used..If a Kid ans In this way Then she should immidiatly Be stopped by The elders..either By parents Or the Other gurdians..

3rd Is their Way Of addressing

Way Of addressing Other Is Very Important Especially when it comes .To address Ur Own elders

Golu-No Matter In which Atmosphere He has been brought Up he Call each n Every member Of His family with proper Name.Dadi,Bari daadi,Big cha...and There Is A Good Vibe when He call Those name..which is Very cute..

Soha-I from the Beiging Have the issue to Call asha By Her name..at First i Thought may Be She Is teasing Her By calling her Name ..But Now I ma seeing that it's regular.She actully call ashA By her name.which is really sth Not to Be appriciated.The first day when Bijoy Asked Her Not To call asha By her Name..and Her rply was "Aapko Kya..aapko toh Dadu Bulati hoon na"..A Girl who has A Mother Like sona These Kind of word Is Really unexpected..When dev called Asha aunty We Prtested that so strongly..Sona Took such a Huge stand..But when Her own daughter is Misbehaving with Her Parents She instead of taking it As Fun Should have make her understand.Idk what other would do but i would definitely No Support My daughter in This Silly antic

4th is Atmosphere Of Home

Golu-He lives In almost A Luxurious Mental home..Where all are mad..But still He is Not affected by that..His mom and daa Doesn't share some kind of relation where it can Be called a perfect couple.His Big cha Is Casanova..His Big chachi Left the Home.His bari dai Is Super Depressed.his dadi Is hopeless..dada Is almost Not There after Being there.But still no Bad impact is there in his little mind.He plays cricket and Break vase Like a Normal child.He laughed On If anyone do Silly Mistakes.He ran away to His big cha to Be saved from Others Scolding ..except Gkb Told her bad about His big chachi I rarely Remember he got any bad impression about anyone.Even though he heard all that nonsesnse he forgot that Like a Chota Baccha and enjoy his Life in His small small happiness.Being Such a Bad Human 9according to some) Dev doesn't cross His line before Golu..He Din't say a Single word To vikky When golu came there.Even Vikky remain silent.this are The simple things Which Should Be There a Child's Around .No One There To Care For Him..But He Is happy.why..Cause Big cha Is there To Bring freshness In Life.he ate alone,Can't waer a Tie But he Is Enjoying.and he is More Like A Kid By His Behavior..I feel so bad for Him..But at the same Time i am happy to see he is having his childhood far From the unnecessary Elder talks..

Soha-I Really don't get In what kind of atmosphere this little girl is Living.where She is seeing everyday his Dadu yelling at People without Most Of The time No reason.Always talking about past.Talking about His dad.This is really confusing.Cause in One hand sonakshi said she has No Problem If she wants To meet Her father..On The other hand she Said wheneever i Heard About my dad i heard bad about Him.what kind Of Upbringing is This..?.as far i remember One word of sonakshi she said apke Papa Bohot acche Insaan they Baas mere Lie nehi they..so from where she got an Impression Of his father being bad..It really made me Doubt on Bijoy.The way he talks About dev In front of soha is i think strong enough to manipulate a kid's Brain.And here some Mistakes Are Sona's also..she always want her daughter to Take part in every coversation of bose family.which is quite illogical.after all she Is a Kid..She won't understand everything u said.and if one talk Impartially And other talk Being too much partial then the lil girl will Never Ever able to understand what is Right and and what is wrong.Among all this asha Is quite a Bit Lost i found over here as a didu..where We saw asha Ma as undoubtedly the best and most inspirational mother Of Tv industry Here her role as Dida is a Complete fail..The atmosphere In bose house Is More complicated Then dixit's I feel..Where Every one Being Damn Care about golu except dev Golu is having The most Innocent way To Live His Childhood..where else Being over Careful About soha Some How boses are taking away The Full enjoyment of that girl..and In a Process Of Turning her a Perfect Doll..which a Kid Should Not have.They Need to Do mistakes So that they can learn..

5th Differnce Is Their Attitude

Golu-He Is a Quite Sweet More like A Baccha Type baccha..he Used To Naughtiness at his Home.Mess Up things and come To His Big cha To ask help.this Is what his attitude Is...Mischievous , Try To act Smart but end Up being innocent,Talk like kid,messy ,Soft and Childish,Imperfect

Soha-Here comes sohana bose.who's first line Is ''I hate baby talk"-Baby is hating baby talk.fine Understand u want to Be big as like as Ur mom ,U follow her But i Really don't think ur mom was like you when she was at ur age.Where Golu is Considering to Be Imperfect here MS.Sohana Bose's Fav.Line is 'I AM PERFECT"-pure arrogance..where Did u learn This Ms.Bose.who taught u to Consider urself peefec.And I amm surprised To see That Being sonakshi as a Mother she didn't clear this thing that no one is perfect .U need to accept Ur flaws.Rather then Appriciating Her U can handle it own i think it would e much better to teach her tht Discuss It with me i will help u to sort out.idk wht other thing my mom always tell me that..since i was 5.and i don't think she made me a weak girl or dependent on her.But She Took the Right time right age To Make me feel that i should stand on my own feet.rather then make my childhood a Game Of maturity..

6th difference in Study

Golu-A Failure In exam..He doesn't like To study Or his big cha doesn't let him study,Surely a big big matter for Children.But not only the matter.6 year is more likely to enjoy rather then Spend ur whole time in study.Yes Here Golu's Parents Failure is visible.Here we can say he is getting spoiled By his big cha.In that case may be he should.cause mamu and chachu's are There to spoil Child and make them enjoy.What dev did.but he also managed a private tutuion fr him as well..and very Pleasent to see after that PTA meeting ELENA as mother Showing some responsibility Towards Golu's study.


Soha-a super Good student of a Super mother.Who never failed Out to make better Soha's Education facilities.She didn't waste A single Day and admitted her into the school..i really like this attitude Of sonakshi.and here she Set an example of Great upbinging.I really wish saurabh dada was There To Make soha Distract For a Lil time to play or to do some fun stuff.hope we can see That later In future.cause only study is not about childhood.u need t get sth out of that as well.


Not Every One is perfect..Neither their childhood..

Every parents try to give their Child a Best life.Some succeeded some not.But Their Tries are always there

Sonakshi being a strong woman and having a grt family background Made our expectation more high.but whenever I see soha as a Kid I found Like their is a Failed Try to make a Little Girl Bigger Then Her age...Where They are Trying to bring Maturity There some kind Of ill manner Show A Glimpse of it.where they are trying to Show That soha is punctual It is ending up to A picture of systematic childhood.which i really don't believe in.In the Race of making her perfect They are Presenting her as,arrogant.Which is really not acceptable from a 6 year old tiny. Khargosh sohana bose

On the contrary Golu Is way more normal as Kid.There is his faulty childhood with lot's of Refreshing enjoyment.When i see golu i feel Like He is Not acting ..But he is portraying himself There What he does in real life


This post is Not about Dev and sonakshi and their blame game.it's all about the Upbringing Of These Two kids.So pls no Discussion about dev soankshi's faults In their relationship

I Love Ms.Sohana Bose and have a weakness towards her..but i really feel sad to see how character is molded..where we should connect more with Devakshi's Tiny we are easily connecting with vilena's golu.Here it proves agin upbringing is more Important than blood

P.s.sorry for this longest post.Hope u will not Get bored.I share My POV here.U can easily disagree with me

P.P.S.No Offense with the artist who playing the role.I would not prefer To have any neg Comment about artist.it's all about her dialogue And character made by writers.So Pls Try To keep the Little girl away from Your criticism

Finally I got the time to write few lines on this #SuperAwesome(Aaj kal super ka time 😳) Post 😃

Class Difference and parental relationship are defining differences.

I tell u something earlier epis when sona gets devs wallet she says dev d shit..iski kya zarurat thi? Dev ne kuch nai bigada I found her highly over smart then..this is derived frm sonaksi..dada is cool..havng said this I pity 4 suhama coz having dad she's deprived of his love..b4 time she is made matured by boses..to tell abt das is ok but jo story start epis sona tells her ..it was stupid mere palle nai pada..h to wo 6 yrs old hi na

See...it's true that kids have become smart nowadays but yes makers kuch jayada hi dikha rhe h kuch case mein but still OK with it. 😆

Originally posted by: mayu1982

Finally I got the time to write few lines on this #SuperAwesome(Aaj kal super ka time 😳) Post 😃

All your points are true and valid.

A 6 year old kid- Raise your hand forumwaais if any of your kid or your near-dear one has behaved like Soha Bose(Dixit).

Not possible. Kids at this age don't understand much. I am very much confident in this matter because my son is 6 and 4 months old.

So I know how much 6 year old can understand and knows about surroundings.

Yes they do understand that something is not right or normal in the house. But most of the time these age of kids behave exactly like golu. Carefree and bindaas.

Normal baccha under normal circumstances will behave like behosh baccha - absolutely least interested in normal people world . Lived their life in the world of superhero( uff again super word) 😆😆.

Irrespective of that fact whether their parents have good or bad or hardworking like Sonakshi or Nikaame like Vicky or elena.

If they won't then kid is bringing is not right? That kid is traumatised and his mental state is not right ?

Soha 6 year old kid should spent more time with dolls and her dolls house than talking like 16year old teen.

A big questionmark to Bose upbringing - She called Asha by her name, she almost give gyan like an adult? She was asked for her opinion or make her own decision - this is extremely stupidity.

6 year old kid don't understand what is right or wrong properly. How can they can opinion at this age ?

As per bose family and their talks , adult age should be reduced from 18 to 6 year old. She knows everything and can give opinion about everything .

Writers of this serial is not paying any attention to this 6 year old kid SOHA.

Survi - love your post to the core. Thanks for making such wonderful & meaning post.😳

P.S. am not against of that cute child actor but definitely speaking against poor writing of this character.😡

Thank you So Much mayu di for rplying and sharing Ur Thoughts Despite of being So Busy..I am extremely Overwhelmed To Know U Like The Post

I Completely Agree With You.I Know how Good U can Understand child's Psychology By Being a Mother.

I am also seeing EveryFday Six Cusn brothers sisters of The same age group.And trust me They all are Most like golu.Sohana bose Is Not at all Visible There

How Can a Girl Of 6 Yr Can be asked To Give a Opinion First i don't get that..2nd how can The member Of the family let her Behave like an adult Through Out the day.Her Innocence Is Missing

Maan liya Boses want to make her Strong..But she Is turning out More than over Smart Then strong

I Hardly Seen Her playing.Most Of the time she Is answering To The Elders..These are not actually normal..

One thing ITruly Dislike is that To Make her Participate in any Every convo Of Elders...

Soha correct I feel Is really Over Tone..Poor It is to see a cute girl is delivering Such Unexpected Line..

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

See...it's true that kids have become smart nowadays but yes makers kuch jayada hi dikha rhe h kuch case mein but still OK with it. 😆

sure kids Have become More Smart Now a Days..But If the smartness level Of a 6 yrs Old girl is Like Her Then I would say The Kids I am observing everyday Of her age considered To be More dumb.that's really not Ok with Me.I mean Even kids Smetime watch the show..So IThey Tends To Copy ..If they see That a Girl of Her age Talking To Her Elders In This way They will Somewhere Start Bhv Like That.I Think char Need To Be tone Down

I agree with Areeba. The difference is a single parent upbringing vs. a joint family upbringing. If you see the footage from Dev's childhood where he is concerned for his mother and tried to help her anyway he could, you will see similarities with Soha.

Originally posted by: tia.o

I agree with Areeba. The difference is a single parent upbringing vs. a joint family upbringing. If you see the footage from Dev's childhood where he is concerned for his mother and tried to help her anyway he could, you will see similarities with Soha.

A child raised by a single parent becomes more responsible at an earlier age than other children. Because they see their parent managing both home and work and trying their best to raise them. They want to grow up fast so that they can ease their burden.

For all Sonakshi's wealth, she lives a pretty ordinary life. Soha is not spoiled by whatever she wants. Soha also doesn't demand a huge lot. She is content with what she has got. Again a trait a lot kids share raised by single parents.

On the other hand, a pampered child who never sees his own parent but is spoiled by his uncle won't think that he has to grow up and help or for that matter study hard so that he can someday be independent. Because the opulence of wealth is everywhere.

Golu should be credited for maintaining his innocence despite the neglect he has got. But that doesn't take away the fact that Suhana is a gem any single parent or for that matter any parent will be lucky to have.

And regarding Soha's addressing Asha, as Asha.

Well, comparing that to Dev's calling Asha aunty is again an apple and orange comparison. Soha didn't start to call Asha, Dida and then after Ishwari threw a tantrum started calling her Asha. Nor she is expecting Asha to have a different treatment than Ishwari (you know like a woman's mother-in-law is more important than a man's mother-in-law) like Dev did because his mother will be hurt but it does not matter if Sonakshi's mother is hurt. Sorry I had to bring the comparison since you mentioned this comparison.

Rest of the comparison was a child's nature, not their upbringing. Because no one forced Soha to be more mature than Golu. She has got more freedom and independence to be who she is compared to any child.

To conclude, one thing can be said about the two upbringings which is glaringly obvious. Despite Golu's cuteness, he is a bully and a lier. Soha is not. That's the only thing which reflects the triumph of upbringing.

What U said May be U Feel right Or In ur sense that would Be More logical..Ur POV..Respect it

But I really don't think the comparision Or the addressing by name or the rply given By her To bijoy After Calling asha Should Or could Be taken Lightly.U may Consider That a Simple issue But Me or My surrounding will not support That.It was Sona's responsibilty to Tell her oNce at least Don't call Dida By name.Or don't talk to dadu Like This.If i was There Or my Mom was There would definitely say that.All in the name of Kid's Smartness Can't be ignored.This is on National tv.Kids are even watching it sometimes.Not whole episode but In cuorisity they can Watch The Kid's part.So what they will learn.That we can call our dida by name and when we asked Not to do Then we can answer That AAP KPO KYA.Not done NAh!I IT can't be always A Kid's nature to Tend To Be a decision maker fr herself.Ya Upbringing between Single Mother And joint family Has a Huge difference.And dev's footage Of Of childhood his and her situation are Not same at all..He Needed to Be Became 18 at The Age of 8 To support his Mom financially.they used To Live In a Chawl..With The responsibility of 3 younger sisters.But Soha Is there have a Not luxurious But Well To do Life.She doesn't have the Responsibility what dev had.But still If she felt so then it was Her family's responsibility Espicially her mother's To make her Understand that She hs the right To Fully live her childhood Rather Than Saying Then APKo ko jaldi bara Hona Hai Na Or Bara Hona Chahte Ho na.

I beleive what Ever happens In a Family I Know not possible all to keep away from child but as much as possible elders should keep the child out of that at least when the kid is just 6.Honestly if soha was 9 or 10 i would have said perfect Upbringing For her But at the age of 6 This Is a Bit over and unusal.Despite being a broken Joint family Golu is much more normal Then Soha according to the age

But having a strong cultured Family and mother she Is lack Of having a Cherished childhood.

Question is not what qualities She has The point is at what age she Is.

i Already said golu does The same Things but it can easily seen that it Is doing by a Child.Burt when Soha said that It More look like a teen aged girl answering. Cause The way of Talk differ.That should be Controlled by The Boses

Originally posted by: tia.o

I agree with Areeba. The difference is a single parent upbringing vs. a joint family upbringing. If you see the footage from Dev's childhood where he is concerned for his mother and tried to help her anyway he could, you will see similarities with Soha.

A child raised by a single parent becomes more responsible at an earlier age than other children. Because they see their parent managing both home and work and trying their best to raise them. They want to grow up fast so that they can ease their burden.

For all Sonakshi's wealth, she lives a pretty ordinary life. Soha is not spoiled by whatever she wants. Soha also doesn't demand a huge lot. She is content with what she has got. Again a trait a lot kids share raised by single parents.

On the other hand, a pampered child who never sees his own parent but is spoiled by his uncle won't think that he has to grow up and help or for that matter study hard so that he can someday be independent. Because the opulence of wealth is everywhere.

Golu should be credited for maintaining his innocence despite the neglect he has got. But that doesn't take away the fact that Suhana is a gem any single parent or for that matter any parent will be lucky to have.

And regarding Soha's addressing Asha, as Asha.

Well, comparing that to Dev's calling Asha aunty is again an apple and orange comparison. Soha didn't start to call Asha, Dida and then after Ishwari threw a tantrum started calling her Asha. Nor she is expecting Asha to have a different treatment than Ishwari (you know like a woman's mother-in-law is more important than a man's mother-in-law) like Dev did because his mother will be hurt but it does not matter if Sonakshi's mother is hurt. Sorry I had to bring the comparison since you mentioned this comparison.

Rest of the comparison was a child's nature, not their upbringing. Because no one forced Soha to be more mature than Golu. She has got more freedom and independence to be who she is compared to any child.

To conclude, one thing can be said about the two upbringings which is glaringly obvious. Despite Golu's cuteness, he is a bully and a lier. Soha is not. That's the only thing which reflects the triumph of upbringing.