Originally posted by: gaushiv13
After reading everyone opinion I also think that soha is loosing her childhood just like me
As I am elder daughter and my father had became orphan in very young age so he was deprived of study which he loved the most so he built a dream to teach his child and as I was first child he burdened everything to me to study even in the age of 2 year or you can say 18 month I used to learn tables and when I was not able to learn it well he used to punish me and this way I was always a student who was very excellent in maths I used to solve maths of 10th class in 7th class and everything gone well with me ya my father this nature somewhat affected my childhood as my mother is housewife so she has to agree with father although she was not strict and that's when I got some balance in !Y life as my father used to stay away only we used to meet for 3 moths and rest I used to be with my father
But today also somewhere I feel that I was not able to enjoy my childhood when that was the age of playing and taking part in different activities I used to study which was not necessary when I see it standing in present and looking at my past I ask myself these question but then when I see around me my cousins who have gone worse in enjoying their childhood
Because at least now I am independent and happy although I want my childhood to return
In case of soha I also think that she has got alot maturity in comparison to her age but when I see other picture that if she was with Dev alone then single father 1)she would have got inferiority complex of being girl as rr would have not left a chance to taunt at her and looking at present and past sfenerio no-one are able to stop her and Dev would also be not with her all time to know what his daughter is going through the person who is not able to see black money in his own company which is dear to him 2)she would have always listen word against her mother in this Dev would have also accompanied everyone 3)ishwari would have made her another Tommy to get Dev by making her eat Galway
If she would have been with both parent sonakshi would have bend down and came there when she came to know about her pregnancy what sona would have got 1)taunt from everyone that on the name of child she has came for money 2) and always would have called the child as some money provider for sonakshi and if sona was born then in that mad house 1)she would have always to listen to everyone taunts for her mother and even sona would have gone through taunt it's baby girl and many more
Don't tell me sona and Dev would have changed for their daughter being her father and mother because the person who was not able to stand up for his wife each and every time he asked his wife to compromise would have changed because he became a father
Nothing is worse when a woman feel they are treated like child producing woman
I don't know being a woman how everyone is talking like this
I also lost my childhood somewhere in my life due to being elder so no-one can knows better than me the values of lost child hood when I see my baby pic or when I see anything related to my childhood but when I see around me my cousin who have became good for nothing then I somehow feel that it benefited me in long run
And here also soha is not like she is not enjoying her childhood again he has become somewhat mature living up to her mom expectation but in long run she will be only benighted and when you look it other way then also I think it was only plus point
I don't think the ishwari and Dev who till now has not been able to understand fully mami and Vicky would have understood that time
And I can confidently say TM that you are Dev fan the way you said that you would not want to become bijoy but become Dev no-one in reality would want to become Dev or want a husband like Dev never ever in even his wildest dreams when compared to bijoy
What is lacking is bijoy he is a gud husband gud father or gud dadu everything ya he hate Dev because he came to know after first breakup that Dev would never stand for his daughter and even after marriage he seen his daughter treated like stranger in dp time if I remember then there was photosession of whole family just after marriage Dev never thought that sona was not in picture it was bijoy who made her stand near Dev and you can see neha gkb and ishwari reaction o bijoy always have got the vibe they didn't consider their daughter their family member if he got a hint that they consider sona their own then he would have never behaved like that
Anyway I know he's noine is ready to understand everyone has their favourite and they side according to that
And really golu is given best upbringing really he is enjoying his childhood phase really there is no child in world who get after getting love from their uncle or any other every child want the love of their own parent and such type of child are never normal they hate parents grow rebellious to everything
Golu is somewhat ok according to his age but in long run he will always feel neglected the way he was asking his parent to make him wear tie or when he was alone taking breakfast or when he was trying to say his stories of school to his parent the way he always feel neglected
Even now you will see him rebellious when soha will come into picture because it's totally predictable that Dev will love his daughter infinite so golu will definitely become insecure I never seen love in Dev eyes for golu ya he feel pity for him and being gud uncle he interact with him
Ya there is no doubt that devakshi would have been best for their daughter but with ishwari and rr tyoe of people who still has control and the ishwari who think boy child that Ka chirag
Anyway I have written alot because it really piss me when people talk like this soha has lost golu has got everything perfect anyway I am not anyone to ask you accept what is my view as everyone has different view I am noone to force you all
Everyone write their thoughts I wrote mine
Sorry if I written in anything wrong
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