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Nadia

@survika1111

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Posted: 8 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: DevakshiCrazy
May be dev ka na hone se soha waqt se pehle mature ho gayi hai
Golu is always a darling...i love this kid

may be if dev was there would make difference..but who are there with her are also capable enough to make differences.Golu Is The sweetheart..😳

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EkNoKiNashedi

@Phir_Mohabbat

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Posted: 8 years ago

#32

Wow a post about upbringing of kid's bcm dev vs Sonakshi what a surprise😵

Not sure if we can put label on kids that behavior is accepted or expected and this is not. Also why we not considering that Soha in her initial age (0-4/5) must have seen hardships in her family. Sona always didn't have two houses in Delhi Kolkata or those cars. It seemed like she was busy juggling work and baby. That hardship might have shaped her. Also the feeling that she's different subconsciously. There was no younger male figure in her family to call dad, or that emptiness when we don't get our mom enough and run to dad. The timeline is not clear enough and once again, just cause she's different that doesn't mean she's damaged or more understanding to her situation around her means she's missing out on something.

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NeerajaGirish

@NeerajaGirish

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Posted: 8 years ago

#33

Nice post. But from my experience I have found that kids of working mothers, esp. single mothers do grow up faster and are more independent. And children tend to ape the people with who, their interact daily, so if she is calling her dida by name or acting all grown up, it is not surprising and Sona did bring her up quite well except two things, one not correcting her when she call elders by name or argues back and scondly every thing has time, so expecting a six year old to understand why her mother left her father or back biting about her father is not advisable. Once she is grown up she could have explained everything, but the age is not correct. Regarding Golu, he is a sweet child but his parents neglect towards him manifest in the way of he turning out to be a bully now or not taking interest in his studies. His one blessing is inspite of parental neglect, he is getting love from extended family which may be a reason for him not loosing his childhood completely. Overall both the children are coping in their own way.

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Abiha Mir

@AfiChanAC_CA

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Posted: 8 years ago

#34

Hello g..kesay ho sb???itniii sardi mein itnii garma garmiii!! 🤣 arre bacho sb thand rakho...!😆 survi ne ghalati se agar achi zabardast aur accurate n on point post bn he gae hy toh mahol kiyun khrab kr rahay ho!🤣

P:S: surviii surviii I just wanted to know k yeh post waqai tu ne khud bnai hy!! 😲 aesi achi baatain likh k naak katwa di tu ne hmaray image ki 😭 🤣

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lavanya

@dlavanya

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Posted: 8 years ago

#35

Parenting is very important and the end result of what type of a person woulf the kid become depends on it..
All i want to say is...if this upbringing continues as it is
Golu will grow up to be like vicky
Soha will grow up to be like sonakshi..

You pick which one your kid would like to be like

Edited by dlavanya - 8 years ago

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Nadia

@survika1111

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Posted: 8 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: dlavanya
Parenting is very important and the end result of what type of a person woulf the kid become depends on it..
All i want to say is...if this upbringing continues as it is
Golu will grow up to be like vicky
Soha will grow up to be like sonakshi..

You pick which one your kid would like to be like

Agar vikky jaisa bana toh accha hai na best pati banega. Aur bht log khush hi jayenge 😉

Jokes apart..

I think agar aisa chala toh soha sonakshi kam bijoy jaisi zyada banegi..

Aur golu vikky nhi Dev jaisa Banega.. Which i would love to see

But in Case woh vikky jaisa ban gaya na toh tum bhi khush aur dev ban gaya toh main bhi khush. Both r right at their assumptions.. Si hi5 in advance. 😉😆😆

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Nadia

@survika1111

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Posted: 8 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: AfiChanAC_CA
Hello g..kesay ho sb???itniii sardi mein itnii garma garmiii!! 🤣 arre bacho sb thand rakho...!😆 survi ne ghalati se agar achi zabardast aur accurate n on point post bn he gae hy toh mahol kiyun khrab kr rahay ho!🤣

P:S: surviii surviii I just wanted to know k yeh post waqai tu ne khud bnai hy!! 😲 aesi achi baatain likh k naak katwa di tu ne hmaray image ki 😭 🤣

Dekh yaar naak to kat gayi.. Sorry ha..image kaharab ho gaya.. Ya toh logo ko hazam nhi hua ya phir Yaqeen nhi hua.. !🤣

P. S. Taane pe lapet ke jo tareef ki hai.. Na Shukriya abii meri jaan. By default ye post mere hatho se hi bana hai.. 😆

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Nadia

@survika1111

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Posted: 8 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: .Avengers.
Wow a post about upbringing of kid's bcm dev vs Sonakshi what a surprise😵
Not sure if we can put label on kids that behavior is accepted or expected and this is not. Also why we not considering that Soha in her initial age (0-4/5) must have seen hardships in her family. Sona always didn't have two houses in Delhi Kolkata or those cars. It seemed like she was busy juggling work and baby. That hardship might have shaped her. Also the feeling that she's different subconsciously. There was no younger male figure in her family to call dad, or that emptiness when we don't get our mom enough and run to dad. The timeline is not clear enough and once again, just cause she's different that doesn't mean she's damaged or more understanding to her situation around her means she's missing out on something.

Ya see what a surprise 😆

Idk about the time phase but i am sure till the age of 3 she did not understand what is going on around as children's psychology.. After that slowly slowly she starts understanding. But at the age of 6 she have understood all like a teen age. Which is weird. Cause single mother's are there who needs to fulfill both h papa and ma's duty. Which is really a very tough nd commendable job. But at the same time it's important that the kid should get as much as possible lesser affected by the problems. And it's parent or other guardians duty. She is a single mom but she had a family with her. Sensible one. So if she was somewhere unable to reduce the impact so it was upto other boses. And ya of course she may be missing sth. May be her dada. Which is affecting her. So that should be pointed out by her family. And rather than let her take decisions and handle things her own they need to discuss with her and mak her understandi. Rather than being reliable on her understanding

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Nadia

@survika1111

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Posted: 8 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: NeerajaGirish
Nice post. But from my experience I have found that kids of working mothers, esp. single mothers do grow up faster and are more independent. And children tend to ape the people with who, their interact daily, so if she is calling her dida by name or acting all grown up, it is not surprising and Sona did bring her up quite well except two things, one not correcting her when she call elders by name or argues back and scondly every thing has time, so expecting a six year old to understand why her mother left her father or back biting about her father is not advisable. Once she is grown up she could have explained everything, but the age is not correct. Regarding Golu, he is a sweet child but his parents neglect towards him manifest in the way of he turning out to be a bully now or not taking interest in his studies. His one blessing is inspite of parental neglect, he is getting love from extended family which may be a reason for him not loosing his childhood completely. Overall both the children are coping in their own way.

Thank you.. U said what i said. I am not saying that soha is spoiled or bad kid.but her maturity is fine. But the age is not. Her way of talk and answering back nedds to be controlled by ttime. For betterment of her in her future.. Golu get the blessing qs big cha who does not let him to feel the lack of love. But soha has everything love., time family.. But still she is missing out the basic things which a kid should have

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gaushiv13

@gaushiv13

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Posted: 8 years ago

#40

It is common in telesoap that lead daughter or son is grown up before age and it is considered good upbringing in their view

And honestly speaking there is no age for children to behave like this that

One thing you have forgotten soha is grown up in middle class society and in middle class and in middle class the child at age of 6 become more mature than this even and most importantly single parent child.

I have seen around and today also there are many children in my society who are six and they are even more mature than soha.

I am also middle class background and I was also like soha somewhat but today also I am okay and independent

Then also I consider childhood can't be brought back .

Everyone doesn't get very thing and happiness is satisfaction .

Soha calling her grandma name is very common as I also used to call my dadi with name or my brother who is 5 year younger than me call me by name and never talk in respective name as we were very close to each other and mostly we are like friend to each other

Soha will totally grow up to become sonakshi she has nothing like bijoy

Anyway in this forum I have seen there is no point of discussion of right and wrong people will side with their favourite wether it's saheer fan or Erica fan

I am sure the one are complaining about child artist suhana once she will side with Dev they will start calling her sweet

Golu is a cute child and the child playing it is really smart but he is not a gud boy who not like to study or saying his bigcha no hanky panky throwing lizard or taking lunch box is is okay but day by day his bullying nature is growing up only throwing ink which child do this and not instantly it was preplanned

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