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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: desigirl987


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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2" color="#000099">Lavanya , somehow I doubt if that would be the case . I'm very disappointed with Sona after watching todays n yesterdays episode . She says she is very much aware of his childish behavior .But how does she act, she just naively took his bait . I was sure she would be intrigued by this new Dev but thought she would be matured enough to ignore it . She is very much affected with what she saw in the corridor and I have an intuition that she may do something about it to instigate him . Maybe Dev was only retaliating .</font>
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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2" color="#000099">Anyway she got him arrested for trespassing . If it was upto this forum it would have been for immoral trafficking </font>😉


No i dont believ sona would do anything . She understands one's rights .. and if dev is moving on then there is nothing wrong and thats why she did not even react .. shocked yes but jealous.. i dont think so.. lets wait and watch
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Posted: 8 years ago
Some observations with no structure...


Sona can't beat Dev where it comes to business and she shouldn't try. Like he said, she should focus on her own achievements instead of making it her goal to humble him. If she does end up besting him, well and good, if not, that shouldn't affect the way she feels about her own achievements. Show me the Sona who doesn't define herself according to the expectations/detractions of others and I will agree that she has moved on. For now, not a chance.

Dev wanted to steal that moment from Sona because I think he knows that he if she has the satisfaction of beating him, their last tie to one another will be severed. He wants to be a presence in her life, even if by this tenuous thread. This is where the symbolism of the trophy gets really interesting. It can represent Soha, Dev heart, or Sona's personal satisfaction, depending on the way you look at it. Soha wanting to take a picture with the trophy and her mother was very significant, and to me foreshadowed her struggle with her antagonistic parents. Dev didn't much care about the trophy itself, but wanted to steal that moment of satisfaction with Sona. For Sona, that trophy meant finally having the equality she thought Dev compromised. In all this, Soha's simple pride in her mother's achievement -- what should be front and center -- is lost.

I just can't get over how happy Sona makes Dev, just by her mere presenece. Even when she is totally antagonistic towards him. His whole face lit up during their interaction and he couldn't contain his mirth when they reached their respective hotel room doors. Like DQ perfectly put it, as soon as the wifi signal connected, something deep insde Dev stirred for the first time. And after that, he had a very hard time coming back to reality, aka Shruti. When he entered the room, it was like a cloud of gloom descended upon him.

Shruti and Dev have known each other for 15 days. It seems reasonable that they haven't had their DTR (defining the relationship) conversation yet. That is kind of how dating works nowadays... you let something develop and then someone asks the question about where it is going. I have rarely heard of people sorting this out from day one. Shruti was an interesting contrast to Sona. She expressed her love after only 15 days with Dev, while Sona concealed her feelings for months, and planned to take them to the grave with her until Dev confessed to her first. I don't know Shruti's story, but I find it kind of suspicious that she is pushing so hard for a relationship with Dev so soon. Either she is one of us "fangirls" from the forum who has just fallen for his hot, brooding, I-need-to-tbe-saved-from-my-dark-past exterior, with the idea that she will be the one to save him, or more cyincally, she is just after his money.

Sona was definitely jealous. Not jealous in the sense that she wanted Dev for herself, but jealous in the sense that it really bothered her to see him and hear of him with another woman. Also, she should have just kept the trophy, instead of going through the rigmarole of explaining to her six-year-old daughter why she couldn't. Sona is not in a good place with regards to her past. Dev got under her skin so quickly and with so little effort, and that shows how much power he still has over her. I am looking forward to Monday when she realises she has the ability to get under his skin as well; business is just not where.

Soha's disinterest in her father was a facade. As soon as Sona said the word Obodhro, she immediately recalled him, which I think shows that whatever little information Sona has given her about him is at the forefront of Soha's thoughts. If Sona doesn't do damage control soon, Soha is going to be torn because getting closer to her dad, which is her right, will feel like betraying her mom. Children pick up much more on moods and action than on words, and it's not enough for Sona to say that it's Soha's decision whether or not to meet her dad; Soha needs Sona's full and clearly articulated support here. All she is getting now is, "you can meet your rude, spineless, frog-dad, a complete stranger, who was not a bad guy, but makes your grandfather wild with rage and was unkind to the one person you love most in the world... if you want." Which six-year-old child has the capacity to leave her safety net and take up an offer like that? 😕
Edited by Samanalyse - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
I seriously think Sona should stop calling Soha as her most priceless trophy. This is honestly giving me ishwari vibes. For God sake, she is a six year old girl and please treat her like the same with out using her as a medium to prove your point to whomever.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

I seriously think Sona should stop calling Soha as her most priceless trophy. This is honestly giving me ishwari vibes. For God sake, she is a six year old girl and please treat her like the same with out using her as a medium to prove your point to whomever.


OMG, yes!!! 😳

This made me really uncomfortable as well, for one because she is blatantly objectifying her kid who is a separate human being with her own feelings, and also because she is using Soha as a secret weapon of validation. Dev steals her professional achievement? No problem, she has Soha and he doesn't. Dev saunters into a hotel room with another woman? No problem she has Soha and he doesn't. So far, the damage hasn't been too bad because there isn't really a choice for Soha between Sona and Dev, but Sona's words will haunt Soha when she actually does meet her dad and, god forbid, likes him. Then all of this talk about her being her mother's achievement, her reason for living, will come back to her, she will feel crushed with guilt for being drawn to her father, and she might push him away as a result, not because she wants to but because she doesn't want to hurt her mother.

Full-on Ishwari vibes. 😕
Edited by Samanalyse - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
Beautiful write up Sam...


My point

Shruti wants the relationship to go to the next level... it's been 14-15 days! It's pretty rushed I feel...I''m so curious about Shruti, she says she loves Dev..Dev is rich... what If?
Dev is in his own world.. he wasn't even paying attention ...he was somewhere else!!

Dev is very broken... he's lost ..he's hiding in his shadow! He's stuck in that in night... it will not go away from his mind... Sonakshi is his only medicine! Like he had once said.



There are so many twists and turns going on...Soha will be a bridge between the parents, they will move slowly towards each other!!

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Posted: 8 years ago
Awesome analysis Everyone !👏👏
I think it's a phase. They've just only seen each other again, and are reacting in anger and hurt, like the last time they saw each other.

Dev is still the emotional type, he just learnt to mask it better. But one glimpse of Sona and he's shaken. He and his mother have blamed everything on Sons, conveniently.

Sorry, but prenup is all Ishwari. Does mamaji not know what happened in detail?😲 in these 7 years?!

Next week , Dev will see a little girl with Sona, and he will think she has remarried. Wait for the jealousy and madness, because he is pseudo moved on himself.

Felt bad for Dev, he's turned bitter, and he's all alone. Sona is bitter too, but she's got Suhana.

I'm hoping Sonakshi doesn't turn into Ishwari for Suhana. I don't think do somehow. She knows how her MIL was like, she wouldn't do it herself. Unless CVs want to give Sona insight into Ishwari's character.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Samanalyse


OMG, yes!!! 😳

This made me really uncomfortable as well, for one because she is blatantly objectifying her kid who is a separate human being with her own feelings, and also because she is using Soha as a secret weapon of validation. Dev steals her professional achievement? No problem, she has Soha and he doesn't. Dev saunters into a hotel room with another woman? No problem she has Soha and he doesn't. So far, the damage hasn't been too bad because there isn't really a choice for Soha between Sona and Dev, but Sona's words will haunt Soha when she actually does meet her dad and, god forbid, likes him. Then all of this talk about her being her mother's achievement, her reason for living, will come back to her, she will feel crushed with guilt for being drawn to her father, and she might push him away as a result, not because she wants to but because she doesn't want to hurt her mother.

Full-on Ishwari vibes. 😕

This thread is so intriguing..awesome analysis everyone special thanks to Sam👏
Exactly I too felt Ishwari vibes here..For god sake Soha is only 6 years old.. I was like what the hell when Sona said yesterday to Soha that she want to be like a 6 year old or to become Miss.bose??

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Posted: 8 years ago

I liked your analysis of last night's episode @samanalyse, esp. the bit about Dev getting under Sona's skin. I always wanted to see a different Sonakshi. She has become independent and also seems to be a good mother, but Dev has the ability to upset the cart. He could make inroads into the well constructed mask.

Why didn't she just keep the trophy? Because it seems below her dignity as it was snatched away from her in front of an audience!! She deserved it then, but now it seems a throwaway gift. Like Dev pitied her and decided to give it back to her. So her pride didn't allow her to accept it. Fair enough! She tried to book another room to get away from Dev. But her expression when she saw Dev enter the suite with another woman said it all. I didn't see any animosity, it was more of a curiousity mixed with disbelief. Why?? 😃

I wasn't interested in Shruti. Just another gal- special appearance to steam up the confrontation.

Monday seems interesting. 😉


-Rekha
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Posted: 8 years ago
There are different ways of handling grief and depend upon the nature of the person. Some bottle it up, some pick up the bottle. Some refuse to shed a tear, some go on a life destroying rampage, some shed buckets.
No one's grief is more or less. Sonakshi keeping on a strong facade is in line with her personality, the same way Dev's behaviour is in line with his. It doesn't mean that Sonakshi is the smarter or stronger one of the two and Dev is useless despo.

People who act strong to keep everyone happy while inside they are full of pain, break down very badly when their tolerance limits gets over. They just don't crack, they simply shatter.

Dev banging Sona's door was his way of trying to get out of the grief that has been eating him. He has taken a step in the right direction. Face your demons , ask the questions you want answers of. Obviously he has forgotten all his mistakes as that is human psyche. To remember only what helps us survive and go on.

But Sona in line with her facade is in the I am not affected mode which is obviously a tactics of fooling oneself. So to convince herself she will take the drastic step of calling the police for a problem which could easily be handled by the hotel staff.

The problem is this police drama might spur Dev to do something drastic to convince himself that Sona is not worth it. These two people might end up hurting each other much much more than they already have just to convince themselves that they have fallen out of love without realising that if they had, the other person's actions would not have mattered so much.

Plus There are already vultures encircling them in the form of ishwari, gkb and vicky.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Excellent points
To add to your post payal, the more public this gets, the worse Dev will become. I am hoping someone (Asha aunty?) will make sonakshi realise this aspect of Dev's personality. Perhaps the silent investor if true, will spur that discussion.

Similarly, unless Ishwari tells sonakshi that she took Dev's signatures on the prenup, how is sonakshi ever going to forgive Dev because she is done "talking" for now
Edited by thedramaqueen - 8 years ago

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