You know Saumie, since Friday I was reading a post on people saying that Dev said those harsh words to push Sonakshi away so that she can be happy.
I didn't think that made sense. Because Dev was not sober when he said those things. He was drunk and past examples has shown that he speaks what he believes is the truth when he is drunk. He also forgets every thing he said the next morning. Now I don't know if CV will remain consistent with their script.Anyhoo, the point is that your post makes more sense to me.Dev did say those things to Sonakshi and he meant it.However what he said was the lowest blow anyone can give to a woman. Only a woman knows that how it feels when someone puts her self-respect, self-worth and her womanhood in question specially the man for whom she fought the world, her own family, her self-respect and put up with insults and humiliation.Dev had done NOTHING in comparison to what Sonakshi had done for him.One thing people kept bringing up as an example of Dev being a good husband is that he married Sonakshi despite knowing about her infertility. But by putting pressure on her for fertility treatment at his mother's whim when Sonakshi was at her own lowest point and her heart was broken, not to mention by throwing her infertility in her face, he even negated that little bit of claim at being a good husband.So sorry when I can't call him a loving husband or even a decent human being.He had the guts to love but he didn't have the guts to stand up for that love.So whether he is flirting with other girls to show off or actually having full-blown affairs are least of my concern.All I know that Dev can only offer a woman money (which he has plenty of and which is the only thing Ishwari doesn't disapprove as long as the charity stays outside. He can't offer a woman which Ishwari doesn't put her stamp of approval on) and those women want his money. So that is a perfect match.Sonakshi and him were never a good match. What she needed, he didn't have Ishwari's approval to commit. Even his baby came with Ishwari's approval stamp as a condition. It was never Sonakshi and Dev's marriage, it was Ishwari's marriage enacted by Dev and Sonakshi.