You cannot escape Love! - Page 2

Originally posted by: tia.o

You know Saumie, since Friday I was reading a post on people saying that Dev said those harsh words to push Sonakshi away so that she can be happy.

I didn't think that made sense. Because Dev was not sober when he said those things. He was drunk and past examples has shown that he speaks what he believes is the truth when he is drunk. He also forgets every thing he said the next morning. Now I don't know if CV will remain consistent with their script.

Anyhoo, the point is that your post makes more sense to me.

Dev did say those things to Sonakshi and he meant it.

However what he said was the lowest blow anyone can give to a woman. Only a woman knows that how it feels when someone puts her self-respect, self-worth and her womanhood in question specially the man for whom she fought the world, her own family, her self-respect and put up with insults and humiliation.

Dev had done NOTHING in comparison to what Sonakshi had done for him.

One thing people kept bringing up as an example of Dev being a good husband is that he married Sonakshi despite knowing about her infertility. But by putting pressure on her for fertility treatment at his mother's whim when Sonakshi was at her own lowest point and her heart was broken, not to mention by throwing her infertility in her face, he even negated that little bit of claim at being a good husband.

So sorry when I can't call him a loving husband or even a decent human being.

He had the guts to love but he didn't have the guts to stand up for that love.

So whether he is flirting with other girls to show off or actually having full-blown affairs are least of my concern.

All I know that Dev can only offer a woman money (which he has plenty of and which is the only thing Ishwari doesn't disapprove as long as the charity stays outside. He can't offer a woman which Ishwari doesn't put her stamp of approval on) and those women want his money. So that is a perfect match.

Sonakshi and him were never a good match. What she needed, he didn't have Ishwari's approval to commit. Even his baby came with Ishwari's approval stamp as a condition. It was never Sonakshi and Dev's marriage, it was Ishwari's marriage enacted by Dev and Sonakshi.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Tia I don't *think* Saumee is saying Dev was speaking the truth in those last few moments on Friday. I am putting words in Saumee's mouth so I'll let her clarify. What I was agreeing with is that Dev said those things to himself knowing fully well what impact it will have on sonakshi. You will never agree with me on this (and we both know that's fine), but that day Dev was at his feminist best. Hear me out.

He was drunk. We have only seen him drunk twice before. When he is drunk he gets the guts to do the right thing. He reached a point where he gave up. He conceded defeat at the hands of his mother. Knowing sonakshi, he knows she is capable of dealing with this. This independence that she gains in season 2 is what he was immensely proud of. So he makes her go away from him and keeps convincing himself (he is after all his mother's son) that all these reasons make her a bad fit for himself and Dixits.

She is tired of it all too. And asha plays mamaji this time. Sonakshi doesn't even see why would Dev say all these things after she has signed the papers anyways. Because she had had enough too. And she does the final damage. Throws her mangalsutra in the fire.

When time allows, we should all watch the last 2 weeks' episodes after removing our Dev-is-a-spineless-jerk and sona-is-an-egoist-control-freak glasses. The writing was on the wall. Ever since the new year, both of them were more and more vocal yet getting no where and this is where it ended

Originally posted by: baijubavra

If it happnes in real life, everyone would say that the only reason he married her was because he wanted to sleep with her. Once he got over that, he started pushing her to conceive within three months of marriage. But since Dev is the hot/ rich male lead, no one would even think about it.

He never spoke for her when didi-bhabee duo were hurling abuses at her but when to fight for her 10 day vrat to his God. The slap was not unintentional either. He then pushed her to his mom and blamed her. He wanted to slap her again!

One of my close friends cousin was married to a hot , super rich guy like Dev and she kept going back to him just like Sona. They are finally divorcing but his family made her lose her self respect. This girl is a highly educated professional who wanted to be a good bahu in his joint family. Her parents are educated middle class people just like Bijoy and Asha while the guy is filty rich. This is a typical battered woman supyndrome that they are going to glorify. Also, once you go back , the abuser becomes more abusive. Sona easily went back to him after the first break up, did not give him a hard time for basic stuff (like birthday fiasco, aunty , jhula isues) , that's why the himmat of both Ishwari and Dev kept increasing. I have only read the Wu for the later episdoes so my analysis may be a little off !

I think they are going to glorify Dev by making his character set Sona free and pretend to be a Casanova. They may even show that Dev helped her without anyone's knoweldge. I hate it but this is how they are goingbto redeem Dev's character in the show. I would hate it but i am preety shure that this is what is going to happen.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

This is all speculation so I could be wrong. I don't think the promo will play scene by scene. It's a promo. I doubt they will meet each other for a while.

I have a million and one questions on how they reached the stage they reach and I am hoping we will get flashbacks to backfill the story.

As for the casanova bit. Finally he made no promises on Friday. Last time when he was drunk on Sona ritwick date he made promises even in his drunk state. Not on Friday. Not to Ishwari and not to Sona. And he is living that life in season 2. He finally took sonakshi's advice. His mother can't tolerate a permanent woman in his life. His heart still beats for Sona (my theory). So he flirts. I see nothing wrong with making a woman feel better. They are consenting adults right. We might see them divorced. But even if they don't. She threw the mangalsutra in the fire. He is a free man from all angles. He can sleep with whoever he likes. In fact I hope he does and Ishwari finds out. Because the tagline is now on her. Kya paya kya khoya?

As for Sonakshi... she names their daughter suhana Bose. You see. There is no Dev and no Dixit there. But can she run away from his love? Suhana Bose is a living breathing reminder of Dev.

Saumee. I am sorry for hijacking your thread. Your title made me say all these things I had been holding since I saw the promo