Lessons!!! - Page 4

Originally posted by: tia.o

Lesson 2: When going gets tough, tough gets going and smart people get a bowl of extra-buttered popcorn and watch netflix...

I added the last part!!! 😉

Originally posted by: tia.o

We teach our daughters household chores, how to adjust with in-laws, how to keep husband happy, why don't we teach them their self worth? Why don't we tell them that in a family, there is never a hierarchy like mother-in-law comes after father-in-law but before daughter-in-law? Why don't we tell them to respect themselves and never settle for less? Why don't we tell them that if your husband or in-laws don't treat you well, overlooking the problem won't make it go away?

Originally posted by: .IamShonali.

I am so glad to not watch the epi and only look forward to your post and wu of the epi. My decision has been proven right and how? Like seriously, this happens with Sona again. In fact the right thing will be to say Sona let this happen to herself again. Like seriously?

Is this how love is? THIS BLIND?

And girl, amazing post as usual. I always look forward to your analysis😃

Originally posted by: Shlroy

This show taught a great thing to young people. Fall in love but keeping yours eyes open and losing ur own identity is absolutely prohibited. Absolutely correct post

Originally posted by: ErisedWitch45

Your entire post is brilliant but I would like to specially quote these lines.

When a girl is about to be married, most of the time someone or the other will advice her on how to behave in her in-laws place, how to talk, how to take care of everyone etc. but she is never taught to be assertive (not aggressive) for her own rights. Like your mother, my mother too had this kinda advice of "tolerance" etc if something untoward happens at in-laws place.

I agree that there is time and place for everything but if you keep letting taunts or misjudgements being made on you and don't even speak up (again, not fight) then you'll just keep getting more of that. [Luckily for me, I have an amazing support in the form of my husband who dealt with anything that bothered me.] I had no intention of fighting or speaking rudely (still don't neither do I advocate it) but a d-i-l needs to stand up for herself, speak her mind and not let things always slide by.

And this is where Sona was not fully correct. She let it happen may a times. But in my eyes, Dev is even more guilty. When you marry someone, you can't just expect them to start behaving in a different manner or be a different person altogether. And if your spouse is facing any problem, even slightest, Dev should've helped her - right from the start - nip in it the bud and not when everything has blown up like this.

There will always be people like Ishwari or Mami or Neha - someone or the other. So a strong supportive spouse is what is most imp.

Originally posted by: .Avengers.

Tia I was stalking for your post re😆 thought you had enough and ditched us all.

I was in mood for full on sailor type cursing for ishwari. Dude what the writers were smoking when they wrote her??? The character, creepy as f**k. The dialogue tonight argh *throw sandals at tv* 🤬 First she wanted divorce. OK fine. Then Sona thoughts it's about money and gave it. Madam got insulted. Then dev came and started yelling and she very innocently said she told him the same thing. So dev was also agreeing with her that they should separate??! And then the push pull thing...This lady can Scheme and do all kind of brain storming but at a drop of hat ready to faint/state lifelessly as if going to die tomorrow. And then dev yelled and madam was so traumatized that DIL hit her that she couldn't f**king open her mouth to stop her or say anything. OK great. Then Sona left and that bitch is like omg how dare she leave???? Like what in the world was that even???? Didn't she want it from day 1? Does these CVs watch their own show? Or it's like kkb where interns take over weekly basis and write whatever they find convenient?? So Sona should think about dev, her mom, whole khandan but none can think for her. If her dad even dare be ready to get a slap and loads of comments from another bitch.

- Ishwari never changed and never will. If Dev and Sonakshi thought she changed, they were the fools. People don't change overnight specially if they are older and set in their ways.

When GKB and Vicky was planning the sadistic side of me was so bloody happy. They literally should make Ishwari a maid in house, tell mamaji to f**k off and torture dev so much that he goes for substance abuse. So in leap he will be Casanova. Wow. So I am guessing he will still think Sona is biggest witch on earth since Bellatrix? Cause I don't think he can be mahaan and actually spare the poor girl. I so hope dev does a shouting match with Ishwari after Sona is done with her. Precap mein I think devakshi fight #@976 but this time please Sona slap the guy, enough of push pull.

- Well, by definition, Casanova is a man who treats women as toys. Until now he had one toy, now he has many. He really did not change either. The players have changed, the game is the same.

I can't believe Vicky and GKB is ruining their lives.😆 guess that's what happens when you build house of cards. But was it always house of cards? They were OK, right? Dev Ishwari and sisters. Maybe Sona shouldn't have entered in their lives. They became so involved to find their equal footing that othrs started to destroy them from within.

- That's a very appropriate analogy actually. The thing about house of cards though if you make a structure with a few cards, due to lack of turbulence, it might somehow keep standing. But if you add additional cards, the foundation starts to shake and at first sign of turbulence, it blows away. Dixits were okay because they all blindly followed Ishwari's rule. So there were no turbulence. The moment people started to think independently, the house blew away.

As usual brilliant post. I didn't have the fortune yet to meet a man who is not scared of a head strong girl who actually has some opinions about life and world. You and your husband are one in a million lucky people. If God exists he/she will look after you.

- Thanks. You should move to Canada. Most men here prefer independent, strong women. And I have so far never seen any Mamma's boy among Canadian men. May be because the mothers know that both son and daughter will move out one day. So they treat each equally.