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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

<font color="#ff00ff">Oh yes Preethi, he is very much in character. So is Ishwari. That is the frustration we all have isnt it - When is he going to change and more importantly why make a mockery of infertility like this</font>






I know it's super frustrating when there seems to be no light at the end of the tunnel. The problem is this serial never took forever to resolve issues before. Used to the typical serials I was pleasantly surprised & I got hooked. Of course the chemistry & subtle but superb acting was icing.

Here they are showing us devs realization of his mothers insecurities regarding in absolute super slo mo. That is what is so annoying! At least Ayans track is moving going by the precap.
Edited by preethik - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Through this track they aren't just mocking love but also a scared relationship between a husband and wife.. Also a son and mother...
I wonder as dev thought even for once what sort off impact will it fall sona and her family.. When they come to know about this stunt??? As he ever thought about the consequences of this medical treatment on sona?? Instead of facing this situation he his just running away ..he knew about her medical condition before the marriage itself that means he needs to take a proper stand ...not treat her like this way.. In order to make his mother happy he is experimenting on his wife...
Coming to ishwari she is concerned about devs child not her dil... And as per the spoilers she is going to ask dev marry again!! If it is true really... As a MIL I can understand it is very sad news.. But u need to support it dil mentally also her son because it is a very tough phase for any couple... Not just as a MIL but also as a mother and a woman...

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And coming to CVS... This track is a very sensitive matter and the way this people are taking this track is very disappointing... Come on they are making fun of a woman s body and also mocking the relationship between wife and husband.. And son and mother.. And relationship between two families... And woman with these types of medical conditions..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@Tia - If at all CV's go for the Surrogacy route.What U have said will be true.Ish will pamper n love that Surrogate mother more than Sona.Also will treat that Surrogate mother like her own daughter.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Again, slightly different opinion here.

My problem isnt that the track isnt moving. My frustration has always been luke-warm patch-ups in the last 3 months. I want to see a dhamaka type discussion where people politely yet firmly speak their mind - like drunk deewana dev did one night in August

But that's what the dixit house is like . Nobody tells the other exactly what they feel. Esp mother & son. One for her own selfish reasons & the other scared of hurting her.

Only something really big is going to push dev in the direction we want him to move maybe sona walking out because of this non pregnancy thing or prenup or the combo. We can only speculate.

Unfortunately we are so emotionally invested in the show it's hard to cut the cord! Also the suspense about some of the tracks is killing. Hope the cvs give us good & plausible resolutions.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: preethik

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Again, slightly different opinion here.

My problem isnt that the track isnt moving. My frustration has always been luke-warm patch-ups in the last 3 months. I want to see a dhamaka type discussion where people politely yet firmly speak their mind - like drunk deewana dev did one night in August

But that's what the dixit house is like . Nobody tells the other exactly what they feel. Esp mother & son. One for her own selfish reasons & the other scared of hurting her.

Only something really big is going to push dev in the direction we want him to move maybe sona walking out because of this non pregnancy thing or prenup or the combo. We can only speculate.

Unfortunately we are so emotionally invested in the show it's hard to cut the cord! Also the suspense about some of the tracks is killing. Hope the cvs give us good & plausible resolutions.



@Bold - For once Dev without the suppourt of truth serum.In his full sense.Firmly speak to Ish.I want to see a scene like this.But I highly doubt if we will get a scene like this.If CV's prove me wrong.I will be so happy.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: VIMAL.M


@Bold - For once Dev without the suppourt of truth serum.In his full sense.Firmly speak to Ish.I want to see a scene like this.But I highly doubt if we will get a scene like this.If CV's prove me wrong.I will be so happy.


I'll take speaking the truth to anybody - Even if he goes and breaks down in front of Neha or mamaji or asha, they can hand hold him this time and help him speak to his mother and wife. As before "yeh to hona hee tha"
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen


I'll take speaking the truth to anybody - Even if he goes and breaks down in front of Neha or mamaji or asha, they can hand hold him this time and help him speak to his mother and wife. As before "yeh to hona hee tha"



My preference is Asha.I would love to see a emotional scene between MIL N SIL.These kind of scenes r so rare to see in daily soaps.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you everyone for commenting. Just returned from the Potluck Party. Now have to finish up work before going home. Haven't watched the episode yet. So can't really talk about what's going on.

Besides the moment Ishwari said that she is doing everything for Dev's child pretty much says it all what she thinks about Sonakshi. Sonakshi is the box that contains the gift. If the box turns out empty, it won't take Ishwari two seconds to throw out Sonakshi. Whatever may you call it, this is not how a mother behaves. So no, Ishwari will never be anyone but Dev's mother.

Not to mention, Dev is now expert at lying. He is making more empty promises. While I know he has always been like that, but I hoped to see a growth in his character. But because every time his lie got caught or promises he broke, he got away scot-free courtesy Sona's "understanding" was another lesson for him to continue lying which I had said before.

Just like a cheater will always be a cheater, a lier will always be a lier. If he can lie to someone else, he can lie to you as well as Pehchaan Kaun rightly pointed out.

So Sona is also to blame for her being made a fool off. She let it happen to herself by not keeping her dignity and respect and being a doormat instead. Lesson to be learned, respect yourself first if you want to be respected.

Everyone wants to be accepted by their in-laws. But at some point you have to make peace with the fact that even if you discover cure for cancer and invent world peace, you still won't win certain people over because the reason they don't like you is because your husband loves you. If someone can't love you for who you are, then they certainly won't for what you can provide regardless how much they pretend. If you just want fake love, then by all means, keep killing yourself trying to please them but it never will be enough. But that's my point of view. I believe only stupid people keep repeating the same action and expect different outcome every time.

Thank you everyone!!! Tomorrow I am on a movie date to watch Rogue One so unavailable mostly. So have a great weekend.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hmm..It looks like Canadians are starting their new year with good news. Reduced contribution. .great.
Bye the way.. just want to know..do you guys have any information about Indian govt asking expatriate/nri's bank details canada??. I heard in here Kuwait govt rejected their request. I think Indian govt is planning to follow US FATCA policy.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

And here people think he loves her. Is he attracted to her? Yes. Does he like her? Yes.

But no one gambles with the person's well-being whom we truly love.

There is nothing in this world that is worth taking a risk with my husband's health. No woman will ever take even the tiniest risk with their husband for all jewels in the world.

I have seen husbands who tell their wives not to take risk with their health for the sake of a child because they can't lose them at any cost.

And here, he is willing to do experimental procedure on his wife to give his mother a baby? What kind of love is this?



@bold... very true... Even if we say Dev is doing this for his mom. Even Sonakshi is doing the same. She too is trying to become mother to give happiness to ishwari... Both are doing this for ishwari sake only... They both are not thinking about themselves...
Too selfless these two are...

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