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Posted: 8 years ago
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Indian Govt. can't ask Canadian's bank details for any NRIs. It's illegal. Before you provide any information, check if the source is legit. Do check with your embassy and ask if there had been any information sent like that. Indian Govt. can't directly email anyone obtaining email address from anywhere because of the Privacy Act in Canada. They can only obtain email address or contact information under official circumstances like Income Tax fraud even then they will have to involve Canadian Police as in RCMP. They can't just ask Banking information.

I'd recommend that if you are in USA, check your privacy law. But do not provide any banking information coming from random official looking email. Sounds like Phishing fraud to me.

Originally posted by: Pramila.harish

Hmm..It looks like Canadians are starting their new year with good news. Reduced contribution. .great.

Bye the way.. just want to know..do you guys have any information about Indian govt asking expatriate/nri's bank details canada??. I heard in here Kuwait govt rejected their request. I think Indian govt is planning to follow US FATCA policy.

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Posted: 8 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Meera_Ka_Mohan



@bold... very true... Even if we say Dev is doing this for his mom. Even Sonakshi is doing the same. She too is trying to become mother to give happiness to ishwari... Both are doing this for ishwari sake only... They both are not thinking about themselves...
Too selfless these two are...


OR Selfish for using their unborn child to gain approval for themselves, depending how you look at it... 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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👏 Tia.


Some of the thoughts exactly echoed to what I was thinking today - the property one. Had Sonakshi disliked something of Ishwari and loved her with a condition, Dev will not do a THING to change that in Ishwari. But the same rule doesn't apply for Sonakshi. Because by marrying her, he bought all sort of rights on her, her soul, her body. Like he himself is a slave to Ishwari, emotionally, physically and practically, he considers Sonakshi as his slave as well, this is the kind of #RelationshipGoal he has set up for himself and Sona. This is why we find Vicky-Elena far better as a couple because their #RelationshipGoal is Maa-Baba 👏.


After watching today's blatant white lies by Dev to Sona, I consider it as my mistake to give this show a chance. My mistake to continue with this show even after the biggest disappointments from the ML -


- No redemption track before marriage.
- Not feeling genuinely sorry for what he did to Rithwik.
- Making promise and breaking in a split of second.
- Hurting Sona himself by making her feel outsider in Neha-Ranveer case.
- Hurting Sona himself by making her feel outsider in Vicky's job case.
- Calling it as Sona's ego and sleeping outside making their relationship public.
- Dancing in joy when the swing was out.
- Not agreeing to make a simple change in his life - HIS DAMN room.
- Not learning to do anything not even folding hankys after marriage.
- Lying to Sonakshi time and again about Asha, household chores.
- Now this infertility track endless lies.


My bad I ever thought this spineless coward can grow some balls one day to win the lady like a man. 👎🏼 I am SO pissed off today even at the doctor, her medical degree and career would be seized for ever if a case is filed. This time I hope Bijoy Bose goes ahead and lodges a complaint against Dev for harrassing his child like this. Is this what parents grow their daughters upto ? To have her body manipulated by someone else without her consent ? And for Mr. Dev Dixit - this is anything but love. His love is AS selfish as his mother's. He has not learnt anything in life and is worth of pity in my eyes. I am tired of expecting him to grow up to be a man one can look upto. But he is setting the best example of how a husband should NOT be like.


Sonakshi has chosen this uncultured full-of-lies people on her own so I dont have any sympathy for her. My sympathy is with just the viewers 😆.


@ Sabita - 🤗 True hero you are. So glad you overcome it and look how ! You won a mother and a baby 😊 It's truly amazing to see woman-power in all these. ❤️
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Oh and I forgot to write about priorities -

Health over selfish love - Health - reason we pray good health even for our enemies.


Goddess mother showering conditional love over wife with probable emotional wreck and in support of unconditional love - The later - reason couples become companions in true sense in such difficult times.


Running away from seeing the reality of someone we love over acknowledging and facing it with an effort to change it - The later - reason the graph should always move upwards in life, not staying constant or having a drop.


Enormous lies to avoid temporary problems over being brutally honest and becoming trustworthy - The later - reason Honesty is the new sexy !


I believe Dev is never going to change. Because I realize Dev Dixit doesn't exist. Dev is a myth, a shadow of Ishwari Dixit. The early episodes of this week proved Dev knows about Ishwari's unacceptance of Sonakshi. Still he did not put any effort to change it, instead he went to complain to Ishwari how household chores and swings are troubling him. 👏 He knows Ishwari has apparently no reason to dislike Sonakshi, but he hasn't talked Ishwari into it rather put a blind eye and continued his devotion. Even after knowing his mother's unfair nature, he kept worshipping her. Why are we then expecting that all of a sudden something would blow up which would open his eyes ? Didn't we learn our lessons when he came to know about Ishwari fixing Rithwik's proposal for Sona ? He caught her red-handed, still bought her justifications and an iota of respect didn't change from Dev for Ishwari. He got drunk and alleged his mother of the competition of 'Dev kiska zyada hai', what happened next morning ? Nothing. It has been 200 episodes and there is not even a DENT in the relationship. Pre-nup document revelation is going to show Shaheer's acting when he breaks down, but nothing beyond that. Dev would cry and then would be back in his mother's lap the moment she calls out for him.


The one reason I like Vicky now over Dev - Vicky exists, Dev doesn't. Priority again - Independent thought/mind (good/bad) of an adult individual over a non-existent humanbot - The former. 😛
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Posted: 8 years ago
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All of your points are absolutely on point, Pehchaan Kaun. I thought he has progressed beyond the initial spineless jelly when I saw him supporting Sonakshi in her quest to find the truth of Ayan, but nope. It seems that was the same as when he told Sonakshi that she can decorate his room anyway she likes when all he meant that she can do anything she likes as long as he is not inconvenienced.
There is zero character growth in Dev. So I think Ishwari did too good a job in creating a puppet. And puppet belongs to puppeteer. They are never independent human being capable of morality, ethics and rational judgement.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@Pehchaan Kaun - The points you mad in both the post is bang on.Well said.Both Sona N Dev doing things just to please Ish.Sona a independent strong women.As been reduced to this.That for her getting love n pampering from MIL.That to not genuinely is ok.As U said I also cannot sympathize with Sona.She gave Dev free hand to exploit her.Because every time he does wrong.She forgive him.Took away the job from her,made to look she is in love with him[Kushal Roy matter],made profile in Matrimony site without her consent.She fall in love with him.Broke up with her.She took all the harassing n stalking lightly.Then got married to him.He cannot keep up his promise.Romance with him.Cannot accept for a small change in the room.Be happy with that.Did not wait for the cake cutting.He got kiss.So Sona should be equally blamed.Dev know Sona will shout n will say big dialogues.At the end she will forgive him.The show has complete 200+ episode.How long will fan wait to see some good change.All cannot be so patient.Here we wanted CV's to show some growth in Dev.But they butchered Sona's character so much.I thought CV's showing Dev taking baby step when he decided to help Sona on Ayaan issue.CV's will show is growth gradually.But no.They took a U-turn.By showing FB's of scenes.Were he clearly know.Ish does not like Sona.Yet he keep quiet.What a great husband.This show started good n becoming worst day by day.So I have no hope CV's will redeem Dev.He will get away with what all wrong he did.Sona will be epitome of understanding.


Even I am started liking Vicky.Also Vicky N Eleena jodi.They r selfish,live in their brothers money.But as a couple n Vicky as a husband they r good.Dev cannot even talk to his mom in a firm tone.If she say anything to Sona.

Edited by VIMAL.M - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Unhappy with yesterday's episode as Dev is seen as a stubborn fool who is unable to gauge a situational crisis. Can't expect this from one of youth icons in India and a billionaire. Intelligence is definitely expected. 😊 Sonakshi tried and failed. I hope she continues pursuing and Dev gets caught.

Couldn't relate to your analogy drawn between a killer tumor and pregnancy. One is life threatening and the other is life giving! Found it hilarious and out of sync. 😃 Yes, you hav tried to draw your attention to a selfish mother who is pretending to love her DIL, which is fine. But the comment that Ishwari is so desperate that she would even embrace Dev's mistress child, is too much!! 🤣 I pray the Creatives don't take your comments seriously or the show would become disastrous.

Undoubtedly, Ishwari has an obsession with her son. And she has proved it several times over. But she also gives good advice to her daughters. Let's not become so cynical that opinions are formed of a character and kill the desirous change. Let wait for the Creatives to play out their script.



-Rekha
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

Indian Govt. can't ask Canadian's bank details for any NRIs. It's illegal. Before you provide any information, check if the source is legit. Do check with your embassy and ask if there had been any information sent like that. Indian Govt. can't directly email anyone obtaining email address from anywhere because of the Privacy Act in Canada. They can only obtain email address or contact information under official circumstances like Income Tax fraud even then they will have to involve Canadian Police as in RCMP. They can't just ask Banking information.

I'd recommend that if you are in USA, check your privacy law. But do not provide any banking information coming from random official looking email. Sounds like Phishing fraud to me.


Actually there is a news that Indian govt planning to put tax on NRI's. So they are collecting information. Of course I am not going to provide my information to any random calls or messages. I live in Kuwait and I heard Kuwait govt rejected to provide any information about nri. I just wanted to whether you guys are aware about this.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o



<font size="3" color="#330099">OR Selfish for using their unborn child to gain approval for themselves, depending how you look at it...😃</font>

Right now both Dev and Sona are acting plain stupid...nothing else and tell ya what its frustrating to see a good show turn into trash.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Danseuse



Unhappy with yesterday's episode as Dev is seen as a stubborn fool who is unable to gauge a situational crisis. Can't expect this from one of youth icons in India and a billionaire. Intelligence is definitely expected. 😊 Sonakshi tried and failed. I hope she continues pursuing and Dev gets caught.

Couldn't relate to your analogy drawn between a killer tumor and pregnancy. One is life threatening and the other is life giving! Found it hilarious and out of sync. 😃 Yes, you hav tried to draw your attention to a selfish mother who is pretending to love her DIL, which is fine. But the comment that Ishwari is so desperate that she would even embrace Dev's mistress child, is too much!! 🤣 I pray the Creatives don't take your comments seriously or the show would become disastrous.

Undoubtedly, Ishwari has an obsession with her son. And she has proved it several times over. But she also gives good advice to her daughters. Let's not become so cynical that opinions are formed of a character and kill the desirous change. Let wait for the Creatives to play out their script.



-Rekha

Had she given good advice to Neha, her marriage would had been saved. So no, Ishwari only cares about herself. Right now, she cares for Dev's child, her love and care is not even an ounce for Sona. Sona is just a carrier for Dev's child nothing else.

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