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Tell me who's birthday was it. Did it feel like Dev's birthday or a mother's day instead. A mother giving speech of what all she should be valued for.
The speech was ridiculous. Comparing how a son forgets a mother when wife comes in his life "Offcourse she was talking about herself", she is least interested in everybody else or society. For Ishwari it had always been I, Me and myself. First shamelessly eavesdropping on a personal conversation between a husband and a wife (yes she literally stopped to listen to their conversation), and then making a huge pathetic speech of why Sona is so wrong and she would not understand anything because she is not a mother herself. Yes she did not name anyone but was the insult becomes any less. Why did she feel bad about "mumma's boy" comment. Is not that's what she always wants Dev to be, Is not that's what she tries to make Dev into even If a slight shift in his brain occurs. For example he made a decision of going on HM, what did she do, made him come back to his mumma's boy status. Neha never asked Dev or Sona to cancel the HM, yes her anger was valid on Sona but who's fault was that, Dev cancelled the plan himself then he lied to Neha and GKB saying maa's health was the reason of cancellation of HM. Did Dev even ask Sona what does she think, no never, she is non-existent between mother and Son. He may have said Maa's health so Neha does not feel bad, but who became the villain in this "Sona" for no fault of her's. "Karey koi aur bhare koi aur"
Yes Bijoy could have been a bit mature but If Dev would have addressed Asha as maa as soon as they entered, Bijoy would not have said anything. But in a way it was good, since it was important for Ishwari to understand why Bijoy did that. And then Dev did say that names does not matter, a son remains a son.Something Ishwari understood only then or else who knows what happened few days back could have had been repeated.
Yes Bijoy is a bit harsh on Surabh but its because he wants him to succeed, that's my POV. He was supportive when that goon lending money stuff happened, so its not that he differentiates between his kids or loves one more and forgets the other like Ishwari.
Ishwari's main motive of giving speech was "prove Sona wrong" otherwise there was absolutely no need for that speech in a birthday party. Preaching someone is her favorite hobby when she herself failed big time being a mother even for Dev (lets forget she has 3 other daughters for she does that same).
Shiv Shakti
