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Posted: 9 years ago
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So we had the entry of 'THE JHOOLA' in yesterdays episode and a new funny take/ promo related to it 👏

It was breezy to see how Sonakshi ran towards the door when the swing was brought (leaving out Ishwari wondering as to why she left without completing the conversation with her 😃). Sonakshi is childlike at heart too (just like Dev), can't contain her excitement and it showed!

So full points to Dev for keeping his very first promise from breaking 😆 They scenes were cute and Sona was just adorable all through. Time and again, the viewers have been reminded of how materialistic things are just insignificant for Dev (bed sheet and now furniture). He only cares for feelings and expectations of his dear ones - whatever makes them happy.

Now , coming to the new promo of Jhoola. It is quite funny indeed, and also has underlying meaning for the show:
1) how a simple piece of furniture, which is wrongly placed can cause injuries. Similarly, had Dev taken active interest in the swing that Sonakshi (literally) loved, like in its placement in the room etc., it would have made her feel more inclusive and wonderful. Sometimes sharing your spouse's interests helps in furthering the bond of marriage. And avoid injuries in this case LOL

2) When you get married, things are bound to change - some changes take more time than expected. And the reason could be because old habits die hard, and if they are bad habits then you suffer a lot before getting it right! 😉. Since Dev never had the good habits of being independent, managing his wardrobe etc., he is suffering (it was very funny in the promo) and will gradually learn. Men often find it more difficult than women, since they are not ingrained with this notion since birth 😉. So I guess Dev babu is evolving and learning fast 😃

Meanwhile when all this is happening, the in-laws on both sides, should ideally let the couple be and let them manage it - that's my POV. Don't judge, don't lecture and only offer to advise (and not help). let them set up their own 'grihasti' (domesticity).



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Posted: 9 years ago
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As usual a beautiful post Sia😊
Pasting my reply from other thread...

Though the visuals in promo r funny...Y do i feel the swing is symbolic to Dev's marital life...Swing is one of the changes bought in by Sona in Dev's life...Dev was still in his mansion...but Sona's entry in his life like the swing did create a change...his stumbling over the swing looks like the jhatkas he faces over some situations of his married life...Ish shown njoying his complaints is the satisfaction she gets from the discomfort in Dev's life bcoz of Sona...she never wanted things to change and even tried her best to separate Dev Sona...but since the change has been inevitable...she enjoys when Dev stumbles due to the change......this kind of sadistic pleasure needs to b noticed by Sona...its high time she gets to know...
It could also b Dev figuring out that Ish feels un attended and doing things to please her...like mismatched socks...he wanting to let Ish know how much her presence in his life matters ...probably

Either ways its at Sona's end to understand this insecurity and swing her magic wand...

Edited by -allizwell- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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nice post👍🏼..dev will learn eventually
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -allizwell-

As usual a beautiful post Sia😊

Pasting my reply from other thread...

Though the visuals in promo r funny...Y do i feel the swing is symbolic to Dev's marital life...Swing is one of the changes bought in by Sona in Dev's life...Dev was still in his mansion...but Sona's entry in his life like the swing did create a change...his stumbling over the swing looks like the jhatkas he faces over some situations of his married life...Ish shown njoying his complaints is the satisfaction she gets from the discomfort in Dev's life bcoz of Sona...she never wanted things to change and even tried her best to separate Dev Sona...but since the change has been inevitable...she enjoys when Dev stumbles due to the change......this kind of sadistic pleasure needs to b noticed by Sona...its high time she gets to know...
It could also b Dev figuring out that Ish feels un attended and doing things to please her...like mismatched socks...he wanting to let Ish know how much her presence in his life matters ...probably

Either ways its at Sona's end to understand this insecurity and swing her magic wand...



Loved your reply. Symbolism and swing her magic wand, take a bow 👏
You are a star ⭐️
Thank you!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dev will learn eventually but this wud give Ish another chance to taunt Sona that she is not doing house work properly n poor Dev beta has to wear mismatch socks. Totally understand that most Indian men are dependent on their mother n later wife for such things..I dnt support or like it but it happens in real life. But like u mentioned ...both set of parents shud let the couple handle such stuff...but here Ish wud definitely see it as Dev beta getting tortured by his wife.
If Dev has problem with the swing or its position, he shud clearly say it...n they cud keep it in a better place..rather than showing off to the whole family..how many sacrifices/adjustments poor Dev has to make for Sona. These adjustments are nothing compared to what a girl has to make in a joint family..They are giving way too much importance to this jhoola when Dev n Sona has so many bigger marital issues to work upon. Dev definitely has to learn that by hiding his real feelings, he actually makes the problems even bigger...such problems can be sorted out by simply discussing with each other. N Sona has to understand that Dev's words can't be taken at face value everytime.

Dev kept his promise of accepting all changes Sona will do to the room but he broke the broke of keeping her included in family matters...at dinner table everyone ignored Sona's questions about Riya's wedding..atleast Dev shud have given d details.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: randommusings

Dev will learn eventually but this wud give Ish another chance to taunt Sona that she is not doing house work properly n poor Dev beta has to wear mismatch socks. Totally understand that most Indian men are dependent on their mother n later wife for such things..I dnt support or like it but it happens in real life. But like u mentioned ...both set of parents shud let the couple handle such stuff...but here Ish wud definitely see it as Dev beta getting tortured by his wife.

If Dev has problem with the swing or its position, he shud clearly say it...n they cud keep it in a better place..rather than showing off to the whole family..how many sacrifices/adjustments poor Dev has to make for Sona. These adjustments are nothing compared to what a girl has to make in a joint family..They are giving way too much importance to this jhoola when Dev n Sona has so many bigger marital issues to work upon. Dev definitely has to learn that by hiding his real feelings, he actually makes the problems even bigger...such problems can be sorted out by simply discussing with each other. N Sona has to understand that Dev's words can't be taken at face value everytime.

Dev kept his promise of accepting all changes Sona will do to the room but he broke the broke of keeping her included in family matters...at dinner table everyone ignored Sona's questions about Riya's wedding..atleast Dev shud have given d details.



I don't think Dev's intention was to show off to anyone or even to Sona - he is genuinely trying to accommodate her wishes. Infact, he views her no different from his own self - for him, material things don't really matter and he derives satisfaction seeing her happy.

If only Ishwari was not competing with Sona, treating her mistakes as her own daughter's and not been so interfering - life would be so different for our lead couple and the show would have ended too!



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Posted: 9 years ago
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So happy they did a puppy start... aage aage dekhiye kya kya hota hai...
War cry from dev...always... coz of the 2 ladies...😆😆😆

Happy to c a happy wala promo... still in the end of it all... why they showed ishwari..
obvio to show how he swings in ideally in the relationship...

the lesser you make effort to balance about things between other relations and sona, the more he will swing in this manner...or perhaps even worse...

Am loving the way CVs are showing it...

bring it on... am on...👍🏼
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Beautiful post 😊
Totally agree with you! Yes, the promo can easily be seen in a negative light by some of us because Dev is giving Ishwari yet another opportunity to look down at Sona. Or that Sonakshi is inefficient to manage the tasks of home which gives a nice boost to Ishwari's ego.
But the promo is a light-hearted one and I like how you interpreted it😊 A newly wed couple errs many a times and also stumbles while bringing balance, it is lovely to watch Dev make genuine efforts to make Sona happy though..even if it means his life has a little chaos for sometime.😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: saumiee

Beautiful post 😊

Totally agree with you! Yes, the promo can easily be seen in a negative light by some of us because Dev is giving Ishwari yet another opportunity to look down at Sona. Or that Sonakshi is inefficient to manage the tasks of home which gives a nice boost to Ishwari's ego.
But the promo is a light-hearted one and I like how you interpreted it😊 A newly wed couple errs many a times and also stumbles while bringing balance, it is lovely to watch Dev make genuine efforts to make Sona happy though..even if it means his life has a little chaos for sometime.😆




Yeah, Sona's life is chaotic too.. in a different way though 😉
And this happens with all new couples, but I am afraid Ishwari will show her 'Ishwarism' here. Many men would take shelter in their mommy's pampering.. but Dev won't. He is a tad spineless but won't side with his mother to demean his wife (when Ishwari will try to put her down).


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Posted: 9 years ago
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v nice post dear...
i am happy that at last Dev's wife Sona is giving training him ... nice to c confused adjusting Dev Dixt...

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