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Posted: 9 years ago
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What I feel why sona is not answering back and trying to create a mil dil relation when other party is not willing is becoz
1. Sona has always been a akhon ka taara at her house. I feel she always excels in whatever she does, people adore her wherever she goes. Therefore its now her characteristics to always becomes everyone's favourite. Sona knows ishwari doesn't like her since wedding nite but she believes she can win over ishu. But what she doesn't know is the thoughts and its extent in ishu's head.
2. She still fears that ishu's dislike for her will make dev leave her. Dats why sona doesn't even say out loud to dev that ur mother don't like me.
Same way she is trying to win her heart by agreeing with ishu on most of the matter without answering back and ishwari is afraid from facing mirrors. But one day is gonna come but she will realise that it the wrong way of making ishu feel secure when there is no positive result.
3. Since the beginning of the show sona has that apnapan for everyone similarly she really feels ishwari as her mother that apnapan is there when she converses with her but never gets the same sentiments back. I feel soon this illusion of sona's will break too.
I feel answering back to elders even when they atlre wrong is a tricky situation in India sadly becoz there is a fine line between standing up for themselves and being batameez. Its mostly spined around and used against the dil's only. If sona indeed gave answers back to their taunts still I don't feel her life in dixit house would have improved but being said that it doesn't mean that sona to succumb to all these taunts every time and today was one of those days when she should have said something to gkb
As for asking Dev whether he is happy with jhoola I feel that adjustment and compromise in relation is important and even in love marriages actually living with ur husband is very different from the courtship period.
Edited by Shlroy - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I will skip tonight's episode and coming all episodes till Sona gives it back to GKB or Dev realizes Ishwari's insecurities ..

Off from this drama. Even the reading updates make me feel suffocated.. I definitely dont want more..

I know it doesn't matter to the makers of the show, but they have just lost one audience due to dragging of the show with no progress in the characterization..
Edited by Pehchaan.Kaun - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi everyone. I am Aishu, I am silent reader of most of your posts Tia. I really like the show, but I honestly don't get most of the ideas they are showing (but I have zero experience in love and marriage I am a 12th grader in a med highschool) But I have my mother's original struggle, my mom also was just like Sona is now and my dad like Dev, for them it took many instances to come back to their true character. I think time will tell everything, but I am guessing Dev is realizing something slowly. But I do believe Sona will be the one helping Dev realize that his mother is not all that she seems. I honestly think she has some sort of mental illness (which is needed to showcase that it's normal for people to have it). But I hope it doesn't end up being clichd if they showcase it like that.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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CVS HAVE TO READ THIS NOW!!!!!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sona should keep up her self respect and not interfere in anything whatsoever in that hiuse! Just live like you are in a hotel! And if someone dares question her, which GKB sure would, ahe can retort that she never feels as though she belongs here as they keep her out of everything! This way both parties wont get hurt! That should tell them something!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: swash2

Sona should keep up her self respect and not interfere in anything whatsoever in that hiuse! Just live like you are in a hotel! And if someone dares question her, which GKB sure would, ahe can retort that she never feels as though she belongs here as they keep her out of everything! This way both parties wont get hurt! That should tell them something!



either way, she is doomed in that family. when she was thinking for herself 1) honeymoon 2) maaika overnight visit 3) jhoola.. usmein bhi chain nahin hai kisi ko.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Even spell check has stopped working now
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: dlavanya

Ishwari wants sona to resolve her marital problem at dixit house for one and only one reason - she doesn't want Dev to go and stay at his in laws for longer time and bond with them more. - Exactly. That was quite evident from her expression...

Ishwari spoke fine with Dev before he went upstairs and then Ishwari did not hear that he was ok with Sona bringing a swing in their room - did this upset her during the dinner time or did it further increased her insecurities that Dev is changing and soon her value will further reduce ?? - Humm... You might be on to something. But if I have to guess, she is sulking because of Asha and Dev bonding. People can lie to others, but it's hard to lie to oneself. Ishwari knows Asha is a far better mother than herself and her kindness and generosity she herself has experienced when the woman she thought was like her own mother insulted her because she is a widow and Asha turned her insult into a warm welcome. It's impossible not to love that woman. So Ishwari might be worried that she will fall short in front of Asha's glory.

Neha is sending all confusing signals, She clearly established in her mind that Sona is happy only because her Love (Dev) is rich... God save her now... We need some very strong incident that will prove it otherwise to her... I wonder what that would be ... other than Dev going bankrupt and sona still loving Dev just the same... Waiting to see how CVs take this forward - If I were CVs, I'd write parallel story with Riya. You see Neha thinks that Sona is happy because Dev is rich. No one, including Neha's mother has done absolutely nothing to change her mentality. But now Riya's alliance is happening at a rich home. If I was writing this story, I will write that Riya's in-laws will ask about Ranveer and considering Ishwari cares about people's opinions and Neha wants Riya to be happy, they will request Ranveer to pretend to be happily married until Riya's wedding in exchange for his family's happiness (like paying off the ir debt) giving them a chance to spend time together. Then I'll write Riya's fiance to be a jerk who treats Riya like crap. That will open Neha's eyes that it's not money that makes people happy, but love.

Riya's wedding will not cause any jealousy in Neha as she is like their foster mom and she is the one who asked ishwari to start looking for a groom for Riya. - Oh I know Neha won't be jealous of Riya. Even before Neha wasn't the one who was jealous, it was always Ishwari. I brought it up to point out another example of her hypocrisy.

I really don't know what was the need for Sona to go around and ask everyone if Dev liked the swing or not.. I guess she was unsure if Dev was ok or totally hated it... But it was unnecessary. - Yep, I felt she was behaving like a teenage girl asking around if her crush likes her. Very immature behaviour.

The only reason for this scene, would be Ishwari knowing that Dev told sona that he liked it - increasing her insecurity to another level - Yep. But CVs could have showed it after Ishwari told Radha that Sonakshi will learn from her mistakes.

At this time Dev and Sona are both confused why ishwari is upset - is it because dev did not inform her that he will be staying at Boses or is it because bijoy kicked them out and they did not go back to Dixits or something else.

They are currently not able to understand what this something else is... so acting confused and asking questions and convincing themselves about something that is not true.

At the dinner table, no one told sona about riya's wedding. Well even dev was told just before he went upstairs and they didn't have time to talk as Neha barged in...

But Dev definitely noticed that ppl are ignoring both him and sona - so he cant really narrow it down that it was just sona they are ignoring and ishwari is just mad at Dev. - You might be right. But since direct and indirect insults continue to aim just Sonakshi, I don't know why Dev will assume they are even aiming Dev.

Coming to GKB's comments, well she doesn't want a Bengali bahu what can we say ...not sure what Dev could have said here... but Sona definitely could have asked GKB " why Mamiji why you don't want a Bengali bahu?" - I at least expected Sona to say, "Don't worry Mamiji. Bengali women are very independent. I doubt any Bengali woman will want to marry Vicky." She does not know Elena is dating Vicky. But as I mentioned Dev loses his personality in front of his mother and Sona loses hers at Dixit house.

But, I was LMAO as we know she is definitely getting a bengali bahu and the track after that is going to be the most entertaining for me 😆. - If Vicky indeed intent to marry Elena and not just toying with her. But yes, that would be poetic justice because Elena is a bigger firecracker than Sonakshi.

I think Dev and Sona will atleast get an idea that their MAA doesn't consider Sona family yet after the precap.. and need to see what they will do about. it - I hope they get it. Hum to inke light bulb jalne ke intezaar karte karte thak gaye. Ab to brain ki aankhen khol...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ab ek aur Bakra mila hai Dixit's ko. Yeh wala paisewala hai to isko VIP treatment milega. Guaranteed. Kal dekh lena...

Originally posted by: vibg


thats the curse of dixits! niki focussed on HM only, its anyone who enters the fixit kalkothri doors.. loses their brains. same happened to ranveer when he decided to take the job and marry neha. sona entered the home and became spineless and brainless like pati prneshwar 😆

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Posted: 9 years ago
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All of your points are valid. But Sona should use her brain. After so much insults and humiliation, she finally figured out that her husband's home does not seem to her like her home. Now when a smart person figures out the problem, they start thinking about the solution.

Point no. 1. She does not want to divorce Dev. But this situation can't continue either.

Point no. 2. What will make her feel like she belongs?

If she is not treated like an outsider. Fair enough.

Point no. 3. What makes her feel like an outsider?

When Dixits keep her out of all family discussion, most importantly Dev.

Point no. 4. Discuss with Dev the problem.

She needs to be included.

Then Dev said sorry and it won't happen again. What won't happen again, what is the action plan or steps he will take to ensure she is treated with respect and as a family was not discussed.

Instead she discussed room decor and how much space she gets in bed.

So Dev said, "Tathastu."

And Sona happily started decorating Dev's room ignoring insults as usual until again she was treated as an outsider.

Now you see how she is ruining her own respect like a empty brained bimbo?

Originally posted by: Shlroy

What I feel why sona is not answering back and trying to create a mil dil relation when other party is not willing is becoz

1. Sona has always been a akhon ka taara at her house. I feel she always excels in whatever she does, people adore her wherever she goes. Therefore its now her characteristics to always becomes everyone's favourite. Sona knows ishwari doesn't like her since wedding nite but she believes she can win over ishu. But what she doesn't know is the thoughts and its extent in ishu's head.
2. She still fears that ishu's dislike for her will make dev leave her. Dats why sona doesn't even say out loud to dev that ur mother don't like me.
Same way she is trying to win her heart by agreeing with ishu on most of the matter without answering back and ishwari is afraid from facing mirrors. But one day is gonna come but she will realise that it the wrong way of making ishu feel secure when there is no positive result.
3. Since the beginning of the show sona has that apnapan for everyone similarly she really feels ishwari as her mother that apnapan is there when she converses with her but never gets the same sentiments back. I feel soon this illusion of sona's will break too.
I feel answering back to elders even when they atlre wrong is a tricky situation in India sadly becoz there is a fine line between standing up for themselves and being batameez. Its mostly spined around and used against the dil's only. If sona indeed gave answers back to their taunts still I don't feel her life in dixit house would have improved but being said that it doesn't mean that sona to succumb to all these taunts every time and today was one of those days when she should have said something to gkb
As for asking Dev whether he is happy with jhoola I feel that adjustment and compromise in relation is important and even in love marriages actually living with ur husband is very different from the courtship period.

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