Originally posted by: vibg
another nice post!
the whole issue here is of ME and HUM. Dev still thinks of ME, my family, my problems and Sona is just his wife.. to be part of him, for him!!! "mujhe tum mere liye chaahiye" he has said that from beginning and that's how he has treated her. Nothing changed! Its Sona, in her blind love, and someone who understands the true meaning of marriage (she sess a real partnership in her parents and she wants that!).. thinks of them as HUM... her family is his family and his family is her family... PERIOD!!!! issues in families are THEIR issues cause she is part of Dixits. but Dev's definition of family is Maa, Neha, sisters, and then Sona all to himself... not part of his other family cause she hasn't shared the past😡 - BINGO!!! That's exactly it. But he is forgetting that Sona is a human being and not a toy whom he can keep in his room to play with. He is behaving as if he has two families - The Dixits and Sona. And they shouldn't interfere in each other's lives. That would have been possible if Dev had decided to live separately. But when they are living under the same roof, you can't differentiate between the two. One will always get short changed.
I don't care for Ishwari and her parchaai Neha... both are unhappy, unsatisfied souls.. all cause of their own doing. they seriously can't blame for their own actions. the duo can't see others happy, esp. Dev! the one they claim to love the most😆 I won't comment anymore on them. For me, Ishwari needs to be treated for mental illness and I don't know how/where/when CVs will take the story on that route. Until then, none of the things will change. - I wonder when people will see that she is mentally ill. She says one thing and does another. She claims Neha was shortchanged as child, but she is showing no effort to make up to her. She is still running after Dev.
As for Sonakshi... she is FINALLY.. bang on with her note. finally, she understood how Dev has been treating her. She doesn't care for others as the only equation (one unit) that matters to her is Devakshi. Dev can't say she is part of his family.. when he treats her like an OUTSIDER. it's always.. "tum nahin samjhogi" "meri family ke liye decision lene ke liye muhe tumse nahin puchna" and for those, who might equate this to Sona helping Bose's with check and not telling Dev. She handled it the right way without impacting anyone else. Besides, there are bigger relationship issues that need to be resolved. Dev, however, is taking wrong decisions without discussing. She lives here in Dixit house. Her wedded life is seriously being impacted by Neha's situation... She is unable to live a happy life cause of Neha which is making direct impact on Devakshi. - Yes, what Sona did today was absolutely right. She can't continue to live half life in limbo. Either she is family or she is not. If she is family, she will have to be completely included and if she is not then her life should not be impacted by this family's matter whatsoever.
about time, she understood that and clearly spelled it out for Mr. Bhola Babu👏 to me, this is a beginning of Dev's understanding of Marriage concept!