Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun
Tia 2 posts in a row too good😆
For today's episode I will watch once I reach airport (my bi-weekly travel to USA hits me bad 😔) but I can't wait till that to post my reviews.
I am shocked, shocked that Sona found it very unlikely of Dev to do something like this😆. Why ? Didn't Sona see Dev doing it twice with her and innocent people around her ? Oh she must have enjoyed that time since the intention of those actions must be to have Sona in precious Dev's life. But today she can't accept the same behavior when another innocent guy is victim who has nothing to do with Sona😆. I am amused at Sona's surprise.
I am totally surprised too. She is like "Aap aise nehin hain" and I was like what? Did you forget Sona that when he wanted you to become Ishwari's nutritionist, he blocked everyone of your job prospect? Did he think that your family is depending on you? And you didn't even hurt his family then. In fact you saved his mother's life and that's how he treated you. And here he perceives Ranveer to be the cause of Neha's happiness. Why is it so difficult for you to imagine that he can take away that person's job?
I must say, this is one department where Ishwari scores better. Except for her possessiveness over Dev, she has never showed/insulted outsiders. She has accepted all insults from Bose Baba and even treated Ranveer with respect which Dev failed to do.
True. She doesn't insult in front of people. She attacks from behind in private. I wonder which one is worse. At least you can see a frontal attack coming. Subtle manipulation is harder to grasp and almost impossible to fight back.Psychiatrists's field day -
Ishwari - The issue is with Insecurity and possessiveness. Remaining all her actions I find more or less understandable or relatable. Once her possessiveness with Dev decreases, she would automatically get closer to her daughters.
You are right. But the million dollar question is when her possessiveness will decrease? For everyone's sanity, I hope soon. But I won't hold my breath.Neha - The most needy patient. She suffers from acute depression and inferiority complexfrom lifelong deprivation of her rights, her mother's love, affection and care and had been made a mother when she herself needed one. Once she achieves mental peace and seeks for happiness within herself, she would be coming across as most sensible, unbiased and sweet girl. Only she has the ability to see things objectively, a quality Sona has for others except for Dev.
Neha has a lot of potential. But she is still a little girl looking in from outside. She has to get over comparing her happiness with others and like you said, she needs to find her happiness within her and not look in other people or material things.Sona - Suffers from the disease which in Jaane tu ya jaane na, the character of Meghna faced. Total ignorance to the reality and creating a dream world of her own where everyone's perfect and normal. This might be working as a slow poison. I hope somebody (may be Baba or someone from Bose, or even life) shows her the reality before it's too late and she becomes unable to face the ugliness of it.
Yes, sometimes Sona plays excellent ostrich specifically when it comes to Dev. She sees everyone else with full clarity but got strange tunnel vision and selective memory when it comes to Dev.Dev - The MOST injured child of all. Outwardly on the spot 2 problems can be identified - Anger issues and uncanny devotion towards a fellow human being to an extent which blocks judgement. If we go deeper, we will find complex layers of acute depression fed by guilt, guilt for being responsible of their dreaded childhood, guilt for not being able to protect his mother from the pain, guilt from depriving Neha of her rights, guilt for having their family face such terrible days - all of them are baseless and untrue, he did not cause all these, he has reasons to feel the sufferings, but has NO REASON to be GUILTY of those. Once he realizes how he alone with extreme struggle pulled the whole family out of poverty, once he realizes how he stood out in the crowd to grab every opportunity which came his way and got himself into Forbes List, how he has fulfilled his mommy's every dream, how he has grown up as a sensitive and respectful towards elders etc, he would know how much he has done for his family, he would realize that there is NO point of being in the guilt trip so often, that there is nothing more which as a son AND as himself a victim of poverty, could have done. Once he realizes that he should indeed be PROUD of himself and not GUILTY, he would automatically stop being so obnoxious and cruel to outsiders to do MORE for his family, once he realizes that, Ishwari will not be able to manipulate him so easily like she does now. And for all these, Ishwari is responsible, she has injected all these into each layer of his subconscious mind that he freaks out when he can't help his family. But everyone in your family is NOT your responsibility Dev. Don't lose your identity and individuality due to ANYONE else.
You are absolutely right. It may seem that Ishwari did the most damage to Neha by depriving her from education and neglecting her, but actually she did maximum damage to Dev. His every action is motivated by his family's comfort and happiness. If he thinks that he can't get his family's well-being or happiness, then he takes ruthless steps to ensure that person pays for what he considers his failure. I was almost scared by his obsessive looks today. Howmuch ever annoying it is to see another super-girl Bahu in telly world with shitloads of expectations from her to rectify everything with a magic wand, but still I truly hope Sona would be able to bring that change into them.
I certainly hope so.
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
Bade Achhe Lagte Hain
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