Thanks. I was looking around the forum today for posts berating Dev for treating his sister's husband so rudely just like there were posts on Bijoy asking some very valid questions, but could not find any. It seems that Dev does everything right since he is the hero.
The well of understanding pours over him no matter what he does. And this guy went to give advice to Ranveer on how to treat his wife.
Today Ranveer didn't count Neha as his family when he said that he is fighting for his family's honour just like Dev didn't count Sona as his family when he asked her to stay out of his family's business.
Would he have asked Mamaji or Radha took stay out of it? Or even Ishwari to stay out of Neha's business regardless of how much damage she did?
No, he wouldn't.
Sona could not have done as much damage as Dev did with his arrogance today.
Yet he thinks he is in a position to give advice to others how to maintain a marriage when his own marriage is still standing because Sona gave up on her self-respect for love.
Now Sona is a great girl. But she left her spine in Bose house. She used to walk with her head held high, secure in the knowledge that no matter what decision she take, no matter how many mistakes she makes, she will be loved regardless.
In Dixit house, Sona takes permission before breathing. She needs approval before every step she takes.
In Bose house, she confidently charged her parents for not sharing their trouble with her and boldly took the step through Elena to fix it. Elena was worried about taking the cheque. But Sona was confident that she can make her family understand.
In Dixit house, everyone including her husband expects her to stay out from the inner family circle because if she doesn't, then there are always people ready to blame her for someone else's wrong decision.
I wonder which one you'd call a family?
Sona claims after marriage, Dev's family is hers. But that's all in her head. Not even Dev thinks that as he proved today. Because if he had thought Sona as his family who wants to see Neha happy as much as he does, he'd ask her to help him to make Neha happy whether it's with or without Ranveer.
Sorry Sona, come out of the delusion that you will ever have Bijoy-Asha-Dida relationship in Dixit house.
You didn't choose a man like Bijoy and Dev doesn't have a mother like Dida. So no matter how hard you try to be Asha, you will just face failure and defeat.
Originally posted by: mena_k
What a beautiful story. Thank you 😊
So Dev thought everybody is like Sona who has left her self-respect after accepting Dev's no Ishwari's proposal of marriage with Dev. Oh wait that's what is true love. 😡 Unfortunately for Dev, not everyone is Sona, who will bend to any level to be with her love, mostly because she is a girl who doesn't have to worry about her family responsibilities like Ranveer. Well don't people also love their pet animals because they always listen to you but never argues with you. I guess Dixits want such a scenario around. Sona has certainly turned into one. Sad to know that Sona is guilty of joining her work again. What has happened to Dr. Sonakshi Bose, she doesn't exist anywhere now.
My wish Ranveer to ask the same question to Dev, what If Sona demands the same like Neha do. Since I don't expect Sona to ask this question now. I really don't see how Neha and Ranveer's issue would be solved for all Neha cares is her luxurious life be it from Ranveer or from Dev. She doesn't care about anyone else. Only one person could have pointed and asked all the right questions now to Ishwari and Dev - Bijoy Bose.
Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago