What if the past is much darker? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Deeps.. 🤗 Though you disappointed me 😉by not giving your usual dosage of the episode I am glad that you posted this.. I have lots to say.. But will try to mind my thoughts and pen down limited to keep both of our sanity intact. 😉😆

Given the track record of the CVs I am sure they will bring in some difficult or eerier instances to justify Dev-Ish bond.. And I am sure they had a slight intention on that part to keep this story considered as not any MIL's behavior and making it completely fictional with no actual relevance to any common notion of "why does the MIL behaves this way".. It could be another way to say that every mom-son has some background which makes them behave this way to the new girl coming into their life.. And we have to understand where they come from instead of judging them for their behavior blindly.. Then shouldn't the message also to be passed on that the girl has a different background as well and she shouldn't be judged for whatever she is and be given her due what she's here for?!

I have no problem with the Dixits' having a bad past and the darker it was the better it is for them.. Because they have every right to be what they are in their present as they have their own reasons justifying their behavior.. This way everyone can sympathize with their emotional outburst and not accuse them..Like, every bad behavior has a reason behind it and we shouldn't prison them just for their act instead should dig through the causes that made them behave that way... And an easy answer "That's what I am and you know it"..

And I agree the blame is entirely on Sona for choosing this family in her adamant love for her love story... I blame none because they are irrelevant to me... Because it's all her fault only her fault to have fallen in this trap in the name of love... And whatever they can show to justify their acts can barely pull out my empathy side for the Dixits'.. Because I am only wanting that justification to be out and done with, without further throwing it again and again on Sona's face making her clueless in all this emotional torture...

I know I shouldn't be asking any questions to Dev, but yeah can't help it. Dev has known that the past has huge impact and they can never move on, then it's highly irresponsible of him to have chosen a life for his future.. He should have accepted that past is where he's gonna live his life and not have chosen a life for himself.. And yeah, love cannot be planned and he tried to give his priorities the best due but his stupid emotions took over him though he didn't want it to.. In that case he also knows the impact of both the emotions on him.. Instead of throwing an attitude to keep him covered up he should be the emotional person that he is and be the puppy at the feet of his women. When it comes to Ishu he shows that emotional person that he is but when it comes to Sona he shows as if he's the strong one with anger. In fact he should be crying in front of Sona day in and day out(like the Dev Devdas) instead of throwing the anger tantrums.. He should be asking her to pamper him like a child that he is and for which Sona assumed a savior role saving him from his tortured childhood.. And be the lost puppy that he was when he almost lost her. In fact it was this act of his which pulled out the last straw for Sona's stupidity.. And made everyone see how emotionally weak she has been.. And no that doesn't hold any justification for her to reason out for her behavior. Because it was her choice and she has to bear it and she can't hold that as her dark past for her future. Nobody asked her to hold on to it. She volunteered for it...

And for Dev, maybe the CVs thought why should he show his emotional weakness to Sona anymore.. He has tied her in the bonds of marriage where will she go now.. She's anyway has no other ways out than to deal with his anger and frustration whenever she doesn't heed to his whims and fancies...😆

Hi, Thank you for making a post and for the warm welcome (couldn't reply on the previous thread).🤗 Bose family scenes are always refreshing, was happy to see how Dev felt at home around them. Papa Bose being sweet was odd for me too but I guess you tend to be cordial and put away your differences for major occasions. The romance to seems forced and unnatural of late.

Yes, the past is way darker than what has been shown so far. Like someone mentioned in the thread both Dev & Ishwari are holding on to some secret albeit different versions of the same incident and Khatri is the key to unlock it. Dev's behavior with Sona is still a puzzle to me, safe to say just confuses me. I am not as insightful of human behavior as some of you here.

And honestly I am now getting impatient with both Dev's and Sona's characters and the story just doesn't seem to be moving forward. All we seem to get in the episodes is more and more of Ish's insecurity, Dev-Sona fights and patch ups with no learning or growth in relationship. Neha's story is on hold. The pace sometimes is at lightening speed with so much happening at once and sometimes it is such a drag.

All said, I am still curious to see how the CVs develop the plot and sensibly tie in all the lose ends together. I must say that the makers atleast have not deviated heavily from their initial vision, they have definitely tweaked some bits. For this we must appreciate this team.