What if the past is much darker? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Silambu

Your post was negative yesterday? really? , I didnt feel it at all. Its probably the way you have written it with the right approach and wordings. I have said a few times, you dont come across as an aggressive writer and judgemental ...you have your ways to put the words nicely even for a bad episode. So no worries my dear...all is well.

Yes you are right...I didnt like yesterday episode that much.! Let me tell you something else also, I am not someone who can be easily discouraged from watching a show and just reading a written update to avoid watching the show. When I pack up...i leave for good. There is no turning back. So Yes, I stilll and will watch KRPKAB till its last episode even how crappy it gets. Its still much better than those shows fitting the animal planet category and massive kidnappings among family and friends. I would NEVER trade our show for anything else.

Now coming back to the episode...was disappointed by the patch up which could have been more intense and passionate.

I dont like this Sona playing cry wolf...scaring Dev with " Look, here's your mom" ," Look here's your uncle"...whenever Dev gets closer to her...its getting on my nerve as we are not watching two teenagers stolen moments of love when mummy and daddy are not at home.! For god sake...the writers have to stop this look out nonsense.

I have nothing to say about the watering plants...scene..they are plastic and wonder why she is watering them? Your hubby is here and on one is at home...at least sit on his lap and stroke his hair instead of doing some mundane tasks...watering the plants? And another thing...why dont they close that bloody door!

And Nikki , incredible! She just just slept on their bed? I credited her with more intelligence but she proved what a waste of time it was...I am really upset by the CVs of showing such scenes just to prolong the SR on another day...cant they come up with something else...? I am sure, next will be bhola bhaiya lying on their bed for an afternoon siesta and later joined by Kicchu to keep company at night!

The only thing I enjoyed was the dinner in the Bose family...everything else was making me just angry...

As for his dark past...seriously I have no idea...I think there is a certain mystery to it...maybe he is not Iswari's real son or probably Iswari has been moonlighting to supplement her monthly income and that's where she met Khatri and he is blackmailing her...or Khatri is the real father of Dev and she stole him when he was a baby?

See, how stupid my mind goes after watching an episode of Devakshi without any intimacy...really dry spell and feel like I am in Sahara dessert!

Let me tell you what's going to happen today secret date...NOTHING. ! They will still come back with your virginity still intact! and worst they wont even kiss. It will be kiss no. 4 head kiss!

Seriously one books a resort to have dinner...for romance? Well I hope the CVs prove us wrong!

Sorry...I am more frustrated then Devakshi...they need to do the ultimate deed without prolonging the matter...

As usual I liked the post. I like to come here and write stuffs as I feel we are all connected here and still well wishers for the show despite some flaws in the episode

Thank you for the post...my dear...its ok once in a while not to like an episode..That's life!

Originally posted by: deepsel

Today's episode pissed me off so much that I decided to not post any analysis and stay away for the sanity of forum and myself. Every scene felt disconnected and sorry I don't even want to talk about Devakshi scenes ( thats the patch up and romance you can come up with CVs? seriously? who stands two inch apart watering plants when you have craved to be in each other arms for 10 freaking days?) .. My only respite is Bose family dinner which made me smile even though Bijoy's sudden sweetness towards Dev was abrupt. Felt like whole episode missed something and I felt terrible. No this post is not to rant about towards episode..so read on😆

Like everytime when am not ok with an episode, will watch earlier episodes to make myself consoled that good days are not over and they are yet to come. Today too the episodes were going on in background while I was deep in my work and after a while Ishwari-Khatri scene came and suddenly something popped and I felt an immediate sense of relief finding a path of light to today's episode. I don't know if CVs are going to take this way or anyone else in forum thought about this but this made some sense to Dev's weird behavior today.

What if Dev's past hold much darker secrets than we all can perceive? What if this is not entirely about poverty at all? What if both Mother and Son holding some darker secrets from each other scared that it might hurt each other? What if Ishwari's insecurity didn't stem just from her husband's demise?

Let me try to put words to my thoughts . While watching Khatri scenes it was obvious he was blackmailing Ishwari about some terrible past which might shake the very foundation of her relationship with Dev. This has to be definitely more than verbal or financial abuse..am dreading something to do with physical and emotional abuse which obviously Ishwari doesn't want her Son to know. There could have been some incident where Ishwari was saved by Dev knowingly / unknowingly and that formed a deep bond with her son because obviously you hold the person who protects your honor more than your life and so does Ishwari. In course of time that gratitute have turned into some unexplainable obsessive insecurity which may explain Ishwari's behavior now !!

Coming to Dev, we have seen him threatening Khatri too to not come near his mother and also during Sona's accident he mentioned an incident of how he became a man from a boy after watching her Mom carrying knife to protect from vicious creatures. All these strongly indicate some physical abuse which is hidden deep inside him. What if Dev knows something which his mother wanted to keep hidden from him? What if he had witnessed his mother's pain when she was crying secretly? Basically Ishwari doesn't know her son knows whatever the secret she thinks which should be hidden!! Also what if Mamaji's helping hand came at that atrocious time and made them forever indebted to him and his family?

This scenario totally explains Dev's extreme protectiveness towards his Mom not letting even an ounce of hurt for her because he knows she has seen the worst and now deserve only best. This also explains Dev's hesitance to disclose his past to Sona even after her multiple tries..who will want to share something about their mother which may tarnish her image?..

Also I feel Dev sees Sona as another Ishwari , another very important woman of his life, who should be protected from all sufferings even if it means keeping a secret from her (infertility report?) but can be taken for granted because of his same possessive love he have for his Mom ( I guess Dev's possessiveness for his Mom have surfaced slightly in today's episode) So basically Sona = Ishwari for Dev except the romantic intentions !!

We can argue why punish Sona for his past? Absolutely correct its totally unfair...but if you ask me, if I had such a terrible past and when even my loved one try to open it, I will build up a even bigger wall in front of me and stay away..until I can completely trust them to open up my secrets. So basically Sona have not earned that trust yet for Dev or atleast he thinks so or not comfortable enough to open up entirely thats bothering him..it sure will take time..but if there is one person he will eventually share about it..that will be definitely Mrs. Sonakshi Bose Dixit 😊!!

Now being in Sona's place, I will be totally confused and sad that Dev hasn't trusted me enough to share his scars ...but I also knew I married a man who himself said many times he is a difficult man to deal with and I also know he loves me deeply. By looking at Sona after marriage, she looks like a girl who is willing to give time to understand this relationship and will be there by Dev's side when he needs her because she equally loves him too to let go of him so easily😳!!

This is strictly my imaginary POV which came up trying to make sense of today's episode😆..so feel free to critic , add, counterpoint but please all in healthy manner😳.

P.S:

Since as you all know I don't make posts on Thurs and Fridays, people who wish to have healthy discussions about the episodes can use this place without any hesitation and I will peep in with comments whenever possible. Thank you @yyy for letting me know the importance of my posts😳 and others who tried to cheer me up after my message in last post. Very very kind and sweet of you all !!🤗

After the massive support to my prev " not so positive post" you guys just reassured my faith in this forum I had initially, that difference of opinions are always welcomed here if pointed reasonably.. Thank you all whole heartedly !!❤️

Originally posted by: baijubavra

After watching today's episode, i felt exacyly the same. I made a similar post as well. It loks like Dev and Ish have an ugly past beyond what has been told about their poverty so far. Dev loves Sona and wants to protect her from this ugly truth and becomes rude when she asks about it. I don't think Dev is going to hate Ishu once Khtari brings it up because Ish must have done big sacrifice for Dev. Thnk once it opens up they will become one unit.