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Agree with you completely. I don't see a point of lying where lying is not required. Here a lie is way more harmful than truth. So hard to justify lying at that situation.
Dev always lied very smoothly. He always took the easy way out from any confrontation with reality. But this is not a small white lie.
I was seeing Sonakshi today and was thinking that how proud Bijoy and Asha was that they gave her a good upbringing and they always taught her to stand up for her rights. Today, to get the right of her husband, she is lying to her mother-in-law. At least if she had told the truth and Ishwari had denied, she could have asked why and got some grasp of the situation. But here, she is falling in everyone's estimation and this time it's her fault.
I don't expect a woman to be Mother Teresa. But I expect a strong woman to take their rights without resorting to manipulation and lies. It's again a matter of self-respect. No woman of integrity and self-respect would lie to take their rightful place.
Because people lie when they do something sordid or wrong. When Sona lied before marriage to spend time with Dev, no one knew about their relationship. But now they are legally married. By lying to Ishwari, she turned her own time with her husband into as sordid and shameful as an extra-marital affair. And that's how they will feel when they come back and Ishwari confronts them.
Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun
Everyday I comment on the episodes once I watch it after going back home from work. But today's episode and precap seemed more on facts and incidents and less on emotions, so I will comment now itself.
My perception of Honesty closely lies in alignment with what Krishna from Mahabharata practices. I can't say I blindly follow the Great Yudishthira and never lie. But I believe that to practice own version of honestry, everyone becomes the follower of their own judgement and that judgement grows from your education, influence from your surroundings and above all, the lessons learnt in the greatest journey of all called life. And here is my question. I am seeing 2 educated individuals resorting to hidings and lies for situations where there are 100 ways to avoid that.Dev not telling Sonakshi the truth about her medical reports - First of all, Sonakshi is a doctor herself, if any complications she is in better position to come up with resolutions for this painful scenario. Secondly, what is the end result of such lies and hiding ? One day he HAS to tell Sonakshi right ? Then why not now ? It's not like this is some permanent solution and your ultimate goal to save her from pain is going to be fulfilled anyways. Sometimes we DO resort to lies from old people but the target is never to let them know, not for some temporary pleasure. Hiding stuff should not be taken as the first option to pursue. I absolutely LOATHE this. Neither logic, nor intention can explain me the reason.Sona lying to Ishwari to go to a date with Dev - REALLY ? 😳 The same Sonakshi who always faced an inner battle and finally used to go for direct confrontation and showdowns instead of lying to someone is now choosing this as a good option ? The last time she lied it went really well (Making food for Dadi Bua) and this is why I say lying shouldn't be encouraged. It has a tendency to get inspired from 1 successful save rather than retrospecting about 1000 other disasters. Anyways, Sona is going down to Dixit's level and I had been repeating myself about that since long now. 😊 Instead of sticking to her basic characteristics and being truthful to Ishwari about going to a date with Dev (which she knows is no crime or bad), she chose to lie. And what can I say about the teacher - Ishwari, will she be pleased when Sonakshi would explain to her that she did it to avoid problems like Ishwari taught her to during Dadi Bua incident. One must know how it feels to be in the receiving end of deceit and lies.I have some concerns about Dev's promises and words in the episode as well, will post that in separate comment.
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