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Today, CVs thrown in romanticism in the form of a solid lesson...
Take note: Truth is hurtful and harmful. So if you love someone, hide truth from them. That is the new standard of love. That will make them temporarily happy (until the truth comes out) and feel very much appreciated and honoured to be recipient of lies. After all who doesn't want to be lied to? And just to sweeten the deal, throw in some superhero feel because honesty is overrated!!!
Excuse me, CVs. No adult needs protection from truth specially if it's relevant to them. If a person stands up for their love when they are falsely accused or insulted at no fault of their own, that is more than enough.
Instead you show a hero, standing silent when his wife is called names and while showing his attempt to save her from "harm" by hiding her own medical report as if by hiding it will make the truth go away instead of telling her the truth and support her when she is in pain.
And you show a heroine who lies to her mother-in-law to go on a date with her own husband as if she is doing something wrong instead of taking her right as a wife.
A strong woman doesn't lie to get her rights, she just takes it. To spend time with her husband, no woman needs someone else's permission. Yes, she may inform due to courtesy, but that's it. Obviously concept of equality is beyond you.
What delusional world do you think we live in?
You think a husband and wife is justified by lying to each other or others in the name of saving them from hurt? Do you think they won't be hurt when the truth comes out? And what character stamp would you put on the main leads of your show? In plain speak, a couple of liers.
Intention doesn't always justify the means. If it did, then everyone who wants to earn a degree by cheating so that they can support their family will get credit for good intention. But instead they are suspended.
CVs when I was demanding Dev to protect Sona, I meant protection against insults and humiliation. No adult needs protection from truth, no matter how bitter or painful it is.
And when I was asking you to portray a strong woman, I meant to show a woman who demands her right, not lies to get it as if going out with her husband is a crime.
By the way, this was also the woman who never hesitated from telling the truth and stood up to Ishwari to show her the mirror after break up. Now you made her into Ishwari Part 2, who lies and cheats to get her own way even when she should not be ashamed of what she is trying to do. (Once during cooking challenge and again today).
Ishwari is a great mother-in-law. Only in few days she has succesfully turned an honest Bose into a deceitful Dixit belying the 25 years of solid upbringing.
You know the saying. You are what your company is. If you hang out with good people, you become a better person and if you hang out with liers and cheaters, your character becomes the same as them.
Thankfully, I have excellent company here.
I am frustrated, disappointed and totally fed up with this show, but never with my group of strong, independent ladies. Hence I made this post.
Feel free to treat this as your no-holds-barred zone.
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