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Posted: 8 years ago
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No dear i didnt mean sex .. I meant Just talking..he gave her space and i appreciate it.. Sometimes all a person needs is space to think clearly.. They dont need others inputs or help. I will read rest and respond.. But wanted to get this out before you start questioning what kind of person i am. Lol

Ok i think you can never understand what i am trying to say.. May be i am not saying it right...
For me the situatiOns are very similar may be 19-20 ka farak... But they r all comparable...

You say sona didnt have a choice and she assumed dev will say yes and she took the decision.. She talked to dev that night and also the morning - she couldnt find a moment to explain it to dev what happened.. Tell how she didnt have a choice as she got to know later...but she did chose to say "mein apne decisions koyi button dabake nahi leti" that was very rude that meant dev is nothing to her . She could have said i didnt have a choice and explained it to him but you cant deny that she gave a rude reply when dev asked she didnt feel it was a decision both should make.. For me no matter what you say and how you explain it was sonas fault - first she took unilateral decision for what ever reasons and then she treated dev like nothing when he questioned her twice.. Is this what she thinks.. But dev still apologized that day..

Now all dev is thibking is if sona can take independent decision so can he .. For what ever reasons and what ever the situation is...and also sona can clearly see that dev was forced to do somethibg against his will and he is very hurt . He needs sonas support not questionibg at this point.. I am not saying his expectations are correct.. But i am sure that is what he is thibkibg and why he bahaved the way he did today...

He is the one more hurt and he is the one whonis not getting any love and care from his wife. All wife is worried about is making right decisions.. So he is behaving like one hurt kid who doesnt have anyone who will love him unconditionally and not judge him.

So he is expecting sona to talk to him with a different approach rather than in a blaming tone.. He is not looking for her to apologize...he just wants her to show that she cares and she supports him even if she doesnt approve what he did..

Everyones life is different relationships are not all about 50-50 .. Yes chores can be split 50-50 . Some times even if i am at fault and i have said mean thibgs just becuase i was more hurt (mostly becuase family was the reason for the fight) in a certain situation i would expect my husband to take the first initiative to resolve the fight and vice versa

in other cases who ever is at fault initiates the comversation and apolozizes.
Anywyas lets just agree to disagree..



Edited by dlavanya - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#82
Considering most of us are married and we can see that just tells you that there are actually good husbands out there and Dev Dixit is failing in comparison to reality that everyone keeps using as an excuse to justify his behaviour. Now there are bad husbands too. But do you want to see a so-called hero to mimic their behaviour or that of decent husbands?

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

I just now got done with the episode..

I have no words for Dev Dixit..

He is the MOST moronic husband I have ever seen in television or read in Novels..

At least the negative characters have a point that they are negative so no expectations..

Dev Dixit is the most worthless and pathetic husband one can ever have..

I dont know what to say..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Oh no Pehchaan kaun..you simply shot down my wonderful predictions what would I do now..I was trying to avoid losing my sanity now I have to find something else to keep me sane😆

Sorry pomegranate I broke my own rule of hibernation.

@tia what is this with your thread that keep making me come back!...now I am really losing it..I think I will go and watch 'you have got mail ' on Tv that always picks me up
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Posted: 8 years ago
#84
Thank you. Only a wife will understand that in a joint family when a man sleeps in the living room where anyone can see him, what a big insult it is to a wife and how big a humiliation for their private fights to be aired in front of others. Unfortunately it's not possible to explain this to unmarried women.

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

The show has become so negative nowadays site I don't watch and hence don't post. I hate making conjectures on the basis of written updates.

But yesterday I tried to watch and came across the lovely scene of Dev popped on the sofa. There can be no better and effective way for a husband to humiliate his wife in front of his family. This will immediately make her the laughing stock of every one and would be thrown at her face for years to come. And Sonakshi instead of being mad at him for such a severe transgression was molly codling him!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thanks for clarifying. I had read posts to that kind where people were blaming Sona for not sleeping with Dev and denying him husband's right after being insulted all day on her wedding day. Just wanted to make sure you were not one of them.

Originally posted by: dlavanya

No dear i didnt mean sex .. I meant Just talking..he gave her space and i appreciate it.. Sometimes all a person needs is space to think clearly.. They dont need others inputs or help. I will read rest and respond.. But wanted to get this out before you start questioning what kind of person i am. Lol

Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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All very valid points. But didn't you know since he is a man, just a sulking glance is enough to convey a wealth of feelings? Who needs words when you have smouldering glances... Women on the other hand needs to know when to stroke ego and when to keep their mouth shut.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun


😆 So you mean soon we are going to have both Dev and Ishwari pay a visit to psychiatrist *Monisha Sarabhai screaming from roof top 'ek ke saath ek free free free' 😆*


I dont know what this man or manchild is. I never hated anyone more than Anurag in television world. But Anurag Basu in front of Dev Dixit is like a DREAM-MAN ⭐️

The hypocrite Dev was SO attentive and caring when he just thought that something was bothering Ishwari today.. 'What Maa what were you thinking any problem?' And for Sona, he is not just AWARE, but knows about her hurt or their problem, but NO concern for Sona. Elena has to remind Sona about joining back to her job, wasn't it supposed to be a concern for Dev Dixit too ? I will never get how Sona forgot about her own job , but when you are going to office everyday leaving behind a silent hurt Sona at home, ain't you worried for her that how she would spend her whole day in such bad mood ? You shout at Tina and everyone around you to vent out your frustration. What would you do if Sona shouts at Niki, Neha and Rhea or even Ishwari out of frustration ? Isn't it your responsibility to think about her activities of whole day even while fighting ? That if she feels OK in that house, that asking Maa to take a bit care for her ? Something which Sona did today even thought she is equally in this fight (packing your tiffin).. Agree you didn't give consent for this Vrat neither did Sona ask you before keeping this fast, but now that she is doing it, isn't it a duty of a regular husband to have a check on her health during this period ? To think that she should be mentally jolly and healthy so that her body can take this unnatural stress ? Isn't it your responsibility to ask your wife how her day was at YOUR home ? Is Dev even AWARE of any such responsibility which comes along with marriage. Sorry to say Dev, but marriage is not just Sex ! You are indeed coming across as a horny moron which is getting frustrated day by day unless he gets what he wants ! 🥱


If I start listing down all of Dev Dixit's moronic attitude towards Sonakshi, pages will blast 😕 Amidst all this, a sulking face Sona is roaming around her in-laws and feeding them, an existence limited to that, not welcomed in discussions, not being asked for suggestions, not being asked about her welfares and day-to-day activities.. The moment I start feel bad for Sonakshi, she does something which puts me off so much that I come to the conclusion that she deserves this 😕. Making food for everyone in such unwelcoming home instead of joining her job is something which would never go into my head, and honestly, I dont want to understand that either I am very happy with my self-respect and ego (if you call it so), agree my husband is troubled by it a lot at times, but at the end of the day I can say I share a very healthy married life with my spouse. 😃

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Posted: 8 years ago
#87
Before I go to bed, I will leave you guys with some thoughts.


A boy asked his mom, Mom, how do I find the right woman? The mother said, Forget about finding the right woman. Concentrate on being the right man.


A strong man can handle a strong woman. A weak man will say she has an attitude.

Someone shared them in my FB post.


Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

<font color="#333399" size="3">Thanks for clarifying. I had read posts to that kind where people were blaming Sona for not sleeping with Dev and denying him husband's right after being insulted all day on her wedding day. Just wanted to make sure you were not one of them.</font>




No i am not. I have updated my response
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Before I leave for the night I want to leave with a happy note. I just chanced on a video on You tube titled Devakshi A tribute to Sonakshi Bose using Amitabh bachans voice I think and words from pink the movie a beautiful , beautiful VM don't know who made it but such a powerful one kudos to the maker Rafida is the name of the maker I think a must watch 👏
Edited by gemini54 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Poor Dev was waiting all day for Sonakshi's phone call at work & vice versa.Dev cares for Sonakshi & misses her when he comes home. He was eagerly waiting to spend time with her.Dev's expressions and feelings were awesome, wonderful, & simply superb.👏
They both love each other very much and that is the true meaning of love. Sonakshi is such a sweetie that she packed lunch for Dev, and her eye expressions were too good asking him to take lunch.

In Joint Families, misunderstandings are common & Sonakshi was not liked by some of the family members. But, When love exists between husband and wife, all misunderstandings will get wiped away.

Wonderful Action by Dev and Sonakshi.👏

I hope KRPKAB storyline will be good. 😊


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