Is Dev really that Wrong ? or Should Sona change her approach ? - Page 5

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Nice rant and apt too.. Agree to all.. Sometimes it is difficult to understand Ishwari's motives.. but yes i do see this could be a reason why she is desperate to share the company with mamaji's son as her Thank you for all he has done for her. and her family... I hope she stops here ..dont keep on doing emotional atyachar on Dev for every single thing..

i agree with ur every word...i hv also made a post which u can read and comment...

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

Okay, last post, I promise! 😆

Just to clarify, more than a thank-you to mamaji, I think Ishwari feels like, how can I enjoy all this wealth on a clear conscience when my own brother, who saved my family in the worst of times, is living in a small house and struggling for small luxuries? How can I let his family's future hang in the balance when I have the power to ensure it?

It's a different story that Mamaji is perfectly happy with his self-made, middle-class life. Who even cares what he wants? 🤔

I wonder where her wonderful conscience is🤔 when she literally is pressure cooking Dev for all these years...

All ishwari cares about is recruiting more devotees for herself... I tell you .. nothing else... she constantly needs her daily dose of " Jijii tum ye ho tum woh ho " " maa tu bhagwaan ho"... " Ishwari Dev tujhe poojta hai " etc ...
She doesnt really care about anyone... Her motto is life is all "I, ME, MYSELF"

Originally posted by: AfiChanAC_CA

Absolutely love u for this post!!🤗

Thank you dear🤗

Originally posted by: dlavanya

I can see Sona is trying to be everywhere and solve all the problems in Dev's life.
The other day when Dev was thinking of making VIcky Sales manager, sona said i should not talk about your company matters... DEv said it is our company and she has right to suggest.
Ultimately it is Dev's decision on who he appoints in what position. Sona can only give her opinion.

Dev understood Sona's POV and he appointed Vicky as trainee... and the whole mahabharat started...
I am glad that Dev stuck to his decision that - it is the right decision and Vicky needs to learn before he can lead ...He even gave Riya's example.

But then the awful and difficult past of Dixit family and how mamaji helped ... when Ishwari reminded him all this ... all of a sudden 1000 lbs has been put on Dev's heart...
The continuous rant that He is ignoring old relationships because of the new ones... Dev is so guilty at this point even if he is not wrong... there is no way out.
When he gets to him room, Sona already knows all about the Mamaji ehsaan and ishwari putting pressure on Dev... at this point ... he asked her to give him some space... she should have listened.. Honestly everyone needs space to think and when the person asks for space -- you just give them that... and then discuss the matter later when things cool down...

Didnt Dev give her time and space when Sona was mad on their first night... so why cant sona do the same and give him the space he asked for ...
Even after he told she wont understand his difficult past... she kept on trying to talk to him again...He lashed at her and left... because she is not getting the point of "given me space"

Had it been a normal family like Sona's and had Dev not seen such a difficult childhood, the logic applies and one can take a sane and logical decision... but when you are under such "ehsaan pressure" and constant rant of " don't ignore old relationships because of new ones"
The state of mind will be completely different...

My suggestion to Sona is to - suggest, help only if asked.

I am saying this not because Sona is the woman and Dev is the man... even if the roles are reversed if one of the partner asks for some time and space then you just give him/her that..what ever discussion you want to have, have it once the person is willing to have a discussion..

Also her conv with vicky... she telling him that she will not let vicky take advantage of Dev's goodness and will not let him harm him --- again please girl how the hell are you going to do this? are you going to Join Dev's company ?? please dont act like a super woman ... you cant solve all the problems... Dev is a big man and he can handle his company on his own... and just be there to morally support your husband incase there are any issues... Please dont take all the problems on to yourself and act like a super woman.

Also in the precap, Sona was questioning him... how he can change his decision with out asking her ... Now why is she trying to turn in to Ishwari... It is Dev's decision let him decide what he wants to do... you can just give your POV and suggestions ... Dev is not insisting that he will help you prepare diet chart for your patients.

All I can see is Sona fighting with an already depressed Dev ... is this how you help your partner ? didnt she say she cant approve all his decisions but will always support him ?? why is she fighting and questioning now ? especially when she knows why Dev had to change his decision ??

Sorry for long rant... but i believe the husband and wife should support each other instead of lashing out on the person who errs with out knowing what they are going thru...

U said it all girl! I agree with u completely!!'
Sona is overacting in today's episode actually u know what she was very inquisitive even before marriage
Trying to involve in everything whether it was Neha's issues for not letting Dev help her family ...
sona should have shown some patience today

I agree!
Yes there should never be lack of communication between a couple but today, Dev deserved space at least for sometime. His reaction was not good, not bad but real. Sona was not wrong but she was trying, like a wife should do but she did not understand that the time was not right. Dev was under family pressure, the same family for whom he has struggled all his life and also the same family who accepted his and Sona's relation as well (terms and conditions apply, which he is not aware of) and so he was not able to think beyond that and as far as his decision is concerned, I expect the makers to show Vicky does not deserve that job at all!
Looking forward to DevAkshi's scene tomorrow.

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Ofcourse Dev gets all the taunts from bijoy... Sona didnt come to rescue him ... dev did it himself...
Similary... Sona is not some unpad gawar who cant stand up for heerself and needs Dev to support her... She can do it all by herself too...

Originally posted by: viji2111

why aren't they bothered about their honeymoon??

both losing interest just like us 😆 ishwari wont let them!

Originally posted by: methebest

Confused? No one asked for support for Sona. She can do it herself! She is a strong woman, but when she looses it, it becomes unacceptable thats a problem. She should be allowed to make mistakes too! Howmany times Bijoy gets to tell Dev? HOwever Sona takes non stop crap from his family!!

She didnt lose it today.. She was pestering him to open up when he asked for space... Two diff things..

Sona lost it when she tld dev abt her fast... She said mujhe apni decision kisiko poochke leneki aadat nahi hai... No one bashed her for that.(even though it was her ego talking there). She was wrong there but we understand she is human and can err.. So can dev ..all i am saying is d v is not very wrong today and sona is not a saint either.

When she could take a unilateral decision of keeping vrat then she has no right to complain aboutdev changing his decision with out asking her

Originally posted by: methebest

Confused? No one asked for support for Sona. She can do it herself! She is a strong woman, but when she looses it, it becomes unacceptable thats a problem. She should be allowed to make mistakes too! Howmany times Bijoy gets to tell Dev? HOwever Sona takes non stop crap from his family!!

bijoy asked a valid question, dev responded.. case closed. but sona's torture is never ending 24/7. she stands upto all xpt ishwari.. and thats where I am disappointed in her character 😡