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I can see Sona is trying to be everywhere and solve all the problems in Dev's life.
The other day when Dev was thinking of making VIcky Sales manager, sona said i should not talk about your company matters... DEv said it is our company and she has right to suggest.
Ultimately it is Dev's decision on who he appoints in what position. Sona can only give her opinion.
Dev understood Sona's POV and he appointed Vicky as trainee... and the whole mahabharat started...
I am glad that Dev stuck to his decision that - it is the right decision and Vicky needs to learn before he can lead ...He even gave Riya's example.
But then the awful and difficult past of Dixit family and how mamaji helped ... when Ishwari reminded him all this ... all of a sudden 1000 lbs has been put on Dev's heart...
The continuous rant that He is ignoring old relationships because of the new ones... Dev is so guilty at this point even if he is not wrong... there is no way out.
When he gets to him room, Sona already knows all about the Mamaji ehsaan and ishwari putting pressure on Dev... at this point ... he asked her to give him some space... she should have listened.. Honestly everyone needs space to think and when the person asks for space -- you just give them that... and then discuss the matter later when things cool down...
Didnt Dev give her time and space when Sona was mad on their first night... so why cant sona do the same and give him the space he asked for ...
Even after he told she wont understand his difficult past... she kept on trying to talk to him again...He lashed at her and left... because she is not getting the point of "given me space"
Had it been a normal family like Sona's and had Dev not seen such a difficult childhood, the logic applies and one can take a sane and logical decision... but when you are under such "ehsaan pressure" and constant rant of " don't ignore old relationships because of new ones"
The state of mind will be completely different...
My suggestion to Sona is to - suggest, help only if asked.
I am saying this not because Sona is the woman and Dev is the man... even if the roles are reversed if one of the partner asks for some time and space then you just give him/her that..what ever discussion you want to have, have it once the person is willing to have a discussion..
Also her conv with vicky... she telling him that she will not let vicky take advantage of Dev's goodness and will not let him harm him --- again please girl how the hell are you going to do this? are you going to Join Dev's company ?? please dont act like a super woman ... you cant solve all the problems... Dev is a big man and he can handle his company on his own... and just be there to morally support your husband incase there are any issues... Please dont take all the problems on to yourself and act like a super woman.
Also in the precap, Sona was questioning him... how he can change his decision with out asking her ... Now why is she trying to turn in to Ishwari... It is Dev's decision let him decide what he wants to do... you can just give your POV and suggestions ... Dev is not insisting that he will help you prepare diet chart for your patients.
All I can see is Sona fighting with an already depressed Dev ... is this how you help your partner ? didnt she say she cant approve all his decisions but will always support him ?? why is she fighting and questioning now ? especially when she knows why Dev had to change his decision ??
Sorry for long rant... but i believe the husband and wife should support each other instead of lashing out on the person who errs with out knowing what they are going thru...
The other day when Dev was thinking of making VIcky Sales manager, sona said i should not talk about your company matters... DEv said it is our company and she has right to suggest.
Ultimately it is Dev's decision on who he appoints in what position. Sona can only give her opinion.
Dev understood Sona's POV and he appointed Vicky as trainee... and the whole mahabharat started...
I am glad that Dev stuck to his decision that - it is the right decision and Vicky needs to learn before he can lead ...He even gave Riya's example.
But then the awful and difficult past of Dixit family and how mamaji helped ... when Ishwari reminded him all this ... all of a sudden 1000 lbs has been put on Dev's heart...
The continuous rant that He is ignoring old relationships because of the new ones... Dev is so guilty at this point even if he is not wrong... there is no way out.
When he gets to him room, Sona already knows all about the Mamaji ehsaan and ishwari putting pressure on Dev... at this point ... he asked her to give him some space... she should have listened.. Honestly everyone needs space to think and when the person asks for space -- you just give them that... and then discuss the matter later when things cool down...
Didnt Dev give her time and space when Sona was mad on their first night... so why cant sona do the same and give him the space he asked for ...
Even after he told she wont understand his difficult past... she kept on trying to talk to him again...He lashed at her and left... because she is not getting the point of "given me space"
Had it been a normal family like Sona's and had Dev not seen such a difficult childhood, the logic applies and one can take a sane and logical decision... but when you are under such "ehsaan pressure" and constant rant of " don't ignore old relationships because of new ones"
The state of mind will be completely different...
My suggestion to Sona is to - suggest, help only if asked.
I am saying this not because Sona is the woman and Dev is the man... even if the roles are reversed if one of the partner asks for some time and space then you just give him/her that..what ever discussion you want to have, have it once the person is willing to have a discussion..
Also her conv with vicky... she telling him that she will not let vicky take advantage of Dev's goodness and will not let him harm him --- again please girl how the hell are you going to do this? are you going to Join Dev's company ?? please dont act like a super woman ... you cant solve all the problems... Dev is a big man and he can handle his company on his own... and just be there to morally support your husband incase there are any issues... Please dont take all the problems on to yourself and act like a super woman.
Also in the precap, Sona was questioning him... how he can change his decision with out asking her ... Now why is she trying to turn in to Ishwari... It is Dev's decision let him decide what he wants to do... you can just give your POV and suggestions ... Dev is not insisting that he will help you prepare diet chart for your patients.
All I can see is Sona fighting with an already depressed Dev ... is this how you help your partner ? didnt she say she cant approve all his decisions but will always support him ?? why is she fighting and questioning now ? especially when she knows why Dev had to change his decision ??
Sorry for long rant... but i believe the husband and wife should support each other instead of lashing out on the person who errs with out knowing what they are going thru...
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