Watching my real life story - Page 2

Originally posted by: srilotus

Another post on same topic...copy pasting the my comment

Nice post...I can understand as my elder and only sister went thru all those hardships.

But it was completely different with me.I got married at the age of 23 and its been 8 yrs now.We have a daughter.Before marriage my father clearly told my in laws that i dont know cooking n all ,we r kayasthas from different faith where we dont fast ,dont touch feet,dont even know about karwa chauth ...list is quite long. And my in laws never had any problem with all that.I got married within 5 days...got engaged on 6th ,married publicly on 11th...mine was an arranged marriage...marriage se pehle maine apne wud be ko dekha tha ,baat nahi ki thi...My in laws never impose their traditions on me...it was my decision to learn cooking,fasting,touching feet of elders.Even today, i use to call my MIL ki mujhe KC ke fast ka tareeka batao...main har saal bhool jati hun...

According to me ,trust matters the most,saath raho yaa alag...give n take ke bina koi relationship nahi chal sakti...door rah ke bhi shaadiyan tooti hain...

after only 2 months of my marriage ,my mother passed away...but my in laws r very supportive...my mil is the sweetest...my sil treats me like her own daughter...i m the youngest in my inlaws family .jab mujhe girl child hui, my in laws pagal se ho gaye...they were celebrating ,sweets baant rahe the ...pooja ,hawan pata nahi kya kya...actually humari family mein girl 21 years baad hui thi.

That's the reason,main saas bahu drama nahi jhel sakti...jab mere saath aisa hua hi nahi to main kyon yeh rubbish dekhu...

this is my side of story...

Originally posted by: srilotus

Another post on same topic...copy pasting the my comment

Nice post...I can understand as my elder and only sister went thru all those hardships.

But it was completely different with me.I got married at the age of 23 and its been 8 yrs now.We have a daughter.Before marriage my father clearly told my in laws that i dont know cooking n all ,we r kayasthas from different faith where we dont fast ,dont touch feet,dont even know about karwa chauth ...list is quite long. And my in laws never had any problem with all that.I got married within 5 days...got engaged on 6th ,married publicly on 11th...mine was an arranged marriage...marriage se pehle maine apne wud be ko dekha tha ,baat nahi ki thi...My in laws never impose their traditions on me...it was my decision to learn cooking,fasting,touching feet of elders.Even today, i use to call my MIL ki mujhe KC ke fast ka tareeka batao...main har saal bhool jati hun...

According to me ,trust matters the most,saath raho yaa alag...give n take ke bina koi relationship nahi chal sakti...door rah ke bhi shaadiyan tooti hain...

after only 2 months of my marriage ,my mother passed away...but my in laws r very supportive...my mil is the sweetest...my sil treats me like her own daughter...i m the youngest in my inlaws family .jab mujhe girl child hui, my in laws pagal se ho gaye...they were celebrating ,sweets baant rahe the ...pooja ,hawan pata nahi kya kya...actually humari family mein girl 21 years baad hui thi.

That's the reason,main saas bahu drama nahi jhel sakti...jab mere saath aisa hua hi nahi to main kyon yeh rubbish dekhu...

this is my side of story...

Originally posted by: ruchi3179

you are lucky.me also didn't know cooking and my mother had told that .but till now I am being taunted even though I have learnt cooking can cook even better some dishes.but yes I don't enjoy cooking and other household work so much.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

WOW ...thats nice you happen to be on the 10% category...the 90% fall in a different zone..with varying difficulties...but that is life...not same for every one rt...

Originally posted by: Rhy2015

Then I must say u r very Lucky(touch wood)..aur dekhne Ki zaroorat bhi Nahi coz u can not relate bewajh negativity aati hai..

Originally posted by: sandyaramesh

I like to think of myself, as a modern woman who is pretty evolved and independent. But I still can associate with what Sona is going through after years of being married - From being left out of family conversations for years, to running her fingers through her son's hair before the entire family as if he were child while alienating wife, feeding the son (read overfeeding) and talking about family while excluding the wife...it is every Indian woman's worst nightmare...MILs behaviour can be nerve wracking for wives.

But IShwari takes the cake from all MIL's in my onion coz which MIL doesn't want her son to sleep with his new wife? That is ridiculousness.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Ishwari is not normal . She has a psychological issue. I know CV team might treat it only as insecurity ...but according to me its Jocasta complex. She is jealous...and she has sexual jealousy...insecurity is different from this...it doesnt interfere much with physical intimacy betwn the couple.