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Originally posted by: ruchi3179
Warhvhing this show gives me insights of what NY mother in law thinks about me.I mean after 10 years if marriage also myself not a part if the family which consist if she and her sin.till now she never eats food which I cook.I told my husband he told to ignore.but she takes care if house my son cooks everything but I can feel that I am still an outsider.yesterday episode really showing the mirror.
Originally posted by: ruchi3179
Warhvhing this show gives me insights of what NY mother in law thinks about me.I mean after 10 years if marriage also myself not a part if the family which consist if she and her sin.till now she never eats food which I cook.I told my husband he told to ignore.but she takes care if house my son cooks everything but I can feel that I am still an outsider.yesterday episode really showing the mirror.
yes he understand s and that's reason for this marriage to survive.but he has also some type of obsession with his mother.but it has reduced and he could see beyond many things now.my mother in law is something different before him and something different before me.I have learned to ignore all this and very busy in my career job and son.but yes I really feel the lack of independence while at home. That's why I don't watch tv and watch online.because if I saw with her it will be embarrassing.Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
Best advice is given by your husband...Ignore...and its not just you dear ...almost every one , I have literally stopped thinking abt acceptance after the first yr of marriage ...because I felt nothing would change... As log as husband accepts that is fine ...dont think beyond that ...at least he understands and says ignore...there are ppl who will refuse to understand also...so be happy that he is there for you...that is what matters the most !!
Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
Simple...MIL can ONLY be "LIKE " a mother cant be a mother
DIL can ONLY be "LIKE" a daughter cant be a daughter...accept this truth best for you !!If you think you are the only one who feels like this ...no most women do feel the same around the world. Its that the way they express might be different . There are ONLY handful of ppl who share good relationship with in laws and this mostly because they have the least expectations from each other. Also they dont stay together. Just meet up during occasions or when there is a need to.Something that I have learnt is that , never try to change them , it just doesnt help and dont try to change yourself so much that you loose your own identity . Adjustments in life is imp...but not to the extent that your own identity is lost.Sona is trying to do that . It is primarily because she fears that she might loose him again as he would blindly listen to his mom. If they had got married because of his efforts than his mothers , this fear wouldnt have been there for Sona. But now that is not the case so she is trying to impress Ishwari so that she wouldnt loose Dev.We might think all she needs to do is a heart to heart talk with Dev...but reality is he will say that he will be with her always...which she has heard before ...and did he not break that promise? So her thought would be even if he says he wont ..can she trust his words... I dont think on this aspect she trusts Dev. She knows when it comes to Ishwari Dev will blindly support his mom even if she is wrong. She knows for sure , that Dev can disown her again for his mom. I feel the same and that is why that poor girl is trying to please Ishwari.The day she looses this fear , she will start giving it back to her...I pray that day should come , she needs to get some thing from her past to keep Ishwari's mouth shut .For Sona their love is a place of worship and she worships Dev ...her love for him...😭He hasnt understood the depth of her love as she is not that vocal abt it ...😭
you are lucky.me also didn't know cooking and my mother had told that .but till now I am being taunted even though I have learnt cooking can cook even better some dishes.but yes I don't enjoy cooking and other household work so much.Originally posted by: srilotus
Another post on same topic...copy pasting the my comment
Nice post...I can understand as my elder and only sister went thru all those hardships.But it was completely different with me.I got married at the age of 23 and its been 8 yrs now.We have a daughter.Before marriage my father clearly told my in laws that i dont know cooking n all ,we r kayasthas from different faith where we dont fast ,dont touch feet,dont even know about karwa chauth ...list is quite long. And my in laws never had any problem with all that.I got married within 5 days...got engaged on 6th ,married publicly on 11th...mine was an arranged marriage...marriage se pehle maine apne wud be ko dekha tha ,baat nahi ki thi...My in laws never impose their traditions on me...it was my decision to learn cooking,fasting,touching feet of elders.Even today, i use to call my MIL ki mujhe KC ke fast ka tareeka batao...main har saal bhool jati hun...According to me ,trust matters the most,saath raho yaa alag...give n take ke bina koi relationship nahi chal sakti...door rah ke bhi shaadiyan tooti hain...after only 2 months of my marriage ,my mother passed away...but my in laws r very supportive...my mil is the sweetest...my sil treats me like her own daughter...i m the youngest in my inlaws family .jab mujhe girl child hui, my in laws pagal se ho gaye...they were celebrating ,sweets baant rahe the ...pooja ,hawan pata nahi kya kya...actually humari family mein girl 21 years baad hui thi.That's the reason,main saas bahu drama nahi jhel sakti...jab mere saath aisa hua hi nahi to main kyon yeh rubbish dekhu...this is my side of story...
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