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Posted: 8 years ago
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this is so creepy,scary ...not even a soul can guess this is manipulation...
True.All this fake acceptance and sweetness in front of Dev would only make it more difficult for Sona to convince Dev about Ishwari when she does see her true colors.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#32
Plz write something romantic 😆 maybe cvs will steal that idea too
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Tia.. 👏 lovely post!

I think yes.. It's seems like we have someone stalking here as well!

Great going :)

PS: Dev was too sweet today when he entered the Bose house... I want them to talk and discuss what is imp for them first... Forget everyone else, think how their hurting each other...

Your posts are too good 👏 I'm happy if someone from the team is reading your posts 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
#34
I started a TS, but I don't think CVs will steal that idea... Lol... 😆

Originally posted by: Multifandom_Tee

Plz write something romantic 😆 maybe cvs will steal that idea too

Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#35
Dev is trying but as long as he lives in that house, he will always be pulled both ways. He has to create separate living space, even if it's the same house, for his mother and wife.

Originally posted by: amaypranay

Tia.. 👏 lovely post!

I think yes.. It's seems like we have someone stalking here as well!

Great going :)

PS: Dev was too sweet today when he entered the Bose house... I want them to talk and discuss what is imp for them first... Forget everyone else, think how their hurting each other...

Your posts are too good 👏 I'm happy if someone from the team is reading your posts 👏

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Posted: 8 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: tia.o

Dev is trying but as long as he lives in that house, he will always be pulled both ways. He has to create separate living space, even if it's the same house, for his mother and wife.



May be Dev can convert the top floor of the Eshwari Enterprise Office building into an apartment where he and Sona can spend time .. and Sona can join as a nutritionist in Dev's company 😉😉


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Tia bingo ! Victory dance if someone from the creative team is indeed following your posts cuz then the quality of the show would be guaranted
Yes, I am happy Dev has echoed all our emotions in today's episode, that Sona's unilateral decision was indeed harmful for both of them. But the shocking part is Dev himself is such big hypocritic 🤪 In both the breakup case and reports case, he has decided it for both 😆 Anyways, the point is if mistakes and stupidity are returned with the same in a marriage, it indeed breaks 🤔

From each episode, you have pointed out some important aspects and provided the solution in the same post, which CVs have been following, so I request you to also please highlight this MAJOR concern from today's precap or yesterday's episode - burdening one child with too much of responsibility without considering for him wishing to have a normal life. Like this subtle approach of MIL-DIL tension, this is also a much prevailing problem which many of the sons face in a daily basis - sky-high expectations from them, specially from the eldest male child. Ishwari's again and again reminding Dev of his responsibilities, which mind you, he has been fulfilling quite flawlessly, of course is going to cause problems in Devakshi. For Dev it might be usual and in such cases, the boys don't even realize how tired they become of life in much young age, but it's the spouse of the man who has to see her man breaking down under the burden of extra responsibilities of a family without any complaints. It's much painful for the wife to see the whole family taking the man for granted, occasionally offering him rest and sleep which are integral part of a healthy long life. Watching Ishwari everytime reminding Dev of his responsibilities hits my raw nerve since I have seen few of my closest people suffer from this, some of them eventually move out with their immediate family (The son with his wife and kids). Ishwari is indeed one of the worst kind of mother one can ever have. When Dev was against Neha's marriage knowing Neha's nature, Ishwari's long long lecture was the reason he reluctantly gave in, and now that Neha's marriage is in trouble, the same Ishwari is right there to again taunt him for no reason. And then this woman has the guts to say she doesn't hold others responsible for her own mistakes. Who was more than happy with Neha-Ranveer's proposal other than the two involved in it ? How on earth can she poke Dev for it ! Create a mess for Dev and force him to clear it ! I dont know about the original Mahabharata, but the Star Plus version had one line during Panchaali-Paandav wedding track - Person who holds the right to order, doesn't have the right to be ignorant. It is more than valid in this case. Ishwari wants to have all the powerful rights with her, but it's time to take responsibility or to be accountable for, she will be perfectly charge the bill on someone else ! Be it blaming Devakshi for their Breakup or now blaming Dev for not taking Neha's responsibility.


More than Sonakshi, I feel sad for Dev to have grown up under such dominating, manipulative, obsessive obnoxious woman who has blind-folded him SO much that he can't even see how she has consumed all his soul and constantly refuses to acknowledge his any other identity with respect to anyone else in the world. She didn't let him act like a brother when he wanted to. Now she wants him to act like a brother as the almighty wants. Dev should do things exactly like how it pleases her. Disgusting ! 🤢
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ishwari, just like Dev, can never see their own deeds. At least, Dev admits his mistakes. Ishwari conveniently plays "pass-the-parcel" when it comes to taking responsibilities or pointing fingers. I personally feel that she is mentally imbalanced because I thought I detected inconsistent behaviour in her. I always knew that she was passive-aggressive. But she seemed a bit bipolar mixed with Borderline personality disorder.

She can't decide whether she feels sympathy for Sona or hate, whether she feels Dev has always done a lot for the family or has done nothing.

Like you mentioned, Dev didn't want Neha's marriage to happen. But Ishwari was in a hurry to kick her daughters out. Unfortunately Neha and Riya are too young to be married off. Otherwise, she'd have arranged for them to get married too.

My question in precap was what would Dev do in the middle of the night if his sister leaves her husband? What can be solved by keeping him up when he has to go to work the next day since there's no way in hell Ishwari will let him take a day off since Sona is here.

But after working all day, Ishwari expects Dev to solve Neha's issues in the night. What would happen if Dev solved it next morning after a good night's sleep? But that means the unpaid labourer will get rest. Ishwari can't have that. But if Sona had asked Dev to fix her family's problem in the middle of the night, Ishwari would have says exactly the opposite that Dev needs rest because he works hard.

She is just that contradictory. That's why I think she is a mental case.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Tia bingo ! Victory dance if someone from the creative team is indeed following your posts cuz then the quality of the show would be guaranted

Yes, I am happy Dev has echoed all our emotions in today's episode, that Sona's unilateral decision was indeed harmful for both of them. But the shocking part is Dev himself is such big hypocritic 🤪 In both the breakup case and reports case, he has decided it for both 😆 Anyways, the point is if mistakes and stupidity are returned with the same in a marriage, it indeed breaks 🤔

From each episode, you have pointed out some important aspects and provided the solution in the same post, which CVs have been following, so I request you to also please highlight this MAJOR concern from today's precap or yesterday's episode - burdening one child with too much of responsibility without considering for him wishing to have a normal life. Like this subtle approach of MIL-DIL tension, this is also a much prevailing problem which many of the sons face in a daily basis - sky-high expectations from them, specially from the eldest male child. Ishwari's again and again reminding Dev of his responsibilities, which mind you, he has been fulfilling quite flawlessly, of course is going to cause problems in Devakshi. For Dev it might be usual and in such cases, the boys don't even realize how tired they become of life in much young age, but it's the spouse of the man who has to see her man breaking down under the burden of extra responsibilities of a family without any complaints. It's much painful for the wife to see the whole family taking the man for granted, occasionally offering him rest and sleep which are integral part of a healthy long life. Watching Ishwari everytime reminding Dev of his responsibilities hits my raw nerve since I have seen few of my closest people suffer from this, some of them eventually move out with their immediate family (The son with his wife and kids). Ishwari is indeed one of the worst kind of mother one can ever have. When Dev was against Neha's marriage knowing Neha's nature, Ishwari's long long lecture was the reason he reluctantly gave in, and now that Neha's marriage is in trouble, the same Ishwari is right there to again taunt him for no reason. And then this woman has the guts to say she doesn't hold others responsible for her own mistakes. Who was more than happy with Neha-Ranveer's proposal other than the two involved in it ? How on earth can she poke Dev for it ! Create a mess for Dev and force him to clear it ! I dont know about the original Mahabharata, but the Star Plus version had one line during Panchaali-Paandav wedding track - Person who holds the right to order, doesn't have the right to be ignorant. It is more than valid in this case. Ishwari wants to have all the powerful rights with her, but it's time to take responsibility or to be accountable for, she will be perfectly charge the bill on someone else ! Be it blaming Devakshi for their Breakup or now blaming Dev for not taking Neha's responsibility.


More than Sonakshi, I feel sad for Dev to have grown up under such dominating, manipulative, obsessive obnoxious woman who has blind-folded him SO much that he can't even see how she has consumed all his soul and constantly refuses to acknowledge his any other identity with respect to anyone else in the world. She didn't let him act like a brother when he wanted to. Now she wants him to act like a brother as the almighty wants. Dev should do things exactly like how it pleases her. Disgusting ! 🤢

Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

Ishwari, just like Dev, can never see their own deeds. At least, Dev admits his mistakes. Ishwari conveniently plays "pass-the-parcel" when it comes to taking responsibilities or pointing fingers. I personally feel that she is mentally imbalanced because I thought I detected inconsistent behaviour in her. I always knew that she was passive-aggressive. But she seemed a bit bipolar mixed with Borderline personality disorder.

She can't decide whether she feels sympathy for Sona or hate, whether she feels Dev has always done a lot for the family or has done nothing.

Like you mentioned, Dev didn't want Neha's marriage to happen. But Ishwari was in a hurry to kick her daughters out. Unfortunately Neha and Riya are too young to be married off. Otherwise, she'd have arranged for them to get married too.

My question in precap was what would Dev do in the middle of the night if his sister leaves her husband? What can be solved by keeping him up when he has to go to work the next day since there's no way in hell Ishwari will let him take a day off since Sona is here.

But after working all day, Ishwari expects Dev to solve Neha's issues in the night. What would happen if Dev solved it next morning after a good night's sleep? But that means the unpaid labourer will get rest. Ishwari can't have that. But if Sona had asked Dev to fix her family's problem in the middle of the night, Ishwari would have says exactly the opposite that Dev needs rest because he works hard.

She is just that contradictory. That's why I think she is a mental case.


Bang on again ! It's been 3/4 days since we heard if Sona wakes up in the middle of the night, Dev's sleep would be hampered hence she should sleep outside.
But for Neha, Dev should stay awake whole night trying to do I-don't-know-what. 😛

So what if Sona is his wife, so what if Sona demands Dev to wake up just to please her in the middle of the night, all Sona's demands are invalid since she is still the same 'barsaati naala' who is having mausami marriage with Dev. But Neha-Ishwari-Niki-Rhea-GKB and the whole Khandaan are like Pacific Ocean which is SO deep and COLD that Dev has almost drowned in it by now 🥱.

This woman despises me like anything. I won't be shocked if she asks Sona what is she doing in her night-dress since she already told Sona the rules of the vrat 🥱.

This whole Dixit environment is SO suffocated by God, just by thinking to have such sulking face MIL terrifies me 😕 It looks more like a boarding school with a Hitler type principal 24x7 active to punish the kids 😡 Gosh !
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Tia bingo ! Victory dance if someone from the creative team is indeed following your posts cuz then the quality of the show would be guaranted

Yes, I am happy Dev has echoed all our emotions in today's episode, that Sona's unilateral decision was indeed harmful for both of them. But the shocking part is Dev himself is such big hypocritic 🤪 In both the breakup case and reports case, he has decided it for both 😆 Anyways, the point is if mistakes and stupidity are returned with the same in a marriage, it indeed breaks 🤔

From each episode, you have pointed out some important aspects and provided the solution in the same post, which CVs have been following, so I request you to also please highlight this MAJOR concern from today's precap or yesterday's episode - burdening one child with too much of responsibility without considering for him wishing to have a normal life. Like this subtle approach of MIL-DIL tension, this is also a much prevailing problem which many of the sons face in a daily basis - sky-high expectations from them, specially from the eldest male child. Ishwari's again and again reminding Dev of his responsibilities, which mind you, he has been fulfilling quite flawlessly, of course is going to cause problems in Devakshi. For Dev it might be usual and in such cases, the boys don't even realize how tired they become of life in much young age, but it's the spouse of the man who has to see her man breaking down under the burden of extra responsibilities of a family without any complaints. It's much painful for the wife to see the whole family taking the man for granted, occasionally offering him rest and sleep which are integral part of a healthy long life. Watching Ishwari everytime reminding Dev of his responsibilities hits my raw nerve since I have seen few of my closest people suffer from this, some of them eventually move out with their immediate family (The son with his wife and kids). Ishwari is indeed one of the worst kind of mother one can ever have. When Dev was against Neha's marriage knowing Neha's nature, Ishwari's long long lecture was the reason he reluctantly gave in, and now that Neha's marriage is in trouble, the same Ishwari is right there to again taunt him for no reason. And then this woman has the guts to say she doesn't hold others responsible for her own mistakes. Who was more than happy with Neha-Ranveer's proposal other than the two involved in it ? How on earth can she poke Dev for it ! Create a mess for Dev and force him to clear it ! I dont know about the original Mahabharata, but the Star Plus version had one line during Panchaali-Paandav wedding track - Person who holds the right to order, doesn't have the right to be ignorant. It is more than valid in this case. Ishwari wants to have all the powerful rights with her, but it's time to take responsibility or to be accountable for, she will be perfectly charge the bill on someone else ! Be it blaming Devakshi for their Breakup or now blaming Dev for not taking Neha's responsibility.


More than Sonakshi, I feel sad for Dev to have grown up under such dominating, manipulative, obsessive obnoxious woman who has blind-folded him SO much that he can't even see how she has consumed all his soul and constantly refuses to acknowledge his any other identity with respect to anyone else in the world. She didn't let him act like a brother when he wanted to. Now she wants him to act like a brother as the almighty wants. Dev should do things exactly like how it pleases her. Disgusting ! 🤢

I wanted to highlight the best points but every word is so true and right.
Ishwari has always used and played Dev.She has never let him enjoy and live life. She claims that she wants him happy, but she is only happy when his happiness is related to her.She just wants him as her puppet, doing only those things that she wants him to do and pleasing only her.Her attitude towards her daughters is disgusting, but she doesn't hesitate to use those daughters to suit her purpose.Suddenly she acts concerned about their rights, their happiness, their problems when Dev has always been more concerned for them.But how can she let him enjoy his married life?She just has to interfere and intrude🤢

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