CVs, are you stalking my posts? EDITED - Page 2

Originally posted by: tia.o

Bijoy and Ishwari have one similarity. Both agreed to the marriage for their children even though none of them wanted to.

But they have differences too. Ishwari has no reason to hate Sona and Bijoy has no reason to like Dev.

According to Bijoy, Dev hurt Sona and sent his mother to get her back.

Ishwari treats Sona as a toy, Bijoy doesn't treat Dev the same. It was a valid question today though which Dev could have answered that it was Sona's choice to fast.

Like I said, both of them should ignore their in-laws and live their own life.

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

She, on the other hand, is taking her decision on her own which also impacts her husband.

Wasn't that her biggest complaint with Dev when he took the decision to break up on his own, knowing very well that Sona never wants to leave his side?

"Aapne hum dono ki zindegi ka faisla akele hi le liya?" That's what she said.

Isn't it hypocritical of doing the same to Dev even if it's only for 9 days?

But didn't dev is hypocrite here ,I mean he hid her medical reports and didn't gave her chance to decide for marriage ,in the fear of losing her ,he has taken decision for both of them.😆😆😆.

Originally posted by: dikshat

Yes ur bang on Tia.
We can make others happy only when we are happy.
Trying to be somone else than what u r wil leave one nowhere.
U cant instantly become someone else in a moment and u cant be what u are ...

Firstly Sona didnt communicate things to him..blunder
Then she miscommunicated..another blunder

No wonder the writers very well showed a pre marriage date where both spoke abt how communication will b d most important. But its easier said than done.

Originally posted by: rose4ever

😆True.A lot of discussions on the forum do end up on the show.

I agreed with what Dev said to Sona today and that's what we've been saying all along. But another thing I felt today was Sonakshi's fear and insecurity.

Sonakshi has been trying to become the perfect bahu as if it's a competition she has to win anyhow to prove herself but I think that's not the only reason.Somewhere ,she also fears that the history would repeat itself and Dev would leave Sona if Ishwari so desires.But what she needs to do is talk about it with Dev instead of trying to please Ishwari.

As for Bijoy's behavior, I think the only reason to show that was to make Dev see things from Sonakshi's perspective.She is trying to please Ishwari and Dev would probably try to please Bijoy.

But what they both need to do is communicate openly with each other and strengthen their relationship before anything else.

Originally posted by: tia.o

<font color="#333366" size="3">They had personality transplant. Before marriage, Sona used to share everything and Dev used to give vague information. After marriage, Dev shares everything and Sona gives vague information.</font>

<font color="#333366" size="3">Before marriage, Dev wanted to be just husband and wife and Sona wanted to be both lovers and husband and wife.</font>

<font color="#333366" size="3">After marriage, Dev wants to be lovers and husband and wife, and Sona wants to be just husband and wife.</font>

Originally posted by: dikshat

Yes ...cannot agree more.

To add, I think Sona is not understanding that her independence wont be taken away if she shares things with Dev and they take mutual decision. She trying to manage everything on her own taking her independent tag along.
Irony is, she is trying to take decisions and do things on her own thinking she is independent enuf to di it bt she's loosing her independence by trying to be someone she is not.

Originally posted by: tia.o

<font color="#000099" size="3">Which was precisely my point that I repeatedly mentioned in my previous posts that if you have to change your personality and belief to impress someone, you will never succeed because even if they get impressed, they will be impressed with someone you are not and you will get tired trying to pretend to be someone else.</font>

<font color="#000099" size="3">If your own true self can't impress someone, nothing else will.</font>