Dev needs a psychiatrist-Revival. - Page 11

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

I loved the update @ Doctor..

I mean honestly I am shocked 😕 What are they showing ? Manipulating others' lives in Episode 4, still manipulating others' lives in Episode 132 😕 When is this disgusting man going to finally introspect his own actions ? Ever ? In Episode XXX->Infinity ? 😕

Below are some thoughts what today's episode provided me :

1. Throwing things violently around a woman while arguing = Emotional violence. Not encouraged.

2. Sona quite a few times got scared at his voice = Emotional violence. Crossing boundaries.

3. NO SHAME on his previous 'Kis Haq Se'. Had the audacity to talk about his rights over her.

4. No more 8-yr old kid. A 8-yr old kid is most innocent soul. Once he hurts someone, he goes out to the person he hurt and says sorry politely, offers flower and has REMORSE on his actions. Ask any 8-yr old kid around.

5. Does not think about what he did to Sona at all, and has the guts to point out Sona's mistakes.

6. Mamaji's gyaan is about Sonakshi which is hell annoying. Instead Dixits need to think about what they want. When they do, the actual face of reality filled with their gutter (no, it's not a typo of 'utter') selfishness and expectations will shock them like bloody hell.

7. Sona's false and fake promises to Rithwik.

8. CV's blunt try to show Sona's move-on try is actually a consequence of her break-up, that, ultimately her life and decisions revolve around Dev. I dont get this attitude of Indian Tele shows. A guy dumps a girl, even if they are the lead couple, why can't a girl take a mature decision on her own without any provocation from her ex ? Today's Sona's stand was that she needs some more time for her engagement, and tomorrow her decision is gonna be that she wants to do it immediately - what's the point ? That once you're in love, WOW all your decisions are driven by that one instinct? Even if it leads to emotionally cheat on someone indirectly, it's all fair ? Cuz it is LOVEEE ? Love my foot 👎🏼. Someone says it rightly, a partner indeed eventually pushes you up or drags you down to his/her level. Sona has become so self-absorbed in her impulsive promise to Dev, that she can't see why her decision is emotionally cheating to Rithwik. When you decide marry someone, the reason should be related to you or your family or your spouse or his/her family. If it's not, that's not a right thing to do anyways.

I'm on the verge of quitting the show😕. It's painful to see this show going nowhere. I initially signed up for the story, its approach, the lead's acting. Devakshi was a bonus. When the first essential points are lost, not sure why I should continue the crap.

Very disheartened. 💔

Originally posted by: NBT-BV

Most of the posts on this thread are presenting one side - female perspective. On the other side if you guys see - DEV is torn between his mother and GF.

Male love is different which very few girls understand though they pretend to understand (No offence intended). Psychologically most of the guys are just dumb about love - their understanding of love is just liking and attraction. Male love lacks empathy. Just to draw a fact - most of the guys get furious over their wives and GFs and many a times show cruelty - revenge (as DEv is doing here too).

How one can be so cruel to someone he loves. ????

A man generally understands the real love when they actually mature and its an irony that its normally the middle age. This is one of the main reasons for younger girls falling for married man in extra marital affair.

Originally posted by: ruchi3179

this I agree.men are really different and many are difficult to understand. There maturity comes late and that us also correct. I am telling by experience. But yes dev is behaving little bit more insane.however he was always like this .for only time with dona he became a good person.he also told several times that he wants to be a better person with her.but alas his impulsive ness made her go away and now he is not able to dirt it out what to be done. Basically he is immature .

Originally posted by: NBT-BV

Most of the posts on this thread are presenting one side - female perspective. On the other side if you guys see - DEV is torn between his mother and GF.

Male love is different which very few girls understand though they pretend to understand (No offence intended). Psychologically most of the guys are just dumb about love - their understanding of love is just liking and attraction. Male love lacks empathy. Just to draw a fact - most of the guys get furious over their wives and GFs and many a times show cruelty - revenge (as DEv is doing here too).

How one can be so cruel to someone he loves. ????

A man generally understands the real love when they actually mature and its an irony that its normally the middle age. This is one of the main reasons for younger girls falling for married man in extra marital affair.

Originally posted by: NBT-BV

Most of the posts on this thread are presenting one side - female perspective. On the other side if you guys see - DEV is torn between his mother and GF.

Male love is different which very few girls understand though they pretend to understand (No offence intended). Psychologically most of the guys are just dumb about love - their understanding of love is just liking and attraction. Male love lacks empathy. Just to draw a fact - most of the guys get furious over their wives and GFs and many a times show cruelty - revenge (as DEv is doing here too).

How one can be so cruel to someone he loves. ????

A man generally understands the real love when they actually mature and its an irony that its normally the middle age. This is one of the main reasons for younger girls falling for married man in extra marital affair.

Originally posted by: charminggenie

Ah, the perspective battle. Reason why people are talking about female perspective is because she is she is being stalked, her life decisions are trampled over and her right of privacy, personal will is taken away in the name of obsessing need of a d-bag ML.

Dev is not torn between his mother and his gf. He made his choice and decision, on his own without consulting his gf , he dismissed their relationship - only concentration on HIS POV. You see what he did there , focused on the Male perspective. 😊. Like Doc , mentioned somewhere, he is an adult who like you every eloquently put somewhere has a rags-to-riches story, who probably has had been in tense business moments and taken decisions on "impulse ", so it doesn't excuse him at all that he not only on impulse finished the relationship nor does it give him the hall pass to whatever shit he can in the name of male louu

Anger is an emotion everyone feels irrespective of the gender but it's the actions resulting from it that demands consequences , hence you have abuse- physical and emotional in case of marriages, relationships. What dev is doing here can be categorized under emotional abuse, because it is. It is not a male thing or this is how they are or this is what they lack. Nope, this is a d-bag MCP, controlling freak behaviour which a self-respecting woman or any individual should never bear.

Here it's not love because that emotion demands basic respect , some sense especially during hard times but not an elevated emotion which turns into harassment.If we look for excuses for this behaviour or turn to gender stereotypes to support the argument then I have nothing else to add here.

The point about men lacking maturity in love ,, sounds like mollycoddling but might be true , men like Dev seem to think from their dick instead. Lot of growing up to there , indeed.

Originally posted by: charminggenie

Ah, the perspective battle. Reason why people are talking about female perspective is because she is she is being stalked, her life decisions are trampled over and her right of privacy, personal will is taken away in the name of obsessing need of a d-bag ML.

Dev is not torn between his mother and his gf. He made his choice and decision, on his own without consulting his gf , he dismissed their relationship - only concentration on HIS POV. You see what he did there , focused on the Male perspective. 😊. Like Doc , mentioned somewhere, he is an adult who like you every eloquently put somewhere has a rags-to-riches story, who probably has had been in tense business moments and taken decisions on "impulse ", so it doesn't excuse him at all that he not only on impulse finished the relationship nor does it give him the hall pass to whatever shit he can in the name of male louu

Anger is an emotion everyone feels irrespective of the gender but it's the actions resulting from it that demands consequences , hence you have abuse- physical and emotional in case of marriages, relationships. What dev is doing here can be categorized under emotional abuse, because it is. It is not a male thing or this is how they are or this is what they lack. Nope, this is a d-bag MCP, controlling freak behaviour which a self-respecting woman or any individual should never bear.

Here it's not love because that emotion demands basic respect , some sense especially during hard times but not an elevated emotion which turns into harassment.If we look for excuses for this behaviour or turn to gender stereotypes to support the argument then I have nothing else to add here.

The point about men lacking maturity in love ,, sounds like mollycoddling but might be true , men like Dev seem to think from their dick instead. Lot of growing up to there , indeed.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

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@ charminggenie - while you leave ABSOLUTELY NOTHING for me to add here 👏 I have a question to NBT-BV -

This is one of the main reasons for younger girls falling for married man in extra marital affair.

If I understood it correctly, with age comes maturity in men and then they go have Extra marital affair ? 😲

I am not sure which went haywire - Maturity of those men having extra-marital-affair or my logic of deduction here ? 😕😆