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Posted: 9 years ago
#91
I loved the update @ Doctor..
I mean honestly I am shocked 😕 What are they showing ? Manipulating others' lives in Episode 4, still manipulating others' lives in Episode 132 😕 When is this disgusting man going to finally introspect his own actions ? Ever ? In Episode XXX->Infinity ? 😕

Below are some thoughts what today's episode provided me :

1. Throwing things violently around a woman while arguing = Emotional violence. Not encouraged.
2. Sona quite a few times got scared at his voice = Emotional violence. Crossing boundaries.
3. NO SHAME on his previous 'Kis Haq Se'. Had the audacity to talk about his rights over her.
4. No more 8-yr old kid. A 8-yr old kid is most innocent soul. Once he hurts someone, he goes out to the person he hurt and says sorry politely, offers flower and has REMORSE on his actions. Ask any 8-yr old kid around.
5. Does not think about what he did to Sona at all, and has the guts to point out Sona's mistakes.
6. Mamaji's gyaan is about Sonakshi which is hell annoying. Instead Dixits need to think about what they want. When they do, the actual face of reality filled with their gutter (no, it's not a typo of 'utter') selfishness and expectations will shock them like bloody hell.
7. Sona's false and fake promises to Rithwik.
8. CV's blunt try to show Sona's move-on try is actually a consequence of her break-up, that, ultimately her life and decisions revolve around Dev. I dont get this attitude of Indian Tele shows. A guy dumps a girl, even if they are the lead couple, why can't a girl take a mature decision on her own without any provocation from her ex ? Today's Sona's stand was that she needs some more time for her engagement, and tomorrow her decision is gonna be that she wants to do it immediately - what's the point ? That once you're in love, WOW all your decisions are driven by that one instinct? Even if it leads to emotionally cheat on someone indirectly, it's all fair ? Cuz it is LOVEEE ? Love my foot 👎🏼. Someone says it rightly, a partner indeed eventually pushes you up or drags you down to his/her level. Sona has become so self-absorbed in her impulsive promise to Dev, that she can't see why her decision is emotionally cheating to Rithwik. When you decide marry someone, the reason should be related to you or your family or your spouse or his/her family. If it's not, that's not a right thing to do anyways.


I'm on the verge of quitting the show😕. It's painful to see this show going nowhere. I initially signed up for the story, its approach, the lead's acting. Devakshi was a bonus. When the first essential points are lost, not sure why I should continue the crap.

Very disheartened. 💔
Edited by Pehchaan.Kaun - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#92
@Pehchaan.Kaun that's where I'm at too.

What I wanted from the show:

* Internal emotional conflict for Ishwari. Wishing the welfare of her son, but being unable to give him up. And this being handled in a mature way, with no devious, and frankly childish plans involved.

* First love and all the cute and fluffy cheesiness in it, AND how it turns into a rock solid relationship (even if not a romantic one) in the face of conflict based on the couple's understanding of each other.

* Strong, career oriented Sonakshi.

* Conflicted, but sorted Dev.

* A respect towards each other as individuals, even after break up.

* Mature and open conversations between the three pivotal characters.

What I instead got from the show:

* BJKT.

And if that's all I'm getting going forward, I'm quitting.
Edited by rope_and_anchor - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#93

Originally posted by: _Payalj_


Exactly, thanks God you guys were at Last able to understand love. 😆

All the shit you guys have written against a guy as romantic as poor Dev is because you don't have the maturity and understanding of true love which only a 15-16 year old can have 😆

After all the most important characteristic of love is good looks and money. A guy who has these qualities in spades has the right to act arrogant and be a world class Jerk. It makes him look hot. But again you guys are hopeless cases. 😡

Oh I understand now. I just hope (not) that I fall in love with a guy who treats me like a shoe and breaks up with me at the first sign of danger 😳


For understanding the purity and pain of Devs love you guys need to read minimum 10 Mills and boon a day. Only then you will be able to understand Dev and praise his eternal love for Sonakshi 😳

Mills and boon makes me swoon! I'm so going to read Durjoy Dutta from now on 😳

Till then please don't mock his love and support a character as heartless, insensitive, unfaithful and cruel as Sonakshi. 😡

Hate Sonakshi from the bottom of my heart. Disgusting girl! 🥱


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Posted: 9 years ago
#94

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

I loved the update @ Doctor..

I mean honestly I am shocked 😕 What are they showing ? Manipulating others' lives in Episode 4, still manipulating others' lives in Episode 132 😕 When is this disgusting man going to finally introspect his own actions ? Ever ? In Episode XXX->Infinity ? 😕

Below are some thoughts what today's episode provided me :

1. Throwing things violently around a woman while arguing = Emotional violence. Not encouraged.
2. Sona quite a few times got scared at his voice = Emotional violence. Crossing boundaries.
3. NO SHAME on his previous 'Kis Haq Se'. Had the audacity to talk about his rights over her.

This! He was the one to initiate break up and now he has the audacity to question her love. That's a new low.

4. No more 8-yr old kid. A 8-yr old kid is most innocent soul. Once he hurts someone, he goes out to the person he hurt and says sorry politely, offers flower and has REMORSE on his actions. Ask any 8-yr old kid around.
5. Does not think about what he did to Sona at all, and has the guts to point out Sona's mistakes.

He didn't think about what he did. Okay. But if he's so obsessed with Sona then atleast think about talking to your mom about it. Does he even know what he wants? He has no plan to convince his mom but he got all tricks in his bag to keep Sona single and never letting her mingle. Nonsense.


6. Mamaji's gyaan is about Sonakshi which is hell annoying. Instead Dixits need to think about what they want. When they do, the actual face of reality filled with their gutter (no, it's not a typo of 'utter') selfishness and expectations will shock them like bloody hell.

Worst characteristic of Dixits. They don't think about each other's feelings but are 'really' concerned about the feelings of outsiders who don't give a shit about their narrow and regressive minds. Mamaji has interacted like twice with Sona and he's the one to say that her happiness lies with Dev. Dude! Go check on your son and wife -_-


7. Sona's false and fake promises to Rithwik.
8. CV's blunt try to show Sona's move-on try is actually a consequence of her break-up, that, ultimately her life and decisions revolve around Dev. I dont get this attitude of Indian Tele shows. A guy dumps a girl, even if they are the lead couple, why can't a girl take a mature decision on her own without any provocation from her ex ? Today's Sona's stand was that she needs some more time for her engagement, and tomorrow her decision is gonna be that she wants to do it immediately - what's the point ? That once you're in love, WOW all your decisions are driven by that one instinct? Even if it leads to emotionally cheat on someone indirectly, it's all fair ? Cuz it is LOVEEE ? Love my foot 👎🏼. Someone says it rightly, a partner indeed eventually pushes you up or drags you down to his/her level. Sona has become so self-absorbed in her impulsive promise to Dev, that she can't see why her decision is emotionally cheating to Rithwik. When you decide marry someone, the reason should be related to you or your family or your spouse or his/her family. If it's not, that's not a right thing to do anyways.

I agree Sona's decision is not right and she took it on impulse, which is totally wrong but I also think that Dev's antics have driven her to this point. She is so sick of his stalking, interfering and lack of understanding that she just wants to move away from him as soon as possible. Yesterday, she tried to explain it to him that she was "trying" to move on and accept someone else in her life and it'd be great if he stayed out of her life but all Dev understood was that she still loved him and she still belonged to him. He fails to understand that she can't remain single all her life and wait for him to get over his feelings before moving on. This is not a competition.


I'm on the verge of quitting the show😕. It's painful to see this show going nowhere. I initially signed up for the story, its approach, the lead's acting. Devakshi was a bonus. When the first essential points are lost, not sure why I should continue the crap.

Very disheartened. 💔

Ditto! 🥱

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: rope_and_anchor

@Pehchaan.Kaun that's where I'm at too.

What I wanted from the show:

* Internal emotional conflict for Ishwari. Wishing the welfare of her son, but being unable to give him up. And this being handled in a mature way, with no devious, and frankly childish plans involved.

* First love and all the cute and fluffy cheesiness in it, AND how it turns into a rock solid relationship (even if not a romantic one) in the face of conflict based on the couple's understanding of each other.

* Strong, career oriented Sonakshi.

* Conflicted, but sorted Dev.

* A respect towards each other as individuals, even after break up.

* Mature and open conversations between the three pivotal characters.

What I instead got from the show:

* BJKT.

And if that's all I'm getting going forward, I'm quitting.


Thanks.

This sums up our expectations. What we got in return was crap!
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Posted: 9 years ago
#96
I just want to share something very important here because I think few most sensible people are taking a chakkar around this thread and would understand my pain 😆 ..
Once upon a time, there was a pathetic Ekta maiyaa show - Kasautii Zindagii Kayy where I hated the ML Anurag Basu who got her pregnant and then married another girl due to Mommy pressure 😆 And I loved the other lead who started off as what Dev is right now.. But I think Karma is taking a toll on me now 🤣 Dev is coming across as a hybrid product of both 😆 I dont know which version to love and which one to hate .. Today I can't help but appreciate Anurag Basu's character from KZK, who had immense grief and was ashamed of his actions, was so guilt-struck that he did possibly everything he could do to make her feel better.. The silent prayer for her, the inability to meet her eyes for failing their love, acknowledging her dreams as his own, and doing everything which would help her move-on... I never thought I would say this, but seriously, I wanted something similar for Dev 🤔 Probably I would have loved it now.. With age, comes maturity.. I understand that now 😒

Or am I just turning an aunty
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

I just want to share something very important here because I think few most sensible people are taking a chakkar around this thread and would understand my pain 😆 ..

Once upon a time, there was a pathetic Ekta maiyaa show - Kasautii Zindagii Kayy where I hated the ML Anurag Basu who got her pregnant and then married another girl due to Mommy pressure 😆 And I loved the other lead who started off as what Dev is right now.. But I think Karma is taking a toll on me now 🤣 Dev is coming across as a hybrid product of both 😆 I dont know which version to love and which one to hate .. Today I can't help but appreciate Anurag Basu's character from KZK, who had immense grief and was ashamed of his actions, was so guilt-struck that he did possibly everything he could do to make her feel better.. The silent prayer for her, the inability to meet her eyes for failing their love, acknowledging her dreams as his own, and doing everything which would help her move-on... I never thought I would say this, but seriously, I wanted something similar for Dev 🤔 Probably I would have loved it now.. With age, comes maturity.. I understand that now 😒

Or am I just turning an aunty



Hahaha! No you are not turning into an aunty. I've never seen KZK but I see what's your point and I completely agree with this. I wanted Dev to do one of the following thing:

1. Talk to his mom about her insecurities.

2. If he can't talk to his mom then he should have asked for some time from Sonakshi to sort out his issues with Ishwari. I'm sure Sonakshi would have agreed with that and we could have seen things shown in the initial promos.

3. If he can't do that either then he should have let her go and should have helped her move on in life, wishing the best for her.

4. Least preferred option but he should have married Sonakshi agianst his mom's wish and dealt with her insecurities after the marriage.

But look what he did, he turned into a crazy, obsessed psycho!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Doctor...


Updated:

So Dev finally showed his true psychotic rang! Wohooo.
Let's Google the best psychiatrist in Delhi and book an appointment for Dev.
What the hell did he mean by all the bullshit that he spewed on Sona? So what if she still loves him? Is he ready to marry her? Can he fulfill his hollow promises? If the answer is no then he better slap himself for being a jerk. Heights of stupidity!

Also, the creepy, scary, psychotic behaviour of Dev really proved that he has completely lost it. Sona should run miles away from this crazy obsessed man.



You said it all. Since people claim that Dev's 'imperfection' makes him real than let me add that in reality one also needs to get help (or reported to cops) if a person is like that.

I am waiting for CVs to turn Rithvik into an evil guy so that they can justify Dev's actions. Typical drama!


Edited by ..Khushi.. - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This thread seems to be the rocking place to be ...the show certainly has become a mockery
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

With age, comes maturity.. I understand that now😒[/DIV]

Or am I just turning an aunty<img src="http://yoursmiles.org/tsmile/tears/t2319.gif" alt="[/IMG]



I feel this. Oh, HOW I feel this. 😆 (Seriously. I would have probably been blind to/accepting of/IN AWE OF Dev's actions, and relieved that Rithvik could be negative, some mere seven or eight years ago. Life teaches you sht. And I'm GLAD it does.)

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