Originally posted by: AnnaPaquinFan
Ok, so one of the two things can happen.
Either Dev does some thing , takes some action.
Or he doesn't.
In case he does and the engagement doesn't happen , it'll be unfair with Rithik n his family.
( I;m a Bengali girl and take it from me , Ashirbaad is like 10 % marriage in our culture (OH SHIT :O), it's part of marriage rituals and in many families ,including mine, happens on the day of the marriage itself because it's a huge thing for a marriage to break after Ashirbad so better be sure that the couple gets married as soon possible after Ashirbad. gayi bhains paani mein😲
My paternal grandparents used to call my mother , " Bouma " means " Bahu. " after Ashirbad.
After this ceremony she was part of my father's family officially and belonged to them.GOD *facepalm* and I am hving solid feeling that this ashirwaad ceremony will happen ..dammit😲
Make no mistake, it's not mere exchange of jewelry , it's exchange of promises of a life time ) Great
So yeah I do get that it's not a matter of joke .
But I couldn't and wouldn't blame Sona .
Lots of people get married in less than perfect situation. In many bengali families marriage still happen as arranged marriage when the bride and groom are still complete strangers to each other . They build their lives around and with each other post-marriage and start from scratch.
And here we've a beautiful friendship between Sona n Rithik , which I think is sufficient for their marriage.
Suppose Dev never acts . No obstruction and the marriage had happened . What then ??
You think it'll fail ??
Absolutely not.
It'd take them years to reach there but R-S would've reached there. Sona would've eventually given herself completely to the marriage. That's just how she is. Who she is.
She has complete faith on her ownself that a few years down the marriage she'll do good by Rithik , n I've complete faith on her.
Meanwhile she's hiding absolutely nothing from Rithik and if he's ready to wait , then why not ?? It's between the two persons after all.
At least it's a mutual decision. 😉
what u said is 100% ..arrange marriage happens of these terms only and I dread that ..the only silver lining here according to me is their "love"..which isn't superficial and goes deep with in and sona isnt doing this in sane state of mind so she will repent it if she goes with it since she isnt ready for it from with in..so yeah I dont know if dev will do anything or not..but I hope it gets stopped anyhow sighh