Why the double standards?? - Page 3

Originally posted by: spacenoxx

So Dev is just another hot guy with money and typical attitude. Nothing special about him.

So much for all that jazz about a matured romance, when the male lead himself is a very immature individual even after falling in that so called matured love.

They will probably bring his char upto the speed on the last or penultimate episode. No journey, just warp from immature to mature in a couple of episodes.

Oh well..

Originally posted by: spacenoxx

A guy who gropes a girl in a bus but treats his sister with love and respect is still a person to be disgusted with.

Dev yells at Tina frequently, but bullies Sonas boss when he reprimands Sona for not doing her job.

He blackmailed Sona and bullied her hospital into sacking her.

Does this make him a bully or a complicated person?

Why do we have such double standards?

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Arey yaar why are you confusing characters with forumwaale..
Did we bash sonas boss as he yelled at her -- no right?? That is his character
So dev goes and yells at sonas boss-- again we didnt say we like it or not like it.. It is again devs character. He has always been like this.. He cant hear anything bad abt ppl he care abt.. If you want to call it double standards towards another mean boss .. So be it.. I am sure everyperson pn earth has double standards - degree may vary.. Unless that person is a saint..That is human nature

Originally posted by: dlavanya

You got it dude 👍🏼 😃 i have been screaming dev is childish in all my posts above..
It is a mature love story where the leads are not going to elope and marry... Hurting family sentiments.. They didnt say that it is the love story of matured people 😃
So yes devs character will grow over a period of time . So by end of the show you will see a better person still wont be perfect but much better than how he is now... Sam applies to all the three leads...
If they show all characters as matured and saints then there will be no story... Samjhakaro.. Also just keep reminding yourself that these characters are fictional and they are not your next door neighbors( i know the show is very close to reality but it is not real )...

So here i rest my case. Just came to office and have a bunch of meetings . May we meet on another thread 😊

Originally posted by: sappushivu

Double standards ...well, can you find a single individual who wld never have shown any trace of double stds ever? you can see it everywhere..in a "mother"..in a "best friend"..in a "boss"..in an mployee"...A mother, she scolds her child, she raises her hands on him...but will she tolerate someone else laying a finger on her child?? double standards eh !! ...you are upset with your best frieind..u abuse her and u cannot tolerate anyone else pointing a finger at her..again double stds huh?? and thats wat Dev Dixit is...one just among us...jus like the above egs. just like a mother, a boss..a friend..he tkes the authority to scold his loved ones but at the same time he cares for them deeply ( as we have heard earlier from his employees) to hear someone else shout at them..if thats being a hyptocrite..than every mother, ever friend is a hypocrite...

Why do i feel that you exaggerate thngs like our GKB...u make a mountain out of a molehill..just coz he loves his family..u call him a door mat..he cries twice..u call him rotlu...he doesnt tke a stand(wen he cldnt even stand up from bed)..you call him a moron and now just coz he scolds Tina and sonas boss you call him a bully...your points are actually valid to some extent . just that you exaggerate them like Ekta kapoor serials does to gain trp..here you probably just need attention..

Dex Dixit was always a flawed charachter right from the beginning and thats exactly why Sona had a hate relation with him..thats why even we considered him rude and agreed to Sona wen she called him Mr Obodhro..but gradually just like Sona, even we go a peek into his past..a peek into his golden heart..and we began loving him for what he is with all his imperfections..thats what makes him special..he is jus a confused charachter with good intentions ..someone who wants to please everyone but is unable to do so...

We are supporting his mistkes , we criticize him equally but whats the point in comparing him to a person who gropes a women in a bus?? isnt that just an attempt to thrash his charachter by making it look worse..just picking out his flaws which were there right from the beginning and making it look ugly? why do you always do it ..why cant we have some healthy discussions and some genuine constructivr criticisms?

Originally posted by: spacenoxx

Lavanyaji,

You know I love to have the last word😉😉

You said Devs char would grow. I think it's safe to say we are Midway and he is still the same Dev we saw in the first episode.

For him to become matured by the end he should start showing the signs already and the CVs haven't bothered to do that yet which is unfair to his char.

That's what my complaint is about.

I will let you live in peace now😃😃

Originally posted by: fanktlk

He didn't really bully Sona's boss... He asked about Sona.. the boss dismissed her as a nutritionist and asked him to ignore her.. that triggered a reaction. He called the Boss to discuss the business proposal...

It is impulsive behaviour... The way he tried offering the apartment to Ranveer... Then when things were explained to him, he thought it thru... Sona is his balancing factor that's why they are perfect for each other.

With time he will mellow down... Most of them do.

Originally posted by: spacenoxx

So Dev is just another hot guy with money and typical attitude. Nothing special about him.

So much for all that jazz about a matured romance, when the male lead himself is a very immature individual even after falling in that so called matured love.

They will probably bring his char upto the speed on the last or penultimate episode. No journey, just warp from immature to mature in a couple of episodes.

Oh well..