Creatives, please help me feel bad not mad - Page 2

Please cvs read this post and reward us!!! Dying for the moments you have mentioned above! Hope CV devtaa humari muraado ko puri karein!!

100 episodes of very beautiful journey and all sadness in the next episodes which is also managable but this madness of Ishwari is no no. I don't want this show to become a typical show. Please cvs don't disappoint us.

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

The problem here is that the writers have no idea what they want to do..Is Ishwari a crazy woman who has lost her head thanks to her intense insecurity and is in desperate need of psychiatric help OR is she just a mother who has really struggled in life and is insanely invested in her son and is finding it really tough to cope with the changes in his life? The main issue here is that they want to show the second version but they end up going with the first version and still expect us to look at her as a poor mother struggling with her feelings..You cant have the cake and eat it too CVs 😆 You have a fantastic actor on board..And Ishwari as a character had so much potential..You have now reduced her to a crazy woman who is off the rails and will do everything in her power to keep her son all for herself without an ounce of guilt..This will only get worse when you redeem her and make all the characters justify her actions..I can almost see Sonakshi giving a lecture on why Ishwari is not wrong and she understands why she did whatever she did once these two patch up after 50 or 100 or how many ever episodes 😆

There! I found your post 😃

You listed down everything - nothing to add and am at a loss of words with how Ishwari's character is being built up (or should I say built down!!)

Again, she seems to find new lows to bury everything into. She is beyond my understanding. Forget understanding, beyond any feeling for me to want to understand...
Obviously the makers feel that 'love for the parent' is divine & above everything so reason enough for the angst in the love story... But but but...

I am daring to hope slightly as they themselves seem to point to the hypocrisy from within the universe of the show (although shut down promptly now but makes me feel that there is a reason for this mess they are creating) - Neha's direct words...
Mama - I had hopes on but given up now. What's with the sudden change? He could show the mirror to his Sister earlier, why is he shying away now?

With the brilliant acting both Shaheer & Erica are doing, I am choosing to ignore (at least try to for few episodes) the unfathomable Ishwari...

How can a Mother be so blind?
Dev was obviously sad and Ishwari was obviously blind. They didn't camouflage this so its giving me little hope...

Originally posted by: Malvika07

Found it😃

You always manage to speak what I'm thinking!!

🤗 Yes we do, don't we? I mean react similarly to the episodes...

I was thinking the same exact thing. Yesterday a lot of our forum members had tears in their eyes after watching Dev and Sona cry miserably. But I was sitting there fuming at Ishwari. Her nonsensical behaviour is taking the focus away from my fav couple and it's getting on my nerves now. She has reached the point of no return for me. No matter what she does, how much she repents I don't think I can ever find myself to have the same respect I had for her in the initial episodes.

Exactly. They should realize that for the audience to feel the angst, the basis of the angst has to be established properly first. Because they made her "nonsensical" as you so rightly put it, we are expected to accept the other nonsensical things that arise on account of it, such as -

- Dev not even wondering why she does not like the relationship? What is lacking in Sona?

- Dev acting like a jerk in the break up scene

- Dev not doing what the Dev who used to confide in her and speak his mind freely with Sona would be expected to do i.e. discuss with Sona and accept that her non - acceptance has made him very unhappy BUT with a heavy heart they have to pause their relationship..

The CVs are making Shaheer potray such intense expressions so that the audience starts sympathising with Dev, and it's working. The whole forum's hearts are collectively melting watching Dev be miserable. But I would still need some more convincing before I can truly manage to forget the injustice done to Dev's character by the CVs. The 2 break up episodes shook me up. Even though I've had a lot of complaints with Dev I never expected him to have the reaction he had while breaking up. Him silencing her to talk softly as she tried to come to terms with what was happening was the most difficult moment for me to watch.

I guess the jealousy track and some more yearning for Sonakshi would probably help me sympathize with him more than I do currently.

Again we are of one mind on this I think. He is a grown man of 28. Seeing him pine is a good fist step. However, it has to be followed up with some action from his end to at least understand Ish and post that plan his next steps...

Along the way, I am all for jealousy. I know many on the forum feel it is disappointing that he needs to feel jealous to realize her worth but I have mixed views on this...

I love seeing jealous male leads. Yes, I am shallow that way so I know I will like seeing this track. Also, I have seen this with real life couples who separate because of family or reasons. They are sometimes able to take the step of pausing the relationship and stay away for some time from the person they love but find it very difficult to accept the ex moving on with someone else. I know of at least one couple that got back together for this reason. I think that is because till then there is some hope however unacknowledged at the back of mind but the possibility of the ex ending up with someone else ends that hope and prompts one to act.

Originally posted by: pkbdas61

I can empathize with you because i was also one of you. but then the path taken has rattled me so much that i have stopped watching KRPKAB on TV and now am hoping and praying that not Dev, Ishwari or Sona, but the CV's redeem themselves!

My apple iPAD has not seen any addition in episodes beyond 118, including those carrot Devakshi scenes towards the later part. For me, those and the current episodes just do not exist.

Originally posted by: desigirl987

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2" color="#0000cc">I really feel for u dear ... For past few episodes I am really mad at CVS for character assassination of Ishwari ... She is a complex character , but was not a negative character , but they are butchering her ... They had handled it well before , even during birthday saree incident we all felt bad for her not wearing the saree , but they had given us the reason for why Dev's gifted sarees hold a great emotion for her ... But for past few episodes I am not able to connect to her at all ... </font>

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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2" color="#0000cc">You cannot please everyone all the time ... Period ! At some point or other you are bound to disappoint someone ... And when those someones are you loved ones , it will be more excruciating ... But ur utmostdisappointmentis when u fail urself , when you are very well aware that you are wrong , but can't do anything about it but being helpless ... </font>

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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2" color="#0000cc">The guilt was killing Ishwari that whose happiness she valued the most , is now bringing her nothing but pain ... The more she tried to lie to herself , the more she was becoming another person , one she didnt even know existed in her ... In the hospital episode when she was talking to mamaji , I could feel her frustration ...</font>

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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2" color="#0000cc">Having said that , I was shocked that she could even pass a comment on their break-up next day ... "It may be right for everyone's (???) happiness "... I really didnt know whom she referred here ... I totally lost it now ... Least she could have done was to thank her for taking a good care of her and wish for a better life ... And today not even an ounce of guilt , when she talks about his break-up ... </font>

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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2" color="#0000cc">Sona was right "You would have been feeling better now "... Yes she may not have to pretend to be happy for them anymore , and doesn't even has to face her everyday, and to top it all , she is her son's top priority as always , and she got that assurance back ... She can rejoice in that moment of comfort , but she doesnt know it will pass soon ... She doesn't know yet , with this break-up her son's heart also broke , n its beyond repair ... And he had distanced himself from the only person who could heal him , for her ... </font>

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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2" color="#0000cc">She can try all she wants ,to be free of this guilt by trying to get Sona a good groom , or badgering Dev with love ... But all the sweetness of her halwa is not enough to eradicate the bitterness she brought in his life and fill the hollowness she created in his heart ...</font>

The CVs have made mistakes following her waking up but I wonder if it is because she is like a little kid isn't she. All this time she hasn't been the 'parent'. Dev has been a parent to her. She may have grafted to make ends meet but ultimately she seeked comfort from Dev. She is now not thinking with her brains but rather that a toy which was taken from her has now been given back to her.

However, I also can't help but think that perhaps like a kid she is naive and gullible. I actually don't think she knows that Dev broke it because of her. She is happy it's over but she doesn't know that Dev knew that she doesn't like Sona hence the break up.

I truly believe that she thinks they weren't compatible, she was right about Sona and it didn't last. Yes, the decision is to her advantage but there is a slight misunderstanding here:

1) Dev thinks she tried to commit suicide because he neglected her for Sona. We know that isn't true. She wasn't commiting suicide, it was just in the moment of wanting sleep that she ended up overdosing herself.

2) Ish doesn't know what Mamaji has gone and done. All she knows is what she heard from Sona and Dev.

She is in her delluded world yes but I genuinely think this is not her being heartless, just her rejoicing that it didn't work out. If she knows the real reason, she probably will die of guilt that her son sacrificed his love for her and we all know that day she will go begging to Sona.

Kat

Originally posted by: KK84

Please cvs read this post and reward us!!! Dying for the moments you have mentioned above! Hope CV devtaa humari muraado ko puri karein!!

Originally posted by: jlch

100 episodes of very beautiful journey and all sadness in the next episodes which is also managable but this madness of Ishwari is no no. I don't want this show to become a typical show. Please cvs don't disappoint us.

Originally posted by: bookworm123

<font color="#0000ff">Yes, hope we get those moments. What do we do about Ish though? Her character is really spoiling the party.</font>

Ultimately she is just a backward control freak! She wants to choose her bahu so then again Dev is being a good bachaa and following her decision which means that he will be connected to her thru her choice. Oops makes her sound very self centred.

I guess she will redeem herself the day she realises how much Dev loves Sona and the sacrifice he made of his love because of her. That will make her realise how much loves her and that she has nothing to worry about...till then, let's hope the CVs give us some passion and intensity!! Tho while they were together they couldn't, when they seperated I wonder if we hoping for a bit too much?! I want loads of scenes where they face each other, pine for each other, are close together with intensity and yet have to walk away from one another.

Sona needs to see how much Dev loves her and they need to show all this before the re Union. How even tho they not together, he will still fulfil all his promises by being her shadow almost.